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Chapter 234 Prioritization of Requirements

"Your dad went in? When?" Zhang Zhe suddenly became interested. "What was he going in for? How long will it take for him to come out?"

Although it's a bit impolite, listening to the gossip about the case is actually quite interesting. When Zhang Zhe has free time, he often stays in Guo Lu's live broadcast room on Douyin.

It's often said that when parents commit crimes, it affects their children, impacting not only their jobs but also their ability to start a family. This girl might be in a similar situation.

“My dad was arrested for drunk driving and sentenced to seven years. He won’t be out for 28 years.”

"Seven years? That's because they closed the account."

"This matter has nothing to do with you directly, does it?"

"A little."

"Huh? You were there too?"

"No, but our family has paid a lot of compensation to the victim's relatives, so our family's financial situation is much worse than before."

"If I get married, my family basically won't be able to contribute much money."

It's okay, in your situation, no one will care about your family background first.

[At most, you'll only get 100 million in compensation, right? If this amount of money is affecting your family's finances, it means your family wasn't well-off to begin with.]

[Did anyone in the live chat consider that her father might have hit more than one car?]

To be honest, this kind of person shouldn't even bother with blind dates; no man would accept them.

Zhang Zhe noticed that when the girl spoke, her eyebrows were furrowed into a deep frown, clearly indicating that she was already experiencing a lot of trouble because of her father's case.

But there's nothing that can be done; even with a system, the criminal record on her father can't be erased.

Fortunately, this girl is good-looking and can be a live streamer; she's definitely a 5 out of 10 in terms of looks.

In addition, her job involves some sales aspects, and she speaks in a very approachable manner, giving her a very good personal image.

If the full score is 100, I would give it a 65.

"After your father went to jail, what happened to your mother? What kind of work did she do? Are there any other immediate family members?"

“My mother stays at home to take care of my grandmother and doesn’t work. I’m basically the one earning money to support the family now.”

“I have no brothers or sisters, I am an only child, but my maternal grandparents have passed away, and my grandmother is the only elderly person left in the family.”

"Then you have quite a heavy burden on your shoulders." Zhang Zhe glanced at the girl. Compared to those girls who love to eat and play, this girl was quite capable.

Essentially, after a major family crisis, he became the pillar of the family.

From a personal perspective, she is definitely outstanding among women;
But from the matchmaker's perspective, this girl's qualifications are a bit too poor.

Firstly, it's virtually impossible to find someone within the system.

For pretty girls from ordinary families, dating a guy working in the public sector is usually their backup option, but this girl basically has no choice.

While some government positions do not require immediate family members to have no criminal record, it is unnecessary for men going on blind dates to add a potential risk factor.

Not to mention that if I marry this girl now, I'll have to accept the burden of her family.

She'd be better off with a prison guard; he can take care of her dad during the day and her after get off work.

[I feel like I could use this to fool students, especially male STEM students in universities.]

[Go for it, sisters! Although I'm not optimistic about your chances since you only have a junior college degree, at least you can learn how to do business now.]

[It would be better to just marry a rich man.]

"What are your requirements for a partner?" Zhang Zhe asked.

"There are almost none. I just hope that the guy can be a bit more mature, but not too fat... a little bit fat is fine, but not so fat that it's difficult for him to exercise."

"Okay, I can tell. You're a bit of a looks-obsessed person, aren't you?"

"Yes, to a certain extent, but I actually feel that I have a pretty strong ability to accept people."

"Haha, I didn't realize that. But I could tell you have someone pursuing you, so you're a bit picky." Based on Zhang Zhe's many years of experience interacting with men, being overweight in an adult male is basically associated with being unattractive.

Although it's not a positive correlation, guys who are chubby but still good-looking will only look better when they lose weight. Such people are extremely rare in reality, almost as rare as 8 out of 10 beauties.

So in an era of widespread obesity, when a girl says she doesn't like fat men, the subtext is that she wants to find someone who is good-looking.

“I did have some guys pursuing me before, but I felt that none of them really wanted to get married; they just wanted to play around with me.”

This girl is quite shrewd; she analyzed things very clearly:
“There are those guys who drive luxury cars to pick me up downstairs at the company, but I can tell at a glance that I’m not good enough for them.”

"People only contact me because they want a change of pace."

Sister, you're too clear-headed.

If it were me, I would definitely give it a try; what if it's true love?

The girl seems a bit insecure.

It's normal for her to feel inferior. Her father is working hard at the sewing machine inside, and there might even be other victims coming to their door. How can things be good for her?

If you ask me, it's better to find some rich guys to farm some gold coins.

"Sister, it's really not easy for you to understand this as a live streamer."

"Approximately how much wealth does your family have left?"

“I still had a house in my hometown county, and then that was it.” The girl gave a bitter laugh: “I lost almost all the money in my family.”

"..."

"Okay, I'll suggest two directions for you, take a look."

Zhang Zhe thought about the single men he had met. What kind of men would be interested in this kind of girl?
First and foremost, they must like beautiful women.

A female live streamer rated 5 out of 10, while not top-tier, still attracts attention on the street and benefits from her good looks.

If a woman wants to marry well, she must make good use of her good looks.

Secondly, we shouldn't care about her father's criminal record.

It's fortunate that this girl isn't from Handong. If she were from a province known for its civil service exams, she'd probably be looking for a job in the countryside in the eyes of matchmakers.

What kind of person doesn't care about the woman's family background at all?
"For the first option, you should have a lot of small business owners over there, right? The kind who specialize in doing Sheng Hai Dan Ning business in the suburbs?"

"Selling coffee, selling garlic, and oh yeah, selling clothes, selling mid-range luxury goods, basically those small business owners."

"There must be quite a few people who make money through opportunities and are eager to spend it, right?"

“I know a lot of people like that, and some of them have indeed pursued me, but…” The woman looked troubled: “They all seem to lack substance and are a bit like nouveau riche.”

"???" Zhang Zhe looked confused: "Sister, you're not only picky about looks, but you also have requirements for a guy's inner qualities?"

She was clearly so flattered by those nouveau riche that she no longer knew what the world was like.

She wanted to find an academician from the Chinese Academy of Sciences to confirm it.

[That's really insightful. Who's looking for a girl who graduated from a junior college and sells clothes?]

[What kind of temperament attracts what kind of people? A female news anchor who appears in public, what kind of people could she possibly attract? Only nouveau riche or toads, right?]

"Sister, you need to figure out your own needs first."

"Is it about getting married, or just finding a partner?"

Zhang Zhe said earnestly:
"Marriage is about living together. Living together means dealing with the basics of life, like firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, and tea. No one goes on blind dates to find their soulmate."

"If you want to find a guy with substance or someone who shares your dreams, you have to date freely. And even if you do find one, I wouldn't recommend getting married."

"Marriage means facing life, and your weakness happens to be in life. If you're willing to go all out, you could find a rich second-generation heir with an A8.5 body size even if it's just dating."

(End of this chapter)