You Are My Rare Passion

Gu Yiman had been listening carefully, and when she stopped talking, he asked, "What was the specific reason for the quarrel?"

"He buys everything for his younger brothers and sisters!" Shen Qiangwei said angrily, "From clothes and shoes to big houses and cars, as long as we have it, he also buys it for his younger brothers and sisters, spending a lot of money !”

"What's the attitude of his brother and sister?" Gu Yiman asked, "Do they respect you and appreciate you?"

Shen Qiangwei was stunned for a moment and then said: "It's not bad. He still appreciates us and respects us."

Gu Yiman asked: "I respect you very much, I am very grateful, and treat you as my closest relatives, or is it just a compliment on face, but in fact I am not grateful to you in my heart?"

Shen Qiangwei was silent for a moment, then said uncomfortably: "It's not about face... My husband has a very good relationship with his brother and sister. They have a very good relationship as brother and sister."

Gu Yiman asked again: "Is it within your financial capacity for your husband to buy something for his brother and sister? Will it affect your lives?"

"That's not true," Shen Qiangwei said, "We have accumulated a lot of wealth over the years. Even if he buys a lot of things for his brother and sister, it will not affect our own quality of life." "

"Well, I understand," Gu Yiman nodded and asked again, "If your husband doesn't listen to your advice, even if you quarrel with him and strongly object, he still wants to buy things for his brother and sister, what will you do? Divorce him?"

Shen Qiangwei thought seriously for a long time and shook her head: "No."

If you want to leave, you have already left.

She and her husband have a very good relationship, and they have gone from poverty to wealth together. She has not changed, and neither has her husband.

Her husband is gentle and considerate to her, loyal to her and to the family. He doesn't have the problem of some men becoming bad when they get rich. He is an out-and-out high-quality man.

Moreover, she and her husband have two children, a son and a daughter.

Even if she was very angry about her husband's bottomless love for his brother and sister and had a fierce quarrel, she would not be able to divorce her husband.

"Since you don't plan to divorce, I can only advise you to be more open-minded," Gu Yiman said sincerely, "Let me tell you from my heart, don't be angry. I think it is nothing for your husband to buy things for his brother and sister. Big problem."

Shen Qiangwei frowned, looking a little dissatisfied.

“I say this with a premise,” Gu Yiman explained, “The first premise is that your husband buying things for his brother and sister does not affect your own quality of life.

The second premise is that your husband's younger brother and sister are grateful for your efforts and respect your husband and you. "

She looked into Shen Qiangwei's eyes and said seriously: "As the saying goes, when one person achieves enlightenment, chickens and dogs ascend to heaven.

Although this sentence is not pleasant to hear, it is the truth and has been passed down for thousands of years.

When one person attains enlightenment, chickens and dogs can ascend to heaven, let alone brothers and sisters who have grown up together?

If the relationship between brothers and sisters is not good, or if the brothers and sisters have bad character, then that's it.

But your husband's brothers and sisters don't have this problem. If I were your husband, I would also buy things for my brother and sister.

In your eyes, you only see your husband's contribution, but for your husband, he gets happiness and a sense of accomplishment in his contribution.

Happiness cannot be bought by money.

But your husband spent money to buy happiness, and the money did not affect your daily life, so why not do it? "