This Is Called Poor Students Class? This Is The Whole Class!

Every teacher has a different attitude towards puppy love.

Most of the older teachers still insist on the traditional concept of "puppy love must be killed in the cradle".

This is affected by factors such as the age of their birth, life experience, and educational environment.

And some young teachers like Xu Jie have a more tolerant attitude towards puppy love.

Teachers born in the 80s and 90s, during their growth, the Internet has gradually matured.

It is normal for them to be more open-minded and tolerant than their predecessors.

Of course, there are no absolutes.

Some old teachers have a tolerant attitude towards puppy love, while some young teachers have a traditional attitude towards puppy love.

There are also such cases.

After all, the same rice feeds all kinds of people.

Xu Jie didn't expect to be able to change other teachers' concepts and ideas with a few words.

That's not realistic.

He simply hoped that what happened last night would not leave an indelible psychological shadow on Shen Hui and Wan Xiaoxiang.

In many cases, people's stress response is delayed.

Last night outside No. 1 Middle School.

When Shen Hui and Wan Xiaoxiang were besieged, they might or might not have been afraid in their hearts.

But because the three of them were in a group, they wouldn't be affected too much at the time.

When I got back to the dormitory, in the dead of night, lying on the bed, alone.

They will inevitably think about what happened at night.

Human imaginations and brain supplements will breed crazily at this time.

The original fear and fear hidden in the bottom of my heart may be infinitely magnified.

At this time, if teachers and parents impose punishments, it will undoubtedly make things worse.

Where does the student's rebellious psychology come from?

Isn't it just that he did something wrong and only scolded and punished him?

The way Shen Hui, Zhou Tao, and Wan Xiaoxiang handled things last night was indeed wrong.

You should not leave school privately.

But no matter what, they are only sixteen or seventeen-year-old minors after all.

Many ideas are imperfect, and many actions are impulsive, which are all normal things.

If someone guides them to the right path, they will also think, and they will naturally know where they are wrong.

The blind punishment and punishment only encourages their rebellious psychology.

What happened last night was temporarily suppressed because of Xu Jie's suggestion.

When Xu Jie returned to the classroom, Chu Xiaoran had already returned from a morning run with his classmates.

After telling them to study hard in the morning, he called Zhou Tao to the office.

It was only after 7 o'clock in the morning, and the hospital hadn't opened yet.

The First People's Hospital of Zhongnan City is not too far from Zhenhua Middle School, and it only takes about ten minutes by taxi.

Therefore, Xu Jie planned to chat with Zhou Tao first, and then let Chu Xiaoran accompany him to the hospital.

In the office, Zhou Tao lowered his head, as if he had done something wrong.

There were two bruises on his face.

At the brow bone, the cut that was opened last night has scabbed over.

On the surface alone, the injury is not serious.

Xu Jie knew that his injuries were mostly on his back and arms.

Seeing this kid's look of knowing his mistake, Xu Jie found it funny.

Who boasted to Haikou last night that there are too many lice and it is not ticklish?

Don't you think there are too many punishments?

Now who is this appearance for?

Xu Jie probably understood Zhou Tao's character.

Outgoing, strong personality.

Judging from yesterday's performance, Xu Jie added the comment of "being righteous and able to fight".

Xu Jie knew that what happened last night had the least impact on Zhou Tao.

When this kid was at the police station, in front of the police, he boasted that he was not at all afraid of facing a dozen punks.

At that time, I asked Xu Jie to push him on the chair, and asked him to cooperate with the transcripts and stop bragging all day long.

"How did you feel after a night's sleep?"

"Is there anything particularly uncomfortable on your body?"

Xu Jie asked with a smile.

Although Xu Jie judged by himself, Zhou Tao should only have some skin trauma.

But it is still necessary to let him go for a full-body examination.

Don't be afraid of ten thousand, just in case.

Only after seeing the test data of those precise medical instruments can Xu Jie truly feel at ease.

Zhou Tao scratched her head and said, "Mr. Xu, I feel pretty good."

"It shouldn't be a big problem."

Xu Jie nodded, and then asked, "Now let me ask you, what do you think is the best way to deal with what happened last night?"

It's okay to be wrong.

Who in this world has never done anything wrong?

As the ancients said, knowing a mistake can make a big difference.

When you know your mistakes, you have to think about where you went wrong.

Just beating, scolding and punishing, they know what's wrong!

The reason why Xu Jie asked this was because he wanted Zhou Tao to think for himself.

Is there a better way to deal with what happened last night?

If so, by what method? How to do it?

Zhou Tao was taken aback.

He didn't think about it.

He made a mistake before, and no one would give him this opportunity to think about where he went wrong.

This is normal.

What's wrong with fighting?

It's all wrong!

This is a view that most parents and teachers agree with.

But they are all students, how can there be fights for no reason?

Since there was a reason, then Xu Jie felt that the reason should be clarified.

Not only their teachers and parents have to figure it out, but the students themselves have to figure it out even more.

Only in this way, the next time they encounter a similar problem, they will know, oh, it turns out that this matter cannot be handled in this way, but must be handled in that way.

This in itself is also a process of learning and progress.

If you make a mistake, don't you guide them to think about where they went wrong? Why is it wrong? How can it be improved?

Then this mistake was just a mistake.

The next time they meet, they will do it again.

In making mistakes again and again, he finally fell into the abyss, causing irreversible consequences.

Xu Jie has always believed that

Freezing three feet does not happen in a day.

There is never a hopeless student.

Every student who seems hopeless must gradually sink down in sudden situations, accidents, and mistakes again and again!

How can anyone be born without medicine?

joke!

Don't doubt anyone's ability to understand and think.

Zhou Tao and the others, who are sixteen or seventeen-year-old boys, are at the stage when their brains are most active.

After they accidentally make a mistake, someone must wake them up.

Let them think for themselves and clearly understand the mistakes they have made.

Only in this way can they grow and transform.

Instead of, oh, write a review and be done.

Oh, hit twice, curse a few words, it's over.

With that alone, how can they recognize mistakes? And how can you learn from your mistakes?

Zhou Tao had never seriously thought about such a question before.

At this time, under Xu Jie's patient guidance, he began to really think for the first time.

Is there really a better solution?