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Chapter 256 Missed the Point

"Brother Zhang, are you trying to say that he's afraid of women who make false accusations?"

"I'm not that kind of person."

"That's not important, don't worry about it." Zhang Zhe waved his hand and said, "The important thing is yourself. Is this guy you met on a blind date someone you think is a suitable marriage partner?"

"From what we've seen so far, we do seem to be a good match."

"Did you have any physical contact with your ex-boyfriend when you were together?"

"Well... of course there is."

"Then why didn't you take the initiative when you met this guy on a blind date?" Zhang Zhe asked, spreading his hands.

“You shared your dating experiences with him, letting him know that you are not a chaste and virtuous woman, but when it was his turn, you were not even willing to take the initiative to hold hands.”

"No matter who comes, they'll think you didn't like him."

"Then why isn't he running away?"

Actually, she still didn't like him.

That guy was a good match in terms of circumstances, but it hadn't reached the point where she took the initiative.

To put it bluntly, she wants men to fawn over her, and for her to be the master.

Men aren't stupid. You've already been with scumbags, yet you're still putting on airs in front of him.

"But when I initiate a conversation with him, he's lukewarm at all!"

"Because he had already given up on you by then."

“He’s already given up, so replying to your messages is already very polite. Normally, he would just block you.” Zhang Zhe patiently explained, “You don’t think he’s using a feigned retreat as a tactic to advance, do you?”

"Where does a 33-year-old finance professional with an annual salary of 50 yuan find the time and energy to slowly deal with a 30-year-old bank teller?"

"Oh, so you're not going to work anymore, and you're spending all your time figuring out how to win me over?"

"That's not what I meant..." the girl said, sounding a little aggrieved. "It's clearly because he didn't take the initiative, so why is it being blamed on me?"

"Because it's you who's upset about it."

"I do not have."

"Hmm?" Zhang Zhe asked in confusion.

That's such a low-level lie.

She just couldn't figure it out, and was so anxious she was going around in circles.
The girl explained, "I'm not upset, I just want to know why, why everything suddenly changed."

"I just can't figure it out..."

"There's no point in dwelling on this," Zhang Zhe shook his head.

"Sister, you've got the point wrong. Even if I told you now that the guy is busy with work, that he's two-timing you, or that he's a pervert..."

"What's the use anyway?"

"They spent two months with you and met seven times, but in the end they gave up the opportunity to continue seeing you. They must have completely figured it out and thought you two were not a good match."

[Unbelievable! I've asked her out several times and she hasn't responded. She's 30 and still acts like she's a virgin.]

[Saving Money: My past relationships were wild, but that doesn't stop me from being a traditional girl. You'll have to take your time to win me over.]

That's just how slow-to-warm-up girls are.

[You can tell from her voice that this girl really wants to turn over a new leaf.]

This girl likes bad boys, the kind who try to touch her inappropriately after only two dates.

"Do I have to take the initiative?" The girl sighed. "But we're getting married. If I take the initiative, what will happen to my status in the family..."

"Stop, stop, stop!" Zhang Zhe couldn't hold back any longer.

"Don't think about it too much. I'll tell you straight now, that guy has already filtered you out. In his opinion, you're not suitable to be a wife."

"If you're curious about the reason, just ask him."

"If you're too embarrassed to ask yourself, then have your parents ask them."

"If you don't want to, then just keep it to yourself."

Zhang Zhe finished speaking in one breath, feeling quite satisfied. Online consultations are definitely better; you can say whatever you want directly.

Clearly, the girl on the video call hadn't expected Zhang Zhe to be so direct, and remained silent for a while before replying, "Okay, thank you, Brother Zhang."

"I see."

"If I meet someone suitable in the future, I will take the initiative myself."

"Now, I don't have a chance, right?"

"Look at you, asking me again." Zhang Zhe said helplessly, "Don't you have a chance to ask that boy directly?"

This woman has something wrong with her brain.

[Didn't she do her bachelor's and master's degrees abroad? Foreigners are so straightforward, why doesn't she learn from them?]

I don't understand why we have to beat around the bush with our blind date; it's not like we're dating.

[It took two months to filter this girl out? If it were me, I could have filtered her out in three days.]

If Zhang Zhe were to analyze it properly, this girl has a chance to win him back, as long as she takes the initiative to ask him out again.

The fact that the man could persist for so long, knowing that she had dated a scumbag and had studied abroad, shows that many of her qualities already met his requirements for a wife.

At least in terms of appearance, there's definitely no problem.

If the girl takes the initiative at this point, the guy will most likely be manipulated.

However, this is only a probability.

Zhang Zhe generally doesn't give direct advice on things he's not 90% sure about; he just gives a general direction.

"Sister, you're 30 years old, and you don't have many opportunities left to take the initiative."

"Being proactive may not solve the problem, but at least it will let you know where your problem lies."

"To say something you might not like to hear, when you're 35 or 40, if you take the initiative with a guy again, he'll be scared."

Hahaha, let's snatch some bamboo shoots!

It's true, older women who take the initiative usually don't bring good things.

What Brother Zhang said is really true.

In my opinion, happiness in love comes from taking the initiative.

[Her problem isn't that she takes the initiative; her problem is that she only takes the initiative with scumbags.]

"Yes, thank you, Brother Zhang. I really understand now."

I hope you're not lying to yourself.

Zhang Zhe managed to hold back his laughter this time.

This girl's inexplicable insistence on going on a blind date, while somewhat humorous, is not hard to understand; many girls are raised this way.

In addition, she wasn't stubborn, and although she liked to tell a few small lies, it was still within an acceptable range. Therefore, Zhang Zhe's attitude towards her was: mainly encouragement, with suggestions as a secondary measure.

After the girl finished speaking, Zhang Zhe answered several questions from the live chat:
"Why did that guy know she had just dated a jerk, yet still agree to go on a blind date with her?"

"Because he can accept this kind of thing, it's that simple."

"My friends analyzed that it's because the woman's family is well-off, and the guy is marrying above his station, but that's not necessarily true."

“When the two first met, the woman was clearly keeping a ’fish’ (i.e., having affairs), a behavior that usually only occurs in pretty girls.”

"This woman's model must be pretty good. She can attract scumbags, and there's no need to worry about the X-tension aspect. If a guy is willing to contact her, it's because he's attracted to her face."

[Has no one found this girl's photo in the comments yet?]

The girl's account has been found: @东百雨姐

That guy must have had some expectations, which is why he didn't make a move.

[The guy seems pretty smart. This girl clearly wants to reform herself. If he makes a move, she'll probably get hooked.]

The guy on the blind date, which is recognized by the experts in the comments, is indeed skilled, but in reality, he's just not letting his small head control his big head.

When you meet a woman you're meeting on a blind date, it's always best to control yourself.

(End of this chapter)