Lisco's American Life

Recently, there has been a relatively new situation, that is, Zhang You at home is coming soon, and it is time for his birthday. When you were young, you may not have noticed this similar situation, but as you get older, you are more and more concerned about birthday parties.

He cares about it, because every time he spends time means that he can be reunited with his relatives. It is not too long anymore, and unknowingly, another year has been lost. The older the person is, the more he cares about this kind of thing.

Originally, according to Zhang Li's idea, he would do something big at his father's age. After all, the other party is now 60 years old and has his 60th birthday, which is something that several Chinese people are particularly concerned about, but Zhang You doesn't think so.

, he still feels that it is enough for the family to gather together for a simple meal during this time, and there is no need to deliberately waste money in this way. Moreover, when the matter of his 60th birthday is mentioned, he deliberately avoids or

It's fear.

It can be said that no one in this world is not afraid of death. If there is, it may be that the longing and expectation for something have surpassed the fear of death.

For Zhang You, he had been working hard for his family in the first half of his life. When he reached middle age, he could finally relax a little and had to worry about a lot of things for his daughter. Finally, after the other party got married and started a career, it was rare to enjoy

I have lived a leisurely life for several years, but in the blink of an eye, I have to face my aging body and my birthday is approaching. This kind of thing sometimes makes me feel that time is not used up, and I even feel that my life has not yet reached the most exciting period.

, it’s almost time to say goodbye.

Maybe when everyone reaches this stage, he will have an inexplicable feeling of unwillingness in his heart. This is also the most real feeling and imagination in his heart. If possible, he even wants to watch his third generation succeed.

After getting married and having children, I feel that there are still many things in this world that I have not experienced and experienced, and I will also feel some regrets.

Although the other party has been deliberately avoiding this topic, for the whole family, the other party's 60th birthday is a special and real event. Although Liske is an American, he can also understand the importance of the 60th birthday, so he also started in advance.

Prepare some appropriate gifts to express your feelings. Even if the other person does not want to make a big deal, it is still a good thing to show your blessings to the other person through gifts.

After a detailed discussion with his wife, he discovered that the gift his wife wanted to give to his father was a relatively high-quality and low-priced car. In fact, Zhang You has never had a driver's license and has never had the experience of driving in his life. This may be

It is a pity for him. When he was young, he once dreamed of becoming a member of the Eighth National Congress and working as a driver to travel around the world. However, because he did not have so many personal connections, he also did not have that much experience.

After giving myself too much time to prepare, I could only regretfully succumb to reality and do other work.

When I was middle-aged, I originally had the idea of ​​buying a car, but because my work place was too close to my home, and there was no need to use a car much for daily travel, although my family was not living well.

So poor, but not that rich. In addition, people of their generation have a subconscious idea of ​​saving. As long as they have some money, they will try to save it as much as possible to provide some help for their children's future lives.

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Sometimes when Zhang You was sitting in the corridor of the ranch enjoying the cool air, you could see him looking envious of those young people driving their cars so fast. He had also considered a similar idea before, buying a car as a gift.

The other party regarded it as a tool for the other party to travel, but was rejected by the mother without hesitation, because sometimes people have physical conditions that do not yield to their own. My father's physical condition, if he drives, there will be some crises, or...

When I think about things that worry my family, I can only suppress my original thoughts as much as possible.

But this time on his 60th birthday, Zhang Li decided to fulfill his father's long-standing expectations without hesitation. After all, his father is now 60 years old. At this stage of life, it can be said that every day of life is like competing with God.

When I thought about it, it would be a pity if I still had not experienced the joy of driving and had not fulfilled my dream of driving when my father passed away. So after thinking about it for a long time, I decided to make this decision.

A decision.

As for his wife's choice of gift, Liske quite approves of it. In fact, he has mentioned the idea of ​​buying a car for his father-in-law before. Sometimes when he is driving, he sees his father-in-law looking at him eagerly.

He would subconsciously be soft-hearted and want the other party to experience it, but Zhang You is still a relatively cautious person. Since he does not have a driver's license, he still tries his best to avoid such a car that requires high professional skills, so it has always been very possible.

Envious and a little regretful.

Now that his wife has chosen a target for the gift, what kind of gift he should give has become a headache for him. To be honest, at the age of the elderly, they no longer have many ideas about many flashy things.

However, when choosing gifts, you should consider practical aspects as much as possible. Giving some flashy gifts will be shelved by the other party, which also goes against your original intention of giving gifts.

Regarding the choice of target, Lisko was almost at a loss and had no clue. After all, to be honest, he did not have much experience or similar experience, so for a 60-year-old man who was his father-in-law, he gave a gift

There was no reference for what kind of gift would be suitable for him, so he simply opened the website and raised his own questions in the most lively forums and post bars. Everyone's responses to this question also had different meanings.

Some people suggest giving some massagers or foot bath buckets as gifts. After all, it is a better point of view from the perspective of health preservation. However, this kind of thing is already relatively common in your own home. It is not even given as a birthday gift.

They have been fully prepared in advance, and giving these gifts can no longer show your sincerity.

Some people also say that they are giving away various supplements, such as the more popular and expensive things on the market, but as far as they know, their father-in-law has never been in the habit of eating these things, and he has bought similar ones before.

Things, frowning every time, are very repulsive to their bodies. After the experience of those working years, the bodies of many young people are healthier and stronger than today, so supplements do not seem to be so suitable.