Live-streamed dating: My information is constantly updated

Chapter 255 No Physical Contact
That NPD girl went on a killing spree? How could such a thing happen?
Zhang Zhe looked at the information provided by the brothers and sisters in the live broadcast room and found that it was actually a bit exaggerated.

That girl has only connected with four colleagues so far.

The same narcissism, the same stubbornness, and the same betrayal of Zhang Zhe...

Looking at the barrage of comments, Zhang Zhe felt a little like thanking her.

This is really effective at attracting traffic.

It seems everyone wants to see which streamer is so shady as to bring out that extraordinary person.

Is this the most realistic business battle?

"Let me explain to the guys in the live stream: I did ask that girl to ask other matchmakers, but she just wouldn't believe me."

"But I didn't expect her to be so stubborn; she doesn't believe anything anyone says."

"Brothers, you can also keep an eye on her and see how many dating and marriage content streamers she will ruin. I'll make a compilation later."

"Alright, let's connect with our first viewer today."

Zhang Zhe understood that you have to give these viewers the content they want to see as soon as possible, otherwise they'll leave immediately.

What he can offer is, of course, the expertise of a live-streaming co-host.

"Hello, hello, miss, you're on the mic now."

Can we talk using our microphones?

"Good evening, Brother Zhang." The girl was very self-aware and immediately started stating her conditions:
“I was born in 95. I did my bachelor’s and master’s degrees abroad. I’m currently working at a state-owned bank in Tianjin. My income is not high, and I don’t have any direction for my future development.”

"In terms of personal image, I have a mature and sophisticated look, and my appearance is above average. However, once I fall in love, I become very feminine and a bit love-struck."

"It's completely different from her usual aloof demeanor."

“I just ended a not-so-pleasant relationship last month. We dated for about half a month, but the guy was a jerk and crossed some lines, so we broke up.”

"Right now, my family is arranging blind dates for me..."

Zhang Zhe highlighted the key requirements for the girl and wrote them down on the whiteboard:
Bachelor's and Master's Degrees from Lesser-Known Foreign Universities

[Grassroots employees of state-owned banks]

My ex was a jerk; we broke up after only two weeks of dating.

[A mature, sophisticated appearance, but a gentle, feminine personality]

All these points combined make her image quite clear:
She returned from studying abroad and became a bank teller through her family's arrangement. She's not exactly a model citizen; her clothes and appearance attract scumbags—the kind of older, promiscuous woman. She might have a very wild lifestyle in private.

This type of woman often frequents bars on weekdays, and occasionally she'll be spotted on the street.

Of course, these are stereotypes.

There are always exceptions, and Zhang Zhe wouldn't condemn someone outright.

Moreover, this girl didn't come to ask about her ideal partner.

Her current confusion lies in other areas:

“My family introduced me to a guy who is 3 years older than me. He works in finance and earns about 300,000 to 500,000 yuan a year. His parents both work in the public sector.”

"The downside might be that his parents' relationship isn't very harmonious."

"But I don't think that's very important. He's a really nice person."

“We spent about two months together. During that time, we would eat and watch movies together, but there was no physical contact between us.”

“After we last met last Friday, he never contacted me again, and he stopped replying to my messages. His attitude changed completely, making me think that he had changed partners.”

"I do not understand……"

Trust your judgment; it's a change of personality. He's now a normal man, not a coward.

Perhaps you're too aloof, making him lose hope.

[You haven't let him touch you for two months, he'll definitely be more obedient next time]

[It's a change of speaker; the next person seeking consultation can come on stage.]

Zhang Zhe also noted down the man's qualifications. Based on the hard criteria presented so far, this guy was indeed quite good. In the matchmaking market, his qualifications were considered very good.

The fact that a guy like that can go on blind dates with a girl and meet her multiple times suggests that she's the kind of mature woman who has suitors, and her appearance is definitely competitive.

But as he wrote, Zhang Zhe realized something was wrong.

The time doesn't match up.

She dated the man she met on a blind date for two months.

However, she and her ex-boyfriend only broke up last month.

Time overlapped.

"No way, sister, how can you go on blind dates and date at the same time?"

Zhang Zhe circled the times on both sides:
"Your ex-boyfriend was a jerk, but you're no less so, cheating on him with two men at the same time?"

"No, this plot is actually a bit surreal," the girl explained. "When I met him, he knew I had a boyfriend."

"So we were just ordinary friends at first, we added each other on WeChat to get to know each other, and he knew that I broke up with the jerk and that I wasn't at fault."

"Unexpectedly, my family suddenly sent my resume to him. What was supposed to be a normal friendship suddenly turned into a blind date arranged by my family."

This is hilarious!

[The guy she was set up with on a blind date was originally her pet fish, but suddenly he started going on blind dates with her; it's kind of funny.]

Isn't this embarrassing? He knows about your affair with that jerk.

Now I understand why there's no physical contact: because guys think it's dirty.

Is it possible that this was just a polite blind date, and he didn't actually like you?

"Sister, based on your own experience, why do you think he suddenly stopped talking to you?"

"I think it might be because I'm too passive."

At Zhang Zhe's request, the girl first did a self-analysis:
"As I've mentioned before, I tend to be a bit aloof when I'm not in a relationship, and I might not give him enough feedback."

"But the boy himself didn't take the initiative."

"That's right, he never initiated holding hands or any other physical contact. In my opinion, he didn't try to advance our relationship..."

“I understand.” Zhang Zhe nodded: “You do think you’re being a bit aloof, but the guy isn’t taking the initiative, so it’s his problem.”

"do you mean this?"

"It's not that it's his fault, it's just that he never took the initiative, so why did he give up?" The girl was a little confused: "I never rejected him."

He may have hinted at it, but you just didn't realize it.

I suspect the guy probably did some research into your dating history and then ran away.

Is it possible that your ex-boyfriend leaked your video?

Why don't you just ask the guy directly?

She was definitely just putting on an act; when someone tried to be friendly but got cold shoulders, of course she'd run away.

Zhang Zhe didn't rush to conclusions, but continued to ask:

How many times did you meet in total?

"Seven times in total."

"Did he show no inclination to reach out to you at all during these seven visits?"

"Yes." The girl said with a hint of regret, "Besides eating and watching movies, I also went to his house, and he came to my house to help me install the new furniture I bought."

"But he didn't even think about holding my hand."

"I don't understand at all."

“This is actually quite easy to understand,” Zhang Zhe explained to the boy. “Given the current environment, he probably just doesn’t want to go to jail.”

(End of this chapter)