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Ever since Zhong Xiaoqin posted three question marks in a row.

She has not replied to Li Haoyu's messages.

Li Haoyu wasn't in a hurry and remained inactive. After a long five minutes, Zhong Xiaoqin reluctantly sent four words: "I understand."

After seeing Zhong Xiaoqin's reply, Li Haoyu...

He put down his phone and nodded in satisfaction.

As expected, Zhong Xiaoqin gave in. As long as Zhong Xiaoqin admitted defeat, it meant that his strategy was correct.

There are no hard girls to pursue; it just depends on whether you put in the effort. And there are never two perfectly compatible people; it's all the result of men's careful cultivation and nurturing.

Using the word "strategy guide" might be a bit of an exaggeration.

Interactions between men and women are more like an arm wrestling match; it's essentially a contest of strength between two parties while maintaining certain principles.

Many guys don't have much dating experience.

There is always a common misconception.

They always try to satisfy the woman's needs, thinking that as long as her demands are met, she will listen to them, but the reality is often the opposite.

These boys didn't realize that being a "simp" is a dead end. They never considered that they could actually make the other person obey and satisfy them.

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You must possess a man's domineering presence.

Just like when Li Haoyu asked Zhong Xiaoqin to bring him an iced Americano, Li Haoyu said he did want to drink coffee, but it didn't really matter.

This is actually more of a matter of attitude. You have to dare to make demands on the other party, and most importantly, you have to have confidence in yourself. Sometimes, who is speaking is always more important than what is said.

Of course, this doesn't mean you can make unreasonable demands. You need to understand your place in the woman's heart.

Otherwise, you might only get a slap in the face.

Then they'll just slink away.

In Li Haoyu's view, if family and economic factors are disregarded, Zhong Xiaoqin is a very conventional girl. Such girls tend not to easily cross boundaries, nor will they say "no" to any arrangement.

Looking back on Zhong Xiaoqin's experiences over the past twenty years, Li Haoyu found them all unremarkable. Her daily life was monotonous, without any ups and downs or highlights.

She never doubted that something was wrong with her life. If it were Li Haoyu, he would have been bored to the point of collapse long ago.

Therefore, the first thing Li Haoyu needs to do is to break Zhong Xiaoqin's mundane daily life.

This is actually a popular line for picking up girls circulating online.

If she is naive and inexperienced, show her the world's wonders; if she is world-weary, take her on a carousel. If he is just beginning to experience love, undress him; if he has seen it all, stay by his side.

This principle applies not only to romantic relationships.

This applies to all other matters as well.

The principle is simple: to touch someone's heart, give them something they've never had or experienced before. In short, make it rare.

In fact, what did Li Haoyu care about worldly prosperity and carousels? He would flirt with her directly, kissing her passionately until the world seemed to spin, catching Zhong Xiaoqin completely off guard.

The key is speed, a passionate kiss!

However, Li Haoyu thought about it.

He eventually gave up on this wildly imaginative and brilliant idea.

This approach might work for Wang Manni, but Zhong Xiaoqin might be so scared that she'd run away and never be found again. Let's wait until we've established a relationship with Zhong Xiaoqin; there's plenty of time.

However, Li Haoyu doesn't actually dislike this type of girl.

I even felt a genuine sense of admiration for her.

Li Haoyu and Zhong Xiaoqin had actually been chatting online for a while. Of course, he definitely had "malicious intentions" towards Zhong Xiaoqin, otherwise he wouldn't have wasted so much time.

On the other hand, chatting with Chung Hsiao-Chin is actually really comfortable.

She is truly a good girl who cares a lot about her friends and is very considerate of other people's feelings.

If we compare her to Gu Jia and Wang Manni, Li Haoyu's conversations with them are like two equally matched opponents, going back and forth.

But Chung Hsiao-chin is more of a genuine listener. She has a warm smile and an optimistic attitude. She is hopeful about life, faces life positively, and expresses kindness to others.

These are all her strengths.

But his personality was both his strength and his weakness.

Perhaps because Chung Hsiao-chin grew up in a well-off family and was used to being waited on hand and foot, she was completely clueless about daily life.

Before marriage, Zhong Xiaoqin had everything arranged by her parents and didn't have to worry about anything. After marriage, her husband Chen Yu took over all the arrangements.

It's fair to say that Chung Hsiao-chin had long been accustomed to having others handle all the big and small matters at home, while she herself didn't concern herself with anything. As a result, she completely lost control over her own life.

Girls like this find it difficult to gain respect and attention from others.

They won't get the happiness they want.

The best example is Zhong Xiaoqin's experience at the company. She is indeed a warm-hearted girl who really enjoys helping her colleagues. Everyone seems to like her very much.

It seems like there's no problem, and once or twice is indeed fine.

But as time goes on...

Chung Hsiao-chin was treated as a "jack-of-all-trades" in the company, and everyone pushed all the work they didn't like onto her, which made her miserable.

However, Zhong Xiaoqin was too embarrassed to refuse her colleagues' requests. For example, once when the elevator lost power, she needed to deliver packages to the residents by climbing the stairs.

Chung Hsiao-chin is pregnant and cannot engage in strenuous exercise, but seeing that her colleagues are unwilling to go, she cannot refuse and can only endure it on her own.

If you had to describe Zhong Xiaoqin in one word.

Li Haoyu would think she was a "pushover".

Whether in the workplace or in marriage, they have little sense of presence, dare not express their opinions, and no matter how much they give, others will not appreciate it.

When something bad happens to someone, the first person they think of is Chung Hsiao-Chin, but when something good happens, she's never a part of it. That's the price she pays for it.

Although Li Haoyu often felt during their conversations that Zhong Xiaoqin didn't seem very bright, he might doubt her intelligence, but he would never question her character.

I would never think she is unreliable.

Even the most clumsy girl will eventually have someone discover her hidden strengths. This is true for both the rich second-generation Zhong Xiaoyang and the current Li Haoyu.

Li Haoyu believes that God favors the clumsy, and even the most clumsy girl will never lack admirers. This probably describes a girl like Zhong Xiaoqin perfectly.

It's not a big deal if a girl is easy to bully.

As long as it tastes sweet!

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