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Chapter 295 Do you still want to get married?

"You can't say that, I just think it's a bit strange," Dr. Qi explained.

However, this explanation sounded weak and unconvincing to Zhang Zhe, as it clearly reflected the perspective of the victim.

This is a typical NTR (Netorare) viewing experience.

Thinking about it, that makes sense. If Dr. Qi were to adopt a third-party perspective, he should be secretly overjoyed, but that would have nothing to do with marriage.

He wants to get married, so he will naturally assume the role of a proper marital relationship.

Seeing that Zhang Zhe didn't ask any further questions, Dr. Qi continued:
"There's another outrageous one. There was a young couple who were childhood sweethearts and grew up together. They weren't even old enough to get married, but they found a church abroad to get married."

"I had a baby before I even had a wedding after returning to China."

"The week before last, when the child was just over ten days old, we wanted to register the child's birth, so we came here to register the father and son."

"The results showed that there was no blood relationship between father and son."

“Neither of them believed it, because they got married because they were expecting a child. When the results came out, the child’s grandparents were all present, and they all suspected that we had made a mistake in the test.”

"The result is correct, right?" Zhang Zhe had already guessed that the probability of a paternity test being wrong was now lower than winning the lottery.

"At the time, they suspected that the babies had been switched at birth."

"I suggested that we have a paternity test to rule out that possibility. The results came back this week, and the mother and child are indeed biologically related."

"..." Zhang Zhe touched his forehead. Love is a light, so beautiful.

"The two families started fighting right in front of our appraisal center, and the police took them away."

"Then yesterday, the guy messaged me and told me that the girl admitted that she had a relationship with someone else at a classmate reunion when they were studying in Australia."

"But because she had drunk too much, the woman herself didn't know who the father of the child was."

“Australia is still too authoritative.” Zhang Zhe nodded, which was consistent with his understanding.

To paraphrase a male user on a certain online forum: "Since you've chosen to marry a girl who studied abroad, whatever happens afterward, you just have to accept it and not complain."

If something like this can happen between childhood sweethearts who studied abroad together, then the chances of something being kept secret between them and someone they met through other means are far higher than the chances of no problems at all.

However, this is not the topic Zhang Zhe wants to discuss with Dr. Qi today.

"Dr. Qi, although there are many such odd cases, the probability of the child being biologically related is still more than 50%."

"Moreover, these are people who came to you for verification because they suspected there was a problem. The probability of problems is naturally higher among these people."

"You don't need to be too pessimistic."

“You can’t say that,” Dr. Qi shook his head. “I’ve been doing paternity tests for 10 years.”

"Ten years ago, this type of personal paternity testing could only be done with blood and hair samples, and it could not be mailed."

"The rate of non-biological children at that time was around 15%."

“After 2018, some reagents that were originally only used in cases were gradually opened to our private institutions. We could even use toothbrushes and cigarette butts, and the non-biological birth rate rose directly to 25%.”

"If this trend continues, it's a certainty that it will rise to 30% in the future."

"This is still the case where someone gave birth to a child and proved it wasn't their biological child; we also have many cases where people who cheated come to us for paternity testing..."

Zhang Zhe summarized Dr. Qi's words for him: in short, he had seen too many upsetting things and no longer trusted intimate relationships between men and women.

In addition, his own appearance is average. He looks like an ordinary and boring middle-aged man when he walks down the street, making it difficult for women to feel any physical attraction to him.

Although he is indeed well-off materially, simply having good material conditions makes it easy for him to attract women with impure motives.

Otherwise, he wouldn't have been conducting business in that group of bachelors.

"Dr. Qi, I understand your situation very well."

"From what I've heard, your main problem seems to be psychological. If you really close your eyes and want to find a woman to marry, it shouldn't be difficult, right?"

"I don't know," Dr. Qi shook his head. "I've never been on a blind date." "You haven't been on a blind date in all these years?" Zhang Zhe questioned. "Aren't you 36 already?"

"Yes, it's not that I'm afraid of blind dates, it's just that I lack confidence in things like marriage after a blind date."

“I’m basically busy with work every day, leaving early and returning late, and I don’t have a good sense of humor, so I can’t provide emotional value.”

"In terms of male physiology, he's not particularly outstanding, so conquering women is basically impossible for him."

"In short, I perfectly fit the image of a victim," Dr. Qi sighed and said. "In today's popular online parlance, I am the typical 'powerful man'."

"With all that money you earn, you're not just a laborer, you're a genuine millionaire."

"No, no, no, those who don't have to work to earn money are the real rich people." Dr. Qi's self-perception was clearly different from others' views of him.

In his own eyes, he was a "born cuckold".

He's already 36, past the age of sexual repression. If he were to get married, he'd most likely want a child, but the child might not even be his own...

"Do you still want to get married now?" Zhang Zhe couldn't help but ask.

"I didn't think about it that much before, but I think about it more now than before."

"The main reason is that my parents are getting old, and their last wish in this life is to hold their grandchildren," Dr. Qi said with a hint of helplessness.

His parents are about to sever ties with him in an attempt to force him into marriage.

The two elderly people are both 60 years old. They would rather stay in their old house in the countryside, doing farm work every day to support themselves, than come to the city to enjoy their retirement.

They don't even want the retirement money sent by their only son.

"I have two options for your situation, you can try listening to them."

Zhang Zhe took a sip of tea to moisten his throat before speaking:
"The first option is for you to find a divorced woman with a daughter, around thirty years old, with her own job, and willing to have a son for you after marriage."

"I think with your abilities, it shouldn't be difficult to find out why this woman got divorced and whether she's a good person or not, right?"

"It's not difficult." Dr. Qi nodded. "But why does it have to be a divorced woman with a child?"

“Having a child can greatly reduce your mental burden, because if you marry this kind of woman, you are already raising someone else’s daughter.”

"This is called fighting poison with poison."

"..." Dr. Qi pondered for a moment, then looked at Zhang Zhe with a complicated expression: "Brother Zhang, you are indeed different from other matchmakers."

“A matchmaker once suggested that I sign a prenuptial agreement. Actually, it’s not about the money; it’s that I can’t accept betrayal.”

“Yes, I understand.” Zhang Zhe nodded: “In the traditional male mindset, a wife’s betrayal is actually a denial of you as a person.”

"You can't accept this feeling of being rejected."

"Yes, yes, that's exactly what I mean." Dr. Qi slapped his thigh hard.

It felt like someone had finally spoken my mind, and I felt completely relieved.

"Would you like to hear the second option?"

"Yes, Brother Zhang, you can tell me, I'm listening."

"Okay, the second method is, why don't you rush into marriage? Be generous and find a young girl to date."

"If you have a child, and it's yours, then register the child's birth, and then decide whether or not to get married based on the situation."

"Huh? You mean wrap one?" Dr. Qi scratched his head. "That's not a good idea."

"It doesn't have to be a paid arrangement; free love or arranged marriage are both fine." Zhang Zhe couldn't say some things outright, and could only hope that Dr. Qi would figure it out herself.

Dr. Qi's parents wanted a grandson, and the dating agreement of "getting married after having a child" is something many women can accept.

(End of this chapter)