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Chapter 260 Not Preferring Sons to Daughters

"Cooking? But Brother Zhang, we usually eat out."

"I know." Zhang Zhe couldn't help but laugh: "Don't you think that cooking is something you can just do after you get married by hiring a housekeeper?"

"...I do have that thought."

"I understand." Zhang Zhe nodded.

"For a typical family, it's not a problem, but in your current situation, if you can cook and win a man's heart through his stomach, that would be a huge plus."

Many women don't understand one thing:
Everyone's marital and romantic situation is different, and each case must be analyzed individually.

People who can't understand this point often wonder, "If it works for other families, why doesn't it work for us?"

Zhang Zhe originally thought this girl would be smarter.

It still fell short of expectations.

"But... I can't cook." The girl said a little embarrassedly, "My mom does all the cooking at home. I've been living abroad ever since, so I haven't had a chance to learn."

"Yes, I understand. I was just giving an example. Don't be nervous."

"The advantage of cooking is that you can proactively help adjust your boyfriend's diet. For example, your boyfriend is currently suffering from insomnia and doesn't want to see a doctor, right?"

"Making a soup or porridge to help him recover might be helpful."

[We can prepare medicinal cuisine based on traditional Chinese medicine principles]

[Put yourself in my shoes: if my girlfriend could cook for me, I would definitely consider her the one.]

To win a man's heart, you must first win his stomach.

To be honest, I think for a eligible bachelor like her boyfriend, marriage is definitely about creating a warm home, and having a wife who cooks is a must.

[What era are we living in that women still have to cook? Can't men cook for themselves?]

She has so few strengths, Brother Zhang is trying every possible way to help her increase them.

Zhang Zhe has a little knowledge of traditional Chinese medicine. In fact, insomnia is generally classified into several types in traditional Chinese medicine, such as deficiency of both heart and spleen, yin deficiency with fire excess, phlegm-heat disturbance, and liver stagnation transforming into fire.

For each type, there are corresponding dietary adjustments.

Although some viewers argued that instead of going through all this trouble, they should just go to the doctor for a home visit, everyone agreed that if a woman could be this attentive, any normal man would be deeply moved.

Emotional value is more valuable than anything else.

"Now that you mention it, Brother Zhang..." the girl suddenly realized, "I'll go home later and ask my mom to teach me how to cook porridge."

"I saw in the comments that Poria and Yam Porridge can cure insomnia, so I'll cook this first."

“That won’t work.” Zhang Zhe rejected the other person’s idea, shook his head and said, “You still don’t understand the core of top-level emotional value.”

"The key lies in putting yourself in others' shoes and doing things personally."

"If you want to cook porridge for your boyfriend, you have to do your own research to figure out what's good, what's suitable, and what might be effective, instead of just following the advice in the comments to cook porridge with poria and yam."

"That's your future husband, not a guinea pig."

"Oh..." the girl responded with a slightly aggrieved tone. Judging from the sound she made, she knew how to act coquettishly.

"Okay, I feel like I've taught enough for today."

"Go down and digest your food properly."

"Okay, thank you, Brother Zhang. Can I ask you for help again if I encounter any problems in the future?"

"No need, just add me on WeChat. If you encounter any problems in the future, you can message me privately, and I will reply to you if it's convenient."

"Okay, then..."

"After I went back, I did as you said. What stage do we need to reach before we can talk about marriage again?"

[Stupid! Let the guy bring it up first!]

When you feel the time is right

To be honest, you're so much younger than him. In two more years, he'll be the one getting anxious.

I think it will be about six months before I can make another move.

“You were born in 98, so you’re 27 now…” Zhang Zhe gave a brief analysis: “I think it will be about six months from now.”

"Actually, based on my prediction, it won't be more than six months before your boyfriend takes the initiative to talk to you about this issue."

"Because if you do what I say, the man will clearly feel the change in you. If he's not stupid, he should understand what you mean."

"However, I need to make one point clear to you."

"The probability of a top finance professional not encountering any temptations from women at work is virtually zero." "You should probably think this through before you get married."

Zhang Zhe could figure out the problems on the guy's side, but he couldn't solve the problems on the girl's side, even though he was capable of doing so.

If she can't accept it, then there's nothing to talk about.

Even if you get married, you have to be prepared for divorce.

"Hmm." The girl sighed, "I need to think about this carefully after I go downstairs."

"go Go."

Zhang Zhe was also somewhat helpless.

The common approach to this situation is for the man and woman to maintain an understanding: the man separates work and family, doesn't bring them home, and thus ensures the woman's status as the head of the household.

I think she'll eventually give in, because she's unlikely to find another guy as good as him.

[This girl is quite outstanding herself, so why did she choose to date a scumbag in finance?]

He might not be a jerk; there are just a lot of temptations in his work environment. Do you really think he's sexually repressed?

"Wait, why are some girls in the comments saying that this girl deserves better? Are you serious?"

Zhang Zhe couldn't hold back when he saw one of the amazing comments:

"Do you think that girl is stupid? Even if she is, are her family stupid too? This guy is the kind of guy who fell from the sky."

"Believe it or not, her family and relatives will all advise her to seize the opportunity?"

"But if it's a best friend, it's not necessarily true. A best friend might actually advise her to find someone better next time."

……

Zhang Zhe glanced at the audience in the live stream; it already had over 5000 viewers.

He is already the top local streamer in Qing City.

However, I don't know how this list is calculated; it's possible that the spending of that young lady just now boosted it.

Then there's still room for improvement!
Zhang Zhe continued his live stream with the next person.

This time, the people who came on the microphone were finally doing a proper job of positioning themselves in the dating and marriage market.

"Hello Zhang, I was born in 1997. I have a bachelor's degree from a non-985/211 university and a combined master's and doctoral program at a 985 university..."

"My parents live in a small fourth-tier city and have regular jobs. I also have a younger brother who is 16 years younger than me."

"But my family doesn't discriminate against girls, and they will support me when I buy a car or a house."

Isn't this sexism?

[Undergraduate from a non-985/211 university, Master's and PhD from a 985 university, to be honest, you started working too late.]

[I've already demystified the female PhD student in Brother Zhang's live stream]

[Just report your IP address; we can tell if someone is sexist by looking at their IP.]

"My family really doesn't favor boys over girls." The girl got a little anxious after being told off by the comments: "If my parents favored boys over girls, they would have had more children when I was little."

"My parents don't work in the government, so please stop making wild guesses in the comments."

Zhang Zhe didn't stop the girl from arguing with the comments. First, the more fiercely she argued, the more attention she would get. Second, the more she said, the more information she would provide.

Clearly, this girl is very sensitive about having a younger brother.

Perhaps she was criticized in the marriage market because of this.

"Hey sis, you've graduated with your PhD, right?"

"Yes, I graduated last year."

"You've already started going on blind dates. Are you planning to settle down?" Zhang Zhe continued to ask.

"I only started going on blind dates this year, but I haven't met the right person yet, so I came here to ask."

"Okay, so to see if your family favors sons over daughters, we don't need to say so much, just look at this one point:"
"How much have your parents given you so far, including a house, a car, and savings?"

"Don't say 'we'll transfer it later.' When is 'later'? Is it on your wedding day, after they pass away, or after your younger brother gets married and starts his own family?"

Parents can't treat all their children equally, but if their daughter graduates with a doctorate, a little attention from the parents—buying her a car or making a down payment on a house—can show their attitude.

They buy nothing, keep everything in their hands, and let their daughters marry on their own merits, leaving everything to their younger brothers... Even without the idea of ​​favoring sons over daughters, it's practically the same.

(End of this chapter)