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Chapter 30 The Contrast Between the Streamer's Bag
"These viewers think too badly of me. I'm a perfectly good person, chatting with girls in the middle of the night."

"And he doesn't want anything in return."

"Come on, young lady, let's chat. Did you look at my qualifications during the day? Should I introduce myself?"

The only drawback of broadcasting from a mobile phone is that it's inconvenient to display subtitles on the screen.

Fortunately, there were many kind people in the live stream, and with everyone contributing a comment, they were able to clearly explain Zhang Zhe's situation.

[The anchor hates women]

He's 30 and still unmarried; it might be a health issue. Be careful, little sister.

This guy was a programmer, but he got laid off and now he's acting as a matchmaker.

The streamer has already driven away seven or eight girls during the day. They all came in smiling but left gritting their teeth. Figure it out yourself.

"My situation is pretty much what the comments on the live stream described."

"The only thing I need to explain is that I am in very good health, without any problems at all. I am the kind of woman that rich women would be envious of."

"And you, young lady?"

"I...I'm not as good as you." The girl on the video call was very downcast, and her expression could be described in one word: dejected.

"I am about 1.54 meters tall and weigh 107 kilograms. Because I work out, I have some muscle."

The woman revealed quite a lot of information as soon as she opened her mouth.

People whose weight is accurate to the kilogram describe their height as "approximately"?
It's obvious she's under 154cm, probably just over 1.5m, or even shorter.

At this height, if he's a bit thin, he'll be mistaken for a middle school student in a crowd; if he's a bit chubby, he'll look like a potato bomb.

The woman is clearly the latter.

She is very concerned about her height and weight, and understands her disadvantage in the marriage market, which is why she works out and is so precise about her weight.

How long do you usually work out?

"It should have been 7 years."

Are you into fitness or bodybuilding?

"Working out is just going for a run after work, occasionally lifting dumbbells and taking photos; bodybuilding is like Arnold Schwarzenegger, with a pointy head."

When Zhang Zhe was in college, there was a girl in the school who was in the bodybuilding circle. According to her classmates, she would inject herself with testosterone in order to build muscle, and eventually she even grew chest hair.

The thought of that scene is disgusting.

"I work out, I don't use any drugs." The woman's expression was very honest when she said this, and although her face didn't have much excess fat, it wasn't too masculine either, so it was highly likely that she hadn't used any drugs: "I mainly train my glutes and legs, I do a lot of strength training."

"That's alright, you can go on blind dates." Zhang Zhe nodded, gesturing for the other person to continue: "So what makes you doubt whether you should still go on blind dates?"

"It's probably because of my past relationships."

Have you met a jerk?

[It was probably plunged off a cliff.]

Talking about past relationships on a blind date? This woman's not thinking straight.

[She probably found her boyfriend at the gym, right? He dumped her because he had someone better.]

This girl is short and stocky, so it's already hard for her to find a partner.

Zhang Zhe looked at the girl's expression as she spoke; she looked like she was about to break down. She must have encountered a major obstacle and was having trouble getting over it.

I originally thought this part about my romantic relationship could be skipped.

Now we have to listen to it.

However, Zhang Zhe first asked, "How old are you this year?"

"29, I'll be 30 soon."

“I understand. It’s definitely time to think about marriage. I’m 30 too, and I can clearly feel that once you reach this age, it’s like the whole world is urging me to get married.”

"Yes, yes, me too." The woman nodded repeatedly: "My parents are also quite anxious, mainly because the people I've met before haven't been very good."

“I’ve had three relationships before.” “The first one started when I graduated from college. He was the same age as me. We dated for three and a half years and had already met each other’s parents. Then one day, he suddenly went back to his ex-girlfriend and said that he still loved his first love.”

"After this experience, I started to distrust men a little."

"The second relationship was with an older man from Jiangning. He was eight years older than me. We broke up because we found there was a big generation gap between us."

"The last part was about a student who was doing his master's degree at Sheng Hai. He told me that he was going to take the civil service exam and stay in Sheng Hai with me. But after graduation, he didn't take the exam and went straight back to his hometown."

Who are these people you're talking to?

I understand her now. If I were in that situation, I would also doubt love.

Sister, this isn't your fault; you just had bad luck with men.

This woman is extremely self-centered.

The girl on the other end of the video call started to sound a little choked up as she spoke, sounding extremely aggrieved.

After hearing about the other person's three romantic relationships, Zhang Zhe's expression became complicated.

The other party's statement was too evasive and downplayed the main points.

That's too idealistic of her.

While I was describing my romantic history, the system kept popping up information.

Although it's all low-value intelligence, it contains all the truth.

[Your blind date, Zhou Yue, broke up with her first boyfriend because they couldn't agree on the bride price and dowry. Zhou Yue's parents demanded that the man buy a house in Shenghai outright, which he couldn't do since he had only recently graduated from university.]

[Zhou Yue's second breakup was because she couldn't accept the man's daughter. She originally thought she could be a stepmother, but the daughter and she didn't get along, and every time they met they ended up arguing, so they had to break up.]

[Zhou Yue's last breakup was because her boyfriend failed his civil service exam, and they had a big fight and parted ways on bad terms.]

Compare the intelligence reports with what the woman said.

Zhang Zhe gained a completely new understanding of the girl on the other end of the video.

At the same time, I also gained a deep understanding of what it means to "not comment without knowing the whole story".

Some viewers were actually quite clear-headed and didn't take sides directly, but instead concluded that "the girl is very self-centered."

Based on Zhang Zhe's intelligence, isn't that obvious?

"Let me share my feelings after listening to it."

Zhang Zhe organized his thoughts. This girl wanted to be scolded to wake her up. Although he wouldn't actually scold her, some things definitely needed to be said sharply:
"After listening to your three experiences, it seems that you are looking at the issues from the perspective of a victim, as if your three ex-boyfriends were enemies in your past life and are here to take revenge on you in this life."

"The chances are not nonexistent, but they are extremely small."

"Just like the comments said, you are very self-centered, and all the mistakes are other people's faults. You are not wrong at all. Maybe you are not wrong, but judging from your choices, you obviously have not learned your lesson."

"Especially your last relationship. You've been working for so many years, and you still want to date a graduate student? Are you after her youth? Youth inevitably means instability, can't you realize that?"

“You know your situation better than I do. When you get older, if you find an unstable partner to date, and then blame them for not keeping their promises, it will only make you feel better. It’s meaningless.”

"You're just paying the price for your wrong choices."

[The host is good; their analysis hits the nail on the head.]

I always felt something was off about this girl, and now that I hear it, it's true. She had a completely wronged attitude, but the problem is, she chose the wrong person.

This girl is simply not thinking straight.

"I...I might actually have a problem."

The woman lowered her head after Zhang Zhe's words, and her expression became even more dejected.
"But I don't know what the problem is, and no one around me has told me about it."

“You can’t always rely on others.” For the first time, Zhang Zhe felt dizzy listening to someone speak. This girl was really clueless: “You have to figure out for yourself what kind of people are suitable for you and what kind are not.”

“I feel like you’re using an exhaustive approach, trying different types of guys: your peers, older men, students.”

"Then you're in luck. There aren't many other types of guys, but there are many types: domestic abusers, mama's boys, gigolos, PUAs, domineering CEOs..."

(End of this chapter)