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Chapter 70 Marriage can cost the wages of two people.

"But didn't you just say that the men on the dating market don't even glance at me?"

“That’s how it is normally, but sometimes…” Zhang Zhe gave a meaningful smile: “Your appearance can bring salvation to many people.”

"You shouldn't be picky about looks, right?"

"No, I'm not pretty myself, how could I ask others to be pretty?"

Are there any requirements regarding the bride price? Is there a saying that one won't marry if the bride price is less than a certain amount?

"Actually, it doesn't matter whether I give her anything or not." The woman smiled bitterly. "My mother doesn't care about me, so I definitely won't get a dowry. She might not even be able to come to the wedding."

These are all good things!

Holy crap, a normal person!

Your understanding is so unique and exceptional that you're practically a chosen one in the dating market.

She's definitely never been on a blind date; she thinks too little of herself.

“Then take a look at the comments now,” Zhang Zhe said with a smile. “Don’t be too self-conscious. You’re very popular in the dating market, especially in your social class.”

"Huh? Really?"

As Zhang Zhe requested, the woman watched the live comments for a while.

No one criticized her; they all said that with her qualifications, it would be easy for her to find someone.

Some viewers even offered to help her find a partner.

"Why?" the girl asked, puzzled. "I feel like I'm the worst off among the girls around me. Some of them are better off than me, and they're not even married yet."

“When they chat with me, they all say that there are so many guys to choose from when it comes to blind dates these days.”

"Haha, do you think the girls around you are picky?"

"They're quite picky too."

“That’s right, that’s how the matching system should be.” Zhang Zhe nodded as he spoke: “Just like how a woman who’s been struggling to find a husband is matched with a scumbag, a single woman who’s picky and choosy needs a man who’s equally picky to keep her in check.”

"You're different, you're a normal person."

"Let's say a normal man goes on blind dates and goes on ten blind dates with older single women. None of the women are satisfied with him. They not only refuse to split the bill when they eat, but they also keep finding fault with him and might even give him the cold shoulder."

"At this point, they must be completely desperate about blind dates."

[That's so true, bro, that's exactly me.]

[Are you there? Why are you secretly filming my life?]

I'm different. I went on three dates and realized I'd never get married.

“If they set you up on a blind date at this point…” Zhang Zhe chuckled, “Believe me, as long as the gap between your circumstances isn’t too big, they’ll definitely like you.”

"To say that you have feelings for someone is a bit conservative."

"I think the most genuine feeling would be similar to seeing Qiu Xiang among a bunch of Sister Pomegranates..."

Many viewers in the live stream actually have experience with blind dates.

Despite the fact that people often send unfiltered comments and some even express misogyny, they can still distinguish between right and wrong.

The girls who connect via live stream are clearly a breath of fresh air in the matchmaking market.

Most guys would know they're lucky if they ran into someone like that.

"But..." the woman hesitated, unable to finish her sentence.

"It's okay, just say whatever comes to mind," Zhang Zhe encouraged. "I understand your situation. Since you've come for consultation, don't leave with questions."

"okay."

"Brother Zhang, I'm actually a little afraid of marriage."

“I don’t have any family members on my mother’s side. I consulted a teacher before, and she said that in the matchmaking market, it’s a plus for men to not have parents, but a minus for women, because the woman’s family can’t help the man, and over time they are more likely to be disliked.”

"I understand what you mean, but I have to tell you, you're overthinking it."

"The right partner for you shouldn't be someone whose family background is so important that you have to marry them. This isn't a Brahmin marriage."

"You are best suited to find someone who is honest, respectful, and willing to build a marriage with you. Those who hope to find a wife to get rich or change their fate are not suitable for you."

"Oh..." the woman responded, seemingly not quite understanding. Zhang Zhe could tell she didn't understand at all.

Since the girl seemed to be a normal person, he decided to say a few more words, since normal people were rare in this live stream.

"Let me give you an example. If your current rent is 1000 yuan and your partner's rent is 1500 yuan, you can save 1000 yuan by living together after you get married."

"This is just the rent. If you include food, drinks and utilities, you can probably save 2000 a month."

“While saving money, you two are also saving money. Before, each of you could only save 3000 a month, but now the two of you can save 6000 together. Add the 2000 you saved, and that's 8000.”

"Saving 8000 yuan a month is already better than many white-collar workers who earn over 10,000 yuan a month."

"This is the greatest significance of marriage for ordinary people like us from the bottom of society: after 1+1, the consumption is less than 2, but the net income is greater than 2."

"If income exceeds expenses and there are no major changes, we can slowly manage our lives and make them get better little by little."

Zhang Zhe chuckled as he spoke: "To be honest, that's exactly how my parents are."

That's how marriages were for the older generation, of course I'm referring to the happy ones.

[Hey streamer, where can I find someone like this?]

My wife and I are exactly the kind of couple Zhang Ge described. From a minivan to a Tesla, we've shared both hardships and joys.

[Hey you, the one showing off your relationship earlier, who asked you anything?]

[Cao, what the host said is making me want to get married.]

[Don't believe this, family members, it's a clandestine advertisement from the Civil Affairs Bureau.]

"But some people get married just to make money, to spend another person's salary. You should avoid these kinds of people."

“I understand, Brother Zhang.” After listening to Zhang Zhe’s words, the girl realized something: “My family doesn’t have the burden of supporting my parents in their old age, so if I find a husband to work hard with, I can save money faster than ordinary families.”

"The burden on the elderly is 1+1=1."

"You're right," Zhang Zhe said, giving a thumbs up.

"Also, my friends, they all want to find a husband and enjoy life. They're the kind of people you're talking about, wanting to spend the salary of two people." The woman then added, "I understand now. No wonder guys aren't willing."

"I wouldn't want to either."

“Actually, there are people who are willing,” Zhang Zhe said with a smile. “There’s a streamer who plays Aatrox who is willing. Your sister can only find someone like that, but it really depends on luck.”

"I understand—" the girl drawled, her tone as if she were still savoring the blind date tips Zhang Zhe had shared with her.

Should I go to a matchmaking agency?

“There’s no need,” Zhang Zhe waved his hand and said, “Matchmaking agencies are now positioned as mid-to-high-end services. You’re better off attending matchmaking events or asking people around you, like the neighborhood committee aunties, to recommend someone for you.”

"At least personally, I think that men who spend thousands or even tens of thousands of yuan to become members of a matchmaking agency are not suitable for you."

“Indeed,” the woman agreed wholeheartedly. “It would take me three months to save up 10,000 yuan, and I can’t afford a matchmaking agency.”

"Thank you, Brother Zhang, I understand completely now."

"When I find a partner, I'll bring him to the live stream to thank you."

"Okay, good luck." Zhang Zhe was willing to provide free after-sales service: "If you encounter any problems, you can consult me ​​again."

"I definitely understand men better than you do."

"Okay, thank you so much, Brother Zhang. I'll head down now."

This girl is really nice, but I feel like people like her are a minority.

"Some viewers commented that they felt these people were a minority, but in absolute terms, there are quite a few."

"It's just that very few of them end up in the matchmaking market."

"Think about the people around you. If you had a girl like this in your life, who comes from a poor family but has a clear understanding of herself, can endure hardship, and doesn't ask a man for a lot of money, would you be able to resist introducing her to your relatives and friends?"

[Does the streamer mean all the girls they meet on blind dates are superhuman?]

"Hey, viewers, don't get me wrong. It's not just the girls on blind dates who are amazing, the guys are too."

"However, the male-to-female ratio in the matchmaking market is now more than 1 to 10, which is why you think there are more women on matchmaking sites with amazing men..."

(End of this chapter)