If you were cold and aloof in your past life, why are you crying in this one?

[Rebirth + bittersweet entanglement + male protagonist regains his memories later in the story]
A cunning, aloof, and powerful minister versus a bright, passionate, and independent noblewoman.
Xi Lingxian came from a military family. Her mother died early, but fortunately her father cherished her and raised her to be innocent and carefree, making her happy in everything, including her marriage.
The eldest son of the Langya Wang clan, a man of exceptional talent and refined character; Lingxian was captivated by him, her love lasting a lifetime; in the prime of her life, she married him without hesitation, accompanying him through the ups and downs of officialdom to the highest ranks of the court.
However, he always treated her with indifference and coldness, rarely showing any warmth; moreover, he was focused on planning for the future of his family, and the couple rarely saw each other. Lingxian thought that this was his nature, and being understanding, she never complained. However, a man who possesses fame, fortune, and power is never short of admiring and infatuated eyes, but Lingxian could never learn to be tolerant and generous. She had countless hysterical arguments and tantrums because of this, but he saw her as a madwoman.
In her second life, she returned to a time when she could choose again. Recalling the pain of her past life, she resolved to choose a gentle and obedient husband for herself.
But the ruthless and decisive patriarch of her past life relentlessly pursued her, clinging to her tightly even though he didn't love her.
Reading Guide: ① Double C, He
②Imitating the style of the Wei and Jin dynasties, neither the male nor female protagonist is perfect, and there are relatively few overpowered abilities.
③The male lead initially has a villainous, powerful minister-like personality; he's very cunning.