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Chapter 235 Accepting Shortcomings
“I’m definitely aiming for marriage.” The woman nodded, her expression serious. “But I don’t want to be the kind of woman who’s kept by a sugar daddy.”

"Nobody talks to you about being kept by a sugar daddy."

"This is a live-streamed matchmaking session, but I'm talking to you about marriage."

“But those bosses…” The woman hesitated, as if afraid that if she said it, Zhang Zhe would stop analyzing for her.

"It's nothing. Tell me, what's wrong with those bosses?"

“I felt like they just wanted to find a woman to play around with. I rejected them, and they immediately went to pursue other girls.”

"What do you mean? You rejected them, so they're going to keep pestering you and even kneel down to beg you?"

"Or will I remain unmarried for life, waiting for you to change your mind?"

Zhang Zhe couldn't help but laugh. This girl's mentality was very typical. She would first assume in her mind that the boy's intentions were impure, and then try to prove herself right based on what she observed later.

Girls like this usually have low self-esteem and internal struggles.

"No, it's not that, but I just feel... a little uneasy." The girl shook her head, her tone becoming less firm.

"I don't think there's anything wrong with them. Many men who become rich just want to find a beautiful wife, especially those guys who suddenly become rich within one or two years."

"They may not necessarily be bad people. So far, I've only seen guys who were cheated out of money by women and jumped off buildings. I've never seen a girl come out and accuse such men of being scumbags."

These kinds of men are generally quite generous, and women who take the money don't really have much of a say in it.

My boss is like that. He made 20 million a year, but ended up dating a flight attendant. I really don't understand him.

These men are generally chauvinistic and don't have high requirements for women, but they must be beautiful.

To put it bluntly, just find a first-generation entrepreneur who's obsessed with looks.

“But…” The girl rolled her eyes and thought for a moment, trying to figure out how to refute Zhang Zhe.

It was obvious that the man Zhang Zhe had drawn for her was someone she had met before, but had rejected.

So now she needs to make amends, otherwise she'll look incredibly stupid.

"But even if I marry a man like that, the marriage might not last long, right? When I get old, he might find someone younger."

“Men are very loyal; they’ll always like 18-year-olds.” Zhang Zhe couldn’t help but laugh, but considering Xia Yi was around, he added, “But liking someone doesn’t mean you have to get married.”

"If someone is attracted to you because of your looks, and you get married but still leave them because of your looks in the end, it means that besides your looks, you have nothing that they would want to stay with you."

"If that's really the case, to be honest, even a god can't save you."

"..." The woman pursed her lips, clearly stung by Zhang Zhe's words.

Zhang Zhe has already put it very bluntly.

This girl's advantage is definitely her looks. Whether it's makeup or not, the fact that someone is willing to pursue her means that her looks are in demand.

At this point, what she needs to do is to identify those among the men pursuing her who are interested in marriage and get to know them.

Instead of simply rejecting them.

"Sister, remember this."

"The other girls in the live stream can listen too."

"If you have a high ceiling for dating but a low ceiling for marriage, for example, you are good-looking, have a good figure, or are good at charming men, but have a very poor family background."

"The best way is to pick the guy who is the most suitable for you and who is willing to marry you from among the guys who are pursuing you, because it's like winning a lottery."

"If you were to go on a blind date, the best guy among those you meet might not even be among the top contenders for you."

"Of course, some smart people might ask, what if the people pursuing you aren't suitable for marriage and just want to sleep with you?"

"I think at this point, you should look in the mirror and see if there's something wrong with you."

Perhaps Zhang Zhe's tone was a bit harsh, because the girl on the live stream immediately offered an explanation:
“I feel like there’s nothing wrong with me. Among the guys who are pursuing me, some are looking to get married, but I just find them boring.”

“I don’t actually have high material requirements, because my family is just an ordinary family, and I don’t necessarily need to find a rich person.”

"Besides..." the girl hesitated for a moment and said, "If someone from a family like mine marries a rich man, he'll be wary of me, so it's pointless."

[You're being paid and you still demand so much?] [That's why pretty girls are so hard to please; they're all spoiled by rich people.]

Girls who are pretty definitely get better treatment; it feels like the advantages of good looks are nowhere near as good as those for guys.

It's his own business if this spendthrift rich kid wants to be with you; his parents might not even be willing.

"I understand." Zhang Zhe understood. The girl meant that there had been wealthy men who wanted to marry her before, but they were rather stingy.

Or perhaps when they were about to discuss marriage, the man discovered her family background and started to rationally plan their pre- and post-marital assets, which hurt her self-esteem.

"You'd rather find a normal guy who'd date you and marry you, right?"

"Yes, that's right, a life partner who is around the same age."

"This kind of thing... depends on luck, it depends on whether God will give you face." As Zhang Zhe was speaking, he suddenly turned his head and glanced at Xia Yi.

The latter happened to be looking at him at that moment.

Their eyes met, and the air suddenly became ambiguous.

"So how should I try my luck?" the girl on the live stream asked somewhat inappropriately. "I'm open to making sacrifices, but I want to marry a normal man."

Hearing the girl ask a question, Xia Yi quickly signaled to Zhang Zhe with her eyes to pay attention.

Work is the most important thing.

Zhang Zhe could only look helplessly at the camera: "Sister, I'm a matchmaker. I can't really give you any experience in this kind of relationship, from dating to marriage."

"I can only tell you that if you're going on a blind date and looking for the kind of man with substance you're looking for, you have to accept that he has his shortcomings."

"For example, 1.7 meters tall and 170 kilograms."

"Huh?" The girl's face showed obvious rejection: "Does it have to be fat?"

"No, not really." Zhang Zhe nodded. "Being shorter or uglier is fine too."

"165cm tall? Or looks like Huang Bo."

"Can't something more normal be done?"

“It’s unlikely.” Zhang Zhe shook his head: “A guy from a family with an A7.5 or roughly A8 financial background would only choose to go on a blind date with you or even marry you if he wants to find someone pretty, but his own conditions aren’t good enough.”

"To put it bluntly, he's just an irrational person who's obsessed with looks."

“Some of these guys even graduated from top universities like 985 or 211. They just don’t want to date overweight girls or older single women, so they’re single.”

"You are a good choice for them."

Actually, if you think about it the other way around, a guy from an ordinary family, around 30 years old, doesn't have any particular strengths, but insists on being obsessed with looks.

If he wants to find a partner, he has to accept that the girl's family has shortcomings.

Is it a drawback that the woman's father has been imprisoned? It's definitely a major drawback, but some people might grit their teeth and accept it after seeing the woman's face.

As for what to do when our son or daughter takes the civil service exam, we'll talk about that after we have children. Right now, we need to make sure Dad is doing well.

Let the child suffer a little, so that the father can be happy first.

【Damn, does being a looks-obsessed person mean I have to find someone like this?】

If the girls I went on blind dates with were this attractive, I would definitely be willing to continue dating them.

Being good-looking means you can do whatever you want.

[Is it possible for a nerdy guy like me to date a girl as pretty as her?]

"Can I be particular about the man's family background?" the girl asked after thinking for a moment. "If he's fat, as long as he's not as fat as a pig, I can tolerate it, as long as he has good character and treats me well."

"It's good for you, you can rest assured about that."

"But as for family background, you'd better not have too high hopes." Zhang Zhe poured cold water on the girl: "If this guy's family has an A8 or higher, he can find a girl from a better family than you who is a college graduate."

"Just find a guy who owns one or two houses and is obsessed with looks. To be honest, if that guy gets smitten with you, I don't know what you'll do to him."

(End of this chapter)