Lisco's American Life

Perhaps because of the video call with his granddaughter this time, Li Feng, who was originally in a leisurely and leisurely manner, couldn't help but speed up the process of handling things in his daily life, and even became a little anxious.

My granddaughter can't find her every day, which is indeed not a suitable solution. In addition, my daughter is currently pregnant, and I can't let go of it either emotionally or rationally.

While I was busy speeding up my preparations for purchasing items, I also took advantage of this time to visit more relatives. The main reason for coming back this time was that I was worried that I would not be able to go home to visit my relatives after being abroad for many years, so I wanted to take advantage of this rare time.

Keep these family ties alive.

Although most of the relatives next to Zhang You have passed away, whether they are parents or other more direct relatives, they have been severed. However, with the estrangement of blood lines and the inheritance after five generations, some

Relatives have basically stopped moving around so frequently. This time, the main people visiting relatives are Li Feng’s relatives. After all, his parents are still alive, so his brothers and sisters are also there.

Most of all, because I have been abroad in the past two years, I have missed a lot of interactions between relatives. For example, when my nephew got married, I couldn't be there. For example, when my mother celebrated her birthday, I couldn't.

Having his hand by his side was a pity. In addition, as he got older and older, relatives could meet less and less often, so he cherished this opportunity to meet.

Almost every time I go to a family, I can receive a warm reception from the other party. There is a saying that goes well, if you are poor in the busy city, no one will care about you, but if you are rich in the mountains, you will have distant relatives. Now almost all relatives know more or less about Zhang.

Li's marital status, even some relatives have witnessed the other party's extremely huge engagement. For example, they will more or less hear some rumors and rumors. Seeing that Li Feng's family has successfully changed from its original state.

Entering the wealthy class, not to mention anything else, just being the other party's daughter, as a well-known and thoughtful person is enough to make people feel envious. In addition, the other party has married a foreign rich man, although I don't know how much the other party has.

Money, but you must know that Americans only have U.S. dollars. One dollar earned by others is equivalent to seven or eight dollars earned here. No matter from which perspective, it is enough to make people salivate.

The reason why everyone flatters and is friendly to him is naturally not the kind of help they hope to get from the other person, but that people themselves have a kind of curtain wall mentality, but there are people around you who are living a better life than you, or people from all walks of life.

When you meet someone who is better than you in all aspects, you will be more or less friendly towards the other person. Even if you do not get any benefit from the other person for a while, you can have a comparison when you encounter difficulties.

The strong support is also a great honor.

For another example, with the existence of such a relative, even if he goes out to brag, he seems to have a lot of face, so after returning this time, Li Feng received an unprecedented warm welcome. In the past, he may have been limited by the traditional concepts of the countryside, and basically went to other people's homes.

When visiting relatives, men usually sit at the table, serving cups and setting dishes, while women either open a table alone, or simply cook for two people in the kitchen, which is enough to settle the meal.

The concept has been circulating in rural areas for a long time, and people living in rural areas may not have that high level of education and cannot receive relatively accurate relevant communication and knowledge. Naturally, they do not know the principle of equality between men and women.

Of course, there may be another way to say that compared to girls, boys may prefer to drink more when they meet and party. Drinking greatly hinders other people's normal dining situation. In order to make the drinking atmosphere between each other more enjoyable.

It is thicker, so most women don’t like to sit on this kind of wine table to taste food, which is a perfect explanation for the traditional custom of women not serving at the table.

With the development of the times, more and more families may not pay too much attention to these things. Sometimes when guests come from afar, they will invite them to the table, but women have become accustomed to eating in the kitchen by themselves.

Personality, and when I return to my parents’ home, I subconsciously want to help my parents and do more work and help. I don’t want to keep my family busy in the kitchen during this extremely lively time, so I can basically go out and do what I can.

work.

Li Feng usually eats in the kitchen, so she doesn't care too much about this situation. On the one hand, this situation makes her feel more comfortable and more comfortable.

She felt like she was back home, not a guest from afar, but this time the situation was completely reversed. When visiting relatives, she was strongly invited by these nephews to sit at the table and taste the food.

and communicated with each other, and even put the other party's figure in the dominant position without hesitation.

Although this description sounds like some bad words and flattery, it has to be said that sometimes money makes people timid. As the family situation gets better and better, and with the existence of a powerful son-in-law, Li Feng

In the eyes of many people, its importance has skyrocketed, and people will respect it subconsciously even when walking on the street. Although this feeling of returning home in fine clothes may seem a bit confusing, it must be said that the heart is still relatively happy, and there is even a feeling.

An extraordinarily comfortable feeling of satisfaction.

Maybe the reason why parents place great expectations on their children is, to a certain extent, because they hope that they will be treated this way in their later years. People will subconsciously try their best to find some support in their lives. When they were young, they may be because of their parents' support.

Advantages occupy a relatively important position among people of the same age group. When they reach adulthood, they may slowly become popular because of their abilities. As they grow older, those who can rely on or take advantage of them will become the most important ones.

As your own child, if your child's development and career are extremely smooth and occupy a comparatively advantageous position, everyone will more or less pay more attention to you or respect you.

This feeling made Li Feng very comfortable, and at the same time he once again realized the importance of power and wealth. It must be said that this feeling is indeed relatively easy to satisfy, but Li Feng knew very clearly that before he

Therefore, the source of receiving this kind of treatment does not have the feeling of being arrogant or down-to-earth. Instead, he is more cautious in his words and deeds, for fear that if he has some not-so-good responsibilities, he will bring negative consequences to his children.

There are some troubles that are more difficult to solve.

