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Chapter 329 Let's postpone it for another two years.

“Of course there’s a problem.” Zhang Zhe pointed to himself and said, “I used to be a programmer. Could you give me the honor and not involve me as a programmer?”

"They really have it tough; their wages are hard-earned money, earned line by line of code."

“I don’t necessarily want to find a programmer.” The woman quickly changed her mind: “I just want to find someone with a stable job so that my family can have more stability in the future.”

"If you have a stable job, why don't you look for someone working for a state-owned enterprise or a civil servant? Why would you choose a programmer who's easily laid off?"

"No, their wages are too low."

"..." Zhang Zhe glanced at the reactions of the viewers in the live stream. They were all saying that she was making a wish, and they even suggested which temple would be most effective for her.

"Sister, I'm asking you on behalf of the viewers: with such a high annual income, why do you still demand a high salary from your partner?"

"Three to five hundred thousand, you can earn it back in a month."

"Why not relax your economic requirements and find a better man?"

“No, not at all.” The woman replied with a very certain tone: “Our family has been in the jewelry business for many years, and we’ve lost money quite a few times. No one can make money all the time.”

"What if the business fails in the future? Only if the man also has a high-income job can we guarantee that our quality of life will not decline."

“Brother Zhang, I’m doing this for my future and my child’s future.”

"No matter how reasonable your considerations are, if they don't meet the objective laws of the matchmaking market, you won't find anyone."

“Men with an annual income of 500,000 are not bad in terms of education or knowledge, so they definitely won’t choose you.”

"Let me put it this way: high-income groups might be deceived by 'green tea' girls, but if a 'green tea' girl has a child before marriage, they will definitely wake up instantly."

Zhang Zhe spoke in a very serious tone, leaving no room for the other party to have any illusions.

The woman's wish is not actually for someone who is sick. Her child will probably attend a very expensive private school and study abroad in the future, so the stepfather's conditions must be as high as possible and the better his income.

But who would want to be the sucker? That would be a really stupid idea.

"So, with my qualifications, what kind of woman can I find?" the woman said with a hint of complaint. "With my income, I can't exactly find an ordinary employee who earns a few hundred thousand a year, can I?"

"To be honest, the jade bracelet I wear is worth a year's salary for him. It takes him a month's salary to buy a pair of shoes for my son. Doesn't that make it even harder for us to be together?"

“Of course.” Zhang Zhe nodded. “So my advice is, don’t rush to look for it.”

"It's too embarrassing for someone your age to bring a child to a blind date. Think about the problems you'll face after marriage, such as property division, children's education, and whether or not to have more children."

"Are you sure you can explain all these issues to your second husband?"

"To put it more specifically, if the man wants to have a child after marriage, will you have the child or not? After the child is born, the child will cost money, will you pay for it or not?"

"He can have the child, but he has to raise it himself," the woman replied quickly.

Zhang Zhe's question was swift: "He can raise his own child, no problem. But if your child encounters trouble in the future, why should he help you?"

Yeah, we can't let you have all the good things, can we?

Is this woman's money really her own? I have a feeling it was given to her by the child's biological father.

[She's somewhat like a mistress; all the assets were transferred from the child's father.]

Even a sly man wouldn't accept this kind of behavior.

"..." The woman was stumped by Zhang Zhe's question.

She can indeed separate herself from her husband financially, but what about the children?
If she doesn't have children, then who will want to have them?
"Brother Zhang, do you mean I shouldn't look for someone now, but wait until later?" "Wouldn't I be even older by then?"

"If you really want a stable marriage, this is the best way," Zhang Zhe sincerely advised. "Since you can still earn money now, earn more. If you're worried about losing money in business, put it in your child's name, set up a trust fund or something."

"When you're thirty-seven or thirty-eight, and your child is in high school, it's not too late for you to look for someone."

"Why?" the woman asked, puzzled. "If my son goes to high school, will it be easier for me to find a partner?"

"Yes, if you look for a divorced man at that time, and he's a bit older than you, his children will already be adults and even have started working."

"At this point, you just need to find a suitable person to live with. The man usually won't want children, so you don't need to go through the trouble of getting both of your children to adapt to the new environment."

"The most important thing is the money. We need to discuss it properly so that we don't have to wait until we're old to have financial disputes."

"Oh, that really works—" The woman took a deep breath, as if digesting Zhang Zhe's words.

This method really works.

【Then she can find a man her age now】

She definitely can't accept a 45-year-old divorced man right now; she'll only understand that when she gets older.

I have a feeling that she might not want to get married by then.

[Her son going to high school is useless; he still needs to go to university and get married, and the man he marries will be Dorgon.]

"There's a comment in the live chat that I don't quite agree with," Zhang Zhe said, unable to resist retorting, "This woman should wait until her son is an adult, or almost an adult, before marrying him. How can the man be Dorgon?"

"You don't need to worry about the children anymore. It's like Fulin is already the emperor. If you go there, you'll just be a harlot to the Empress Dowager. If you're going to be one, you'll be like Lao Ai."

"These days, the popular saying is: 'Dad, try harder and find me a rich stepmother.'"

"The man's son is an adult now, working hard at his job, and then he turns around and finds out that his father got married even faster than him, and found a rich woman. He must be laughing in his sleep, okay?"

"Haha, Brother Zhang, what you said is really interesting." The woman chuckled. "I think you have a point. I'd better focus on making money first. Finding a partner isn't urgent."

"Yes, with your current circumstances, you could choose a thousand times and still prioritize making money."

Seeing that the woman had really listened, Zhang Zhe breathed a sigh of relief for his fellow programmers in Guangzhou.

If this woman were to actually go on a blind date and pretend to have a real purpose, someone might actually fall for it, but it would definitely have to be a lie.

If she tells the truth when she goes on a blind date, saying that the man shouldn't even think about the money she earns, and that he should also be responsible for her and her son's livelihood, then she'll never find that bag.

As for the audience's question about why she, who is so rich, has trouble finding a partner.

Zhang Zhe's explanation was simple: she was reluctant to spend money!
This money, whether she earned it herself through hard work or it was money her child's father helped her with out of consideration for the child, she would definitely not be willing to spend it on another man.

This is also a contradictory point about this kind of young, wealthy woman:

They have the financial means to support a man of similar stature, but they still think like traditional women, wanting to earn their own money and spend it themselves, and also wanting to spend the man's money on themselves.

Zhang Zhe felt that this type of person was the most difficult to please in the dating market, as their mindset and conditions were completely mismatched.

In comparison, older single women might be in a slightly better position.

Perhaps God heard Zhang Zhe's heartfelt words, because the next viewer to join the live stream was indeed an older single woman.

(End of this chapter)