It's so hard being a hero!

【tangerine】
Su Lan was twice summoned by the god of fate and reborn into a fantasy world of swords and magic, becoming a hero of the Starfall Continent, tasked with defeating the witch of desire.
He failed the first time and was erased from his memory, returning to Earth.
More than a decade later, at the age of 30, he was summoned again, and his previous memories returned.
But this time, he didn't want to go; he had died too tragically last time.
Not to mention this time, he's returning as a female hero.
I've turned into a woman? How am I supposed to flirt with girls now?
Okay, so the reason he couldn't beat her last time was because the Witch of Desire had a huge special attack effect on males, so the God of Fate turned him into a woman.
Why not just choose a woman?
The God of Fate: "Eh, this is a complicated issue."
Me: "Bullshit, I swear I'll never submit, I swear I'll never be a woman, I'll lie flat even if I go."
Unfortunately, I still went.
Thus, a stubborn female hero was born, but from birth she was determined to be a man, causing her friends to all think she was a man and to call her brother.
And how will she face her former companions, girlfriends, and daughter?
Ugh! This is so hard for me.