Who would study psychology if they didn't have some kind of problem?

Chapter 151 Maybe we should find a small tavern another day.
Shen Bing didn't think about it carefully at the moment; he hadn't yet realized the change in his emotions.

I just felt like there was a little person pricking me inside.

It's like someone stuffing strawberries, pineapples, and durians into dumplings right in front of you, cooking them right there, eating them, breathing on them, and then waving a little flowery hand gesture.

"Teacher Nan," Shen Bing took a deep breath and suddenly asked, "Has something happened again? Is there anything I can do to help?"

Seeing Nan Zhuren, who was usually calm and collected, showing a rare display of visible anger, Shen Bing suddenly felt a sense of shared indignation.

[Emotional readjustment]

Nan Zhuren suddenly calmed down.

"Ah, it's nothing," Nan Zhuren said casually. "I just suddenly remembered to go over the storyline again."

After hearing this.

The flame in Shen Bing's heart seemed to have been suddenly blown by a breath of cold air.

Nan Zhuren smiled, stood up, patted Shen Bing on the shoulder, and walked towards the tea room.

Shen Bing was left standing there, stunned by his disjointed emotions.

I don't know why, but I suddenly got a little angry just now.

He was genuinely angry from the bottom of his heart.

[But clearly, there wasn't anything about what Teacher Nan said that could make me angry. Who cares whether their counseling is legitimate or whether they value the client?]

[Could it be that because I've been working with Nan Zhuren, who has a high level of professional ethics, for so long, my own professional ethics have also become high?]

Behind Shen Bing.

Just as Nan Zhuren was about to turn towards the tea room, his figure was about to disappear around the corner.

He leaned back abruptly, bending his body 60 degrees to look at Shen Bing.

After confirming that the consulting assistant was radiating a faint sense of confusion and bewilderment, he nodded in satisfaction.

The feeling of pleasure came over me.

……

Emotional contagion refers to the ability of an individual or group to influence the emotions of others through emotional expression and behavior.

Emotional charisma is a very important skill in interpersonal relationships.

Many people don't even know how to express their own emotions, let alone infect others with their emotions.

Among people with high emotional charisma, the most representative is a failed art student who likes to give speeches in small bars.

The shirt costs nine pounds and fifteen pence, so what about the price of a loaf of bread? The answer is five hundred thousand mak...

Of course, Nan Zhuren's current [Emotional Influence] is only at level [+1], so it naturally doesn't have such strong power.

The results of the test just now clearly illustrate the point.

"To test my emotional impact, I first need to have intense emotional fluctuations."

"And my emotions are very stable, so in order to be clever, I can only use stimuli to trigger them in a short time, and the easiest thing to trigger is anger."

As a psychological counselor, Nan Zhuren engages in self-exploration from time to time. Therefore, he clearly knows where his emotional sensitivities lie.

That's why Shen Bing just witnessed what happened.

"However, if we use a nine-point scale, and my anger just now is considered a level [6], then Shen Bing's is at most a level [3], or even only a level [2]."

This might be because the [Emotional Influence] stat is only [+1].

Completing the monthly goals multiple times might make you stronger. What Nan Zhuren values ​​is the potential to use emotional appeal in counseling.

"If I had been able to influence Li Minglu with my own stable, even eager, emotions at the end of the consultation, I might have been able to get him to drop his defensive stance and bravely express himself to Wang Sui."

"This will propel the consultation into the next stage..."

This is a bit of a shortcut, because the purpose of counseling is to enable the client to generate their own energy, while Nan Zhuren's use of the term "emotional contagion" is equivalent to temporarily lending energy to the other party.

But often, the consultation is just one step away from breaking through that barrier; and if that opportunity is missed, the client's strength will gradually diminish, and they may even regress to the state they were in before the consultation.

At this point, a counselor is needed to give it a push.

This is also one of the benefits of psychological counseling.

"Emotional charisma is a very meaningful skill in counseling; it's much more useful to me than charisma!"

"I need to try to achieve my monthly goals more often this month!"

Determined to improve his "emotional charisma," Nan Zhuren downed his coffee in one gulp.

This bold style left several young consultants in the break room speechless; it was the first time they had ever seen someone drink coffee with such a spirit.

Still an iced Americano.

"How tired must she be? Teacher Nan is always sleeping when she's at work!"

"Maybe he's secretly working overtime and studying where no one can see him, looking at materials and case studies."

"Hiss... Someone so good-looking, yet doing something like this behind the scenes?"

"That makes sense. Otherwise, how could someone so young be so capable and achieve such high results?"

The young counselors whispered among themselves.

Then, they saw Nan Zhuren take out his phone and silently dial a number.

"Hey?"

……

Jiangda Psychological Counseling Center.

Front desk.

Since it was weekday school hours, there were no visitors, and the counselors were busy with other administrative tasks, so the counseling center was quite empty.

In the huge consultation center, only two energetic student assistants sat at the front desk.

The indoor heater was on in winter, and the blast of air from it made the two little girls' faces turn bright red.

Chen Ting held Xia Tian's delicate little hand, feeling the skin as smooth and supple as a peeled lychee, while carefully examining the beautiful manicure on it, and sighed, "Tian Tian, ​​you have no idea how hard it was for me to come here."

Chen Ting, a girl who recently experienced PTSD, no longer shows much trace of her past in her emotions.

Although she was complaining, she didn't seem to care much: "My situation has been documented, and now it's difficult for me to do anything. If I hadn't pestered the teacher for so long, I might not have gotten this student assistant position."

Summer is all smiles.

She reached out and grabbed Chen Ting's fingers, first giving them a mischievous rub with a grin, then sighed, "I've been waiting for you for so long. You have no idea how bored I was sitting here alone the other days. The other student assistants the school assigned to me, none of them did any work, they all used this place as a study room, and there were even a few boys..."

As Xia Tian spoke, she wrinkled her pretty nose and shook her head repeatedly: "You always come to me to chat about random things."

Chen Ting smiled and said, "I understand, I understand. After all, having spent time with Teacher Nan, all the boys in school just don't seem appealing anymore, right?"

Chen Ting shook her head and said, "When you're young, you just can't meet someone who's too amazing."

(End of this chapter)