Perhaps because of the video call with his granddaughter this time, Li Feng, who was originally in a leisurely and leisurely manner, couldn't help but speed up the process of handling things in his daily life, and even became a little anxious.

My granddaughter can't find her every day, which is indeed not a suitable solution. In addition, my daughter is currently pregnant, and I can't let go of it either emotionally or rationally.

While I was busy speeding up my preparations for purchasing items, I also took advantage of this time to visit more relatives. The main reason for coming back this time was that I was worried that I would not be able to go home to visit my relatives after being abroad for many years, so I wanted to take advantage of this rare time.

Keep these family ties alive.

Although most of the relatives next to Zhang You have passed away, whether they are parents or other more direct relatives, they have been severed. However, with the estrangement of blood lines and the inheritance after five generations, some

Relatives have basically stopped moving around so frequently. This time, the main people visiting relatives are Li Feng’s relatives. After all, his parents are still alive, so his brothers and sisters are also there.

Most of all, because I have been abroad in the past two years, I have missed a lot of interactions between relatives. For example, when my nephew got married, I couldn't be there. For example, when my mother celebrated her birthday, I couldn't.

Having his hand by his side was a pity. In addition, as he got older and older, relatives could meet less and less often, so he cherished this opportunity to meet.

Almost every time I go to a family, I can receive a warm reception from the other party. There is a saying that goes well, if you are poor in the busy city, no one will care about you, but if you are rich in the mountains, you will have distant relatives. Now almost all relatives know more or less about Zhang.

Li's marital status, even some relatives have witnessed the other party's extremely huge engagement. For example, they will more or less hear some rumors and rumors. Seeing that Li Feng's family has successfully changed from its original state.

Entering the wealthy class, not to mention anything else, just being the other party's daughter, as a well-known and thoughtful person is enough to make people feel envious. In addition, the other party has married a foreign rich man, although I don't know how much the other party has.

Money, but you must know that Americans only have U.S. dollars. One dollar earned by others is equivalent to seven or eight dollars earned here. No matter from which perspective, it is enough to make people salivate.

The reason why everyone flatters and is friendly to him is naturally not the kind of help they hope to get from the other person, but that people themselves have a kind of curtain wall mentality, but there are people around you who are living a better life than you, or people from all walks of life.

When you meet someone who is better than you in all aspects, you will be more or less friendly towards the other person. Even if you do not get any benefit from the other person for a while, you can have a comparison when you encounter difficulties.

The strong support is also a great honor.

For another example, with the existence of such a relative, even if he goes out to brag, he seems to have a lot of face, so after returning this time, Li Feng received an unprecedented warm welcome. In the past, he may have been limited by the traditional concepts of the countryside, and basically went to other people's homes.

When visiting relatives, men usually sit at the table, serving cups and setting dishes, while women either open a table alone, or simply cook for two people in the kitchen, which is enough to settle the meal.

The concept has been circulating in rural areas for a long time, and people living in rural areas may not have that high level of education and cannot receive relatively accurate relevant communication and knowledge. Naturally, they do not know the principle of equality between men and women.

Of course, there may be another way to say that compared to girls, boys may prefer to drink more when they meet and party. Drinking greatly hinders other people's normal dining situation. In order to make the drinking atmosphere between each other more enjoyable.

It is thicker, so most women don’t like to sit on this kind of wine table to taste food, which is a perfect explanation for the traditional custom of women not serving at the table.

With the development of the times, more and more families may not pay too much attention to these things. Sometimes when guests come from afar, they will invite them to the table, but women have become accustomed to eating in the kitchen by themselves.

Personality, and when I return to my parents’ home, I subconsciously want to help my parents and do more work and help. I don’t want to keep my family busy in the kitchen during this extremely lively time, so I can basically go out and do what I can.

work.

Li Feng usually eats in the kitchen, so she doesn't care too much about this situation. On the one hand, this situation makes her feel more comfortable and more comfortable.

She felt like she was back home, not a guest from afar, but this time the situation was completely reversed. When visiting relatives, she was strongly invited by these nephews to sit at the table and taste the food.

and communicated with each other, and even put the other party's figure in the dominant position without hesitation.

Although this description sounds like some bad words and flattery, it has to be said that sometimes money makes people timid. As the family situation gets better and better, and with the existence of a powerful son-in-law, Li Feng

In the eyes of many people, its importance has skyrocketed, and people will respect it subconsciously even when walking on the street. Although this feeling of returning home in fine clothes may seem a bit confusing, it must be said that the heart is still relatively happy, and there is even a feeling.

An extraordinarily comfortable feeling of satisfaction.

Maybe the reason why parents place great expectations on their children is, to a certain extent, because they hope that they will be treated this way in their later years. People will subconsciously try their best to find some support in their lives. When they were young, they may be because of their parents' support.

Advantages occupy a relatively important position among people of the same age group. When they reach adulthood, they may slowly become popular because of their abilities. As they grow older, those who can rely on or take advantage of them will become the most important ones.

As your own child, if your child's development and career are extremely smooth and occupy a comparatively advantageous position, everyone will more or less pay more attention to you or respect you.

This feeling made Li Feng very comfortable, and at the same time he once again realized the importance of power and wealth. It must be said that this feeling is indeed relatively easy to satisfy, but Li Feng knew very clearly that before he

Therefore, the source of receiving this kind of treatment does not have the feeling of being arrogant or down-to-earth. Instead, he is more cautious in his words and deeds, for fear that if he has some not-so-good responsibilities, he will bring negative consequences to his children.

There are some troubles that are more difficult to solve.