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Chapter 111 I’ll go, Jiang Qin saw our debate competition and responded!

Author: cold water dispenser

The first question asks, if you don’t find a suitable marriage partner during the best time to have children, should you still insist on getting married at this time?”

The affirmative debater knows very well that if he answers according to the opponent's thinking, he is likely to face a situation where he will be pressed harder and harder in the future.

So you have to step out and answer within your own framework.

Only in this way can the matter of "getting married in a hurry" not appear blind.

This is the conclusion reached by several debaters on the affirmative side after some discussions.

The affirmative's three arguments: "First of all, 'rushing for time' means to hurry up mentally and physically, but it does not mean that you must rush to complete it before a certain deadline."

"It's like we go to work at eight o'clock, and now it's seven-thirty. We need to get on the road quickly and avoid being late as much as possible."

"After we hit the road in time, we may have avoided being late."

"However, there is still a certain probability that you will be late. This is something that is beyond human control."

"But the result will definitely be that you arrive at work much earlier than not rushing to work."

"The same goes for getting married in a hurry."

"Getting married within the optimal fertility window can give birth to the healthiest children, and the mother's body will recover faster."

"So we still insist that we need to rush to get married, and it is necessary to rush."

After saying this, the debaters on the affirmative side breathed a sigh of relief.

Finally the situation was restored.

The audience who supported the affirmative view also applauded the debater's performance.

"That's right!"

"It's always right to seize the time. Don't take it so slowly that you won't be able to find a good partner in the end."

"I heard that it is easier to recover after having children when you are young. If possible, you should get married and have children as early as possible!"

"But people of the older generation, like my grandmother and grandma, still live a long life after having five or six children. The age difference between their children is more than ten years. Both of them lived to be over eighty years old. There is no such thing as being born late.

Let’s just say it’s harmful to the body.”

"Yes, and physical fitness does not only depend on age. Those who exercise regularly are in much better health than young people who do not exercise. They also recover quickly."

"You are all thinking about having children, but we singles can't even find a partner, and we can't force ourselves to get in touch with people we're not interested in."

"So people like you have to rush for time. Only by getting to know more people can you have a greater chance of finding someone who is willing to contact and interact with you!"

"You're right! In fact, I almost wanted to give up."

"Be more positive. You need to fight for a good lover. In the final analysis, everyone is willing to come here to listen to this debate. In fact, in their hearts they are eager to find a better one that is more suitable for their own lifestyle. I think you are too.

, so your actions must be consistent with your heart, come on!”

This debate not only made the contestants think, but also made the audience aware of their real needs.

Although some people say that in order to get married and have children, they can relax their requirements for marriage partners.

But when I was asked the corresponding question by the opposing debater just now, I found that I was unwilling to give in.

You will also worry about a series of unsatisfactory or even catastrophic things that may happen if you marry the wrong person.

So I started to remind myself that when making decisions, you must consider multiple aspects before taking action.

There are also some people who keep saying they won’t get married if they can’t find a suitable partner, but it doesn’t matter if they don’t get married for the rest of their lives.

But deep down in their hearts, they still have the desire for a better married life, but they subconsciously think that they may not be able to find such a partner and cannot reach their ideal level, so they behave very Buddhist.

After listening to what the debaters said, I began to feel the need to follow my heart.

Stop awkwardly saying that you don’t need it, but try to look for it. What if you meet the ideal partner?

The three defenders on the stage continued to state their views.

"Then let's answer the second question from the opponent - why are we obsessed with getting married and having children, and whether it's just to leave descendants who are biologically related to us."

"I think everyone has their own ideal of a beautiful life."

"The things that make people cling to must be the things they desire and need most in their hearts."

"For us, getting married allows us to have a loving partner and a happy marriage."

"Having children allows us to feel the process of giving birth to life, and to experience and witness the happiness and joy of a young life growing up."

"If we say that some people's dreams are poetry and distant places, some people's dreams are success and fame, and some people's dreams are to be disarmed and return to their fields."

"Then our dream is to have a real and ordinary happy life."

"Our yearning is the smell of fireworks in the world, which most comforts the hearts of mortals."

"Fundamentally speaking, getting married and having children is our understanding and tireless pursuit of a happy life."

The voices of the three positive arguments echoed throughout the large venue through microphones and multiple speakers.

It is difficult for many people to face their true inner needs and express them calmly.

However, it is precisely because of its authenticity and candor that it directly touched the hearts of countless viewers and aroused strong resonance.

The applause from the scene once again rang out for the debaters on the stage.

The audience's desire for discussion was once again stimulated.

"This speech is of great quality! You are worthy of being a student of Yenching University."

"I said something that everyone is usually embarrassed to say in life."

"Actually, these words are not just for the person involved. They probably also express the sentiments of many elders who are urging everyone to get married."

A girl with a low ponytail suddenly said this.

There happened to be an older man sitting next to her who gave the answer.

"Girl, you are right. We, middle-aged and elderly people, cannot say to our children that I hope you live a happy life, so I want you to get married as soon as possible."

"The clichés we say are also passed down from the previous generation. But they are no longer here, and even we are gone."

"This is not only a memory for the older generation, but also a sustenance for the younger generation."

Listening to the elder's emotion, the next second, the girl with the low ponytail's eyes turned red for no reason.

She thought about her family's situation and what her parents said to her.

Because the marriage was strongly urged by the family, the two parties had many fierce quarrels.

She repeatedly refused to continue contact with people she had no feelings for, causing her parents to think that she had made up her mind and did not want to get married.

Facing anxious questions from his parents, he was embarrassed to say that he refused because he wanted to pursue true happiness.

She knew that there were many things she could not say to her relatives, so it suddenly occurred to her just now that her parents might be the same way.

Such alexithymia is common among Chinese people.

This is especially true for those with more traditional ideas.

She refused to marry on a blind date for the sake of happiness, and her parents' urging for marriage was also for her happiness.

She suddenly felt that she should try to talk to her parents about her true thoughts in the future.

At this time, there was a sudden noise nearby.

"I'll go! Jiang Qin also saw our debate competition!! She even replied!!"