I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Chapter 324 Others do not go empty-handed, but Big Brother does not return empty-handed

Raymond Lam: "Play is play, laugh is laugh,

Brothers, even though you call me big brother, I still want to teach you some practical things.

In fact, among relatives, you don’t need to worry about whether he is good to you or whether he loves you.

Worrying about these things is most useless.

I don’t know if you can understand.

Because the relationships between relatives are very realistic.

You don't need to maintain it deliberately, nor do you need others to say hello to you. You only need to do one thing, which is to make more money.

Boost the economy.

During the holidays, relatives and friends will come to your house on their own.

For example, during the two years when my live broadcast was at its peak, and also after I entered the entertainment industry, I rarely visited relatives.

But during the holidays, more people come to my house than I go out.

He always calls me no matter what, saying that the holiday is coming soon and I need to bring some things over.

Many relatives who I had little contact with before called me several days in advance.

On the day of the festival, I had never met some of my aunts and uncles and didn’t know what to call them.

People come into your house with gifts.
What kind of relationship is this? You don't need to maintain it at all.

But if you don't have the ability, you can't maintain this relationship by force.

My career went into a slump later on and it wasn’t going well anymore.

When the holidays come again, there will be no one at home.

At that time, even if I licked my aunt, my cousin, and my cousin every day, it was useless.

If your conditions are not good enough, people will not pay much attention to you.

That's what family relationships are like.

You don't have to reflect on how to invite this person, invite that person, or protect someone.

No need,
If you get your career and life in order, people will come to you with gifts."

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"A poor man can play with ten steel hooks on the crossroads, but he can't hook his relatives. A rich man can swing a wooden stick in the mountains and forests, but he can't disperse his ungrateful friends (grin)."

"As the old saying goes, if you are poor in a busy city, no one will care about you; if you are rich in a remote mountain area, you will have distant relatives (laughing to death)."

"If you don't believe me, just look at the wine in the glass. The rich are served first (sunglasses)."

"You got it (dog head)."

Hahahaha.

"Sincerity doesn't need to be maintained deliberately, and deliberate maintenance won't bring true love."

“Most relationships in the world rely on one’s own strength, and being a good person comes first.”

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Raymond Lam: "Many older generations are deeply influenced by this kind of thinking, and they will forcefully maintain relationships.

Even if my family owes money, or my brother's family needs help, or my sister-in-law's family needs help,
I have to borrow money to help.

Whenever there is something happening at home, even if I don’t have any housework to do, I will help my relatives and friends first.

As it turns out, he's a nice guy.

But if you really have something wrong, no one will come to pick you up.

There are many such people among the older generation.

If something happens to your younger brother, even if your family can't survive, he will lend money to his brother immediately.

Or if something happens to a cousin at home, he is more anxious than anyone else, even more anxious than his own family affairs, so he will help them first.

but,
People will still offend you if they deserve it, and look down on you if they deserve it.

Unless you really are a big family and there are interests involved between you, it is still possible to help you out.

But for the vast majority of ordinary families, relatives are often the most superficial.

I don’t need to explain this, anyone with a little life experience should be able to understand it clearly.”

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"My father is like this. He would help my aunt's family even if he didn't care about his own family. We are not usually in our hometown. As a result, my house was flooded for three days, and no one from my aunt's family came to help. It was the neighbors who told us (grin)."

"My dad was the same. He helped his brothers all his life and brought his brother's children to my house to raise. As a result, my family ended up living in chaos and chaos (crying to death)."

"In fact, if a nice guy can't be a nice guy, no one will pay attention to him. A nice guy doesn't really want to be a nice guy, but he has no choice. That's his only way to survive."

"But in fact, many people don't like the good guy who comes to visit (dog head)."

Real and heartbreaking...

Raymond Lam: "I am not trying to make you indifferent, nor am I trying to discredit the relationship between relatives as worthless. I am trying to make you see the reality clearly.

If you want to maintain good relationships with your relatives, the best way is to manage yourself well. "

"Brother, but my parents don't listen to this and always force me to visit relatives. It's very annoying."

Lin Feng: "What's the point of being bothered? If you can refuse, then refuse. If you can't refuse, then just go along.

Don't get stuck on that issue, lest you end up not wanting to go when the time comes.

Let's be honest.

If I really go, can I come back empty-handed?
My mother used to like to take me with her when she visited relatives.

Later I stopped bringing it.

Any idea why?

Because I always take other people's things.

My principle is that if I go, I either don’t go, or if I go, I can’t come back empty-handed.

I usually drive there, and to be honest, the trunk is always full when I come back.

We don't pick and choose, we just take whatever is available.

Like one year during the Chinese New Year, my mother took me to my uncle's house.
When I got there, he showed off to me, saying how beautiful his root carving was.
It is said that the ancient trees on the mountain had died, and many people carried them down from the mountain together.

While they were eating, I had already carried it into the trunk.

After putting it in, I locked the trunk directly.

Later when I was leaving, I told him that this was very beautiful and I would take it back and keep it for two days and then send it back to you.

Anyway, I took it back and never returned it.”

. . . . . . .

On the barrage.

"Either I won't go, or if I go I can't return empty-handed (dog head)."

"Hahaha, others don't go empty-handed, but big bro doesn't come back empty-handed. I'm laughing so hard, hahaha."

"He carried people's stuff into the trunk while they were eating, hahahaha."

"The main goal is to catch people by surprise (covering face)."

"Big brother's life is really happy, without any mental constraints (laughing and crying)."

"Hahaha this is so funny, I have to do this in the future, take a little from everything and don't suffer any loss, hahaha."

"I can't. I'm still too thin-skinned (covering my face)."

. . . . . .

"Thin-skinned? What if your relatives turn against you?"

Lin Feng glanced at the comments and said with a smile: "If you want to fall out, then so be it. I don't care.

If you insist on lifting it down, then I'll open the trunk. Anyway, you have to lift it by yourself. I won't help you.

And you even opened your mouth to ask for it back. You are so stingy. I won’t come next time.

Right, the purpose has been achieved.

Either I never come again, or I come again and get it.

The initiative is in my hands, and if there is any internal friction, it should be you.

And generally, elders cannot open their mouths because they are more concerned about their face.

I told you to take it and put it away for two days. But if I really take it back, can I still give it back to you?
funny.

And let's be honest,

I take something from you and take advantage of you, what's wrong with that?
Lao Deng is so old now, you may die someday.
Let the young people enjoy these things.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"Old Deng may pass away someday, hahahaha."

"You take someone's things and curse them, hahaha."

"Brother, this is a total bandit (covering face)."

Hahahaha.

"Brother, you really made me laugh to death (laughing and crying)."

"My husband also likes to take advantage of others. I used to hate him for doing this, but now I see that he is really smart and I am a fool (laughing to death)."

"Big Brother's Quote: Be thick-skinned and eat as much as you can (dog head)."

puff~
Hahahahaha.

(End of this chapter)