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Chapter 284 I don't know how to pursue girls.

"I've never met her best friend. She originally wanted to introduce me to her best friend, but we didn't continue our relationship, so we never had a chance to meet."

“It’s not necessarily a best friend.” Zhang Zhe shook his head and reminded the boy, “Does she have any older siblings, cousins, or close friends in the neighborhood? Think about it carefully.”

"She has an older sister."

"Hmm." Zhang Zhe nodded in satisfaction. That's right.

Although he hasn't had much experience with girls, based on his and his friends' dating experience over the years, if a girl's behavior and attitude suddenly change in a way that you can't understand...

There's a high probability that someone is sabotaging this.

According to the boy, the two of them were getting along well and things were progressing smoothly, but for some reason, things suddenly changed.

The viewers in the live stream subconsciously assumed that the girl knew another man, which is actually quite reasonable.

However, if the woman's mother comes to the door and asks what the situation is, then the probability of a "third party" is greatly reduced.

Then the question suddenly came up about the existence of an older sister, so the problem must lie with her.

How old is her older sister?

"Married?"

"She's not married. Her older sister is almost 30. She doesn't live with her parents; she works and rents a place in the county town."

"Oh, right, her sister also went on blind dates before, introduced by a relative of hers, but it didn't work out quickly."

She said it was because the boy didn't message her first; they added each other as friends, but hadn't spoken a word to each other for two days.

"Hahaha." Zhang Zhe couldn't help but laugh. As expected of a recent college graduate, he already knew about the other woman's sister's situation. Wasn't the reason obvious?

"Brother, think about it, aren't you in the same situation as her sister's blind date?"

"Yes!"

"Brother Zhang, are you saying that she was corrupted by her sister, which is why she suddenly stopped talking to me?"

"Hmm." Zhang Zhe nodded and leisurely picked up his water glass.

I thought it was some kind of sensational story, but it turns out it's just an older single woman causing trouble and sabotaging her own younger sister.

He's already given me all the hints; I'm sure this guy can figure out the rest on his own.

Her sister might even be jealous of her younger sister.

【I have a bold idea, why don't you ask her sister if she'd be willing to be with you?】

Her sister taught her how to play hard to get. What era are we living in? That "playing hard to get" tactic is so overused. No wonder she's almost 30 and still single.

To be honest, it's a good thing to avoid this kind of woman. Marrying a woman who doesn't know her place will only bring you misery.

"Why?" the young man said, frustrated. "I have no grudge against her sister. Why won't she let her sister get married either?"

"Why do you care what her sister's reasons are? That's not your business."

Zhang Zhe shook his head. This guy is still young. These days, blind dates are all about efficiency. Why do you care what the other person thinks? Isn't the right thing to do to move on to the next one?

"She's not even with you yet, but she already listens to her sister and plays hard to get with you, making it impossible for the relationship to continue."

"If you get together, won't you become a shared guinea pig for these two sisters' marriage philosophies?"

"Her sister is not married. If you want to be with her sister, she will use every trick in the book on you."

"What you're saying, Brother Zhang... is terrifying!"

"It's not terrifying, but it's definitely frustrating," Zhang Zhe said calmly. "Of course, there are ways to break this deadlock."

"You just need to go straight for her and make her fall deeply in love with you before her sister even realizes what's happening. That way, even if her sister tries to stir things up, she'll at least hesitate for a moment."

"But this is too difficult for a guy like you who's just starting out in relationships." "I really don't know how to date," the guy said shyly. "After you said that, I feel like she doesn't actually like me that much."

"Otherwise, she wouldn't have been doing whatever her sister told her to do after a month of dating. I wasn't on a blind date with her sister..."

"That's good. You've already learned to apply what you've learned to other situations, which is indeed one reason." Zhang Zhe clapped at the camera, saying it was quite good that he could think of that.

To put it bluntly, this was just a typical failed blind date, but it gained some attention because it was this young man's first time.

If it were a seasoned matchmaker, they would have already deleted each other and moved on to the next person.

This guy probably isn't good at modeling, so he's never experienced what it feels like to have a girl take the initiative.

That girl was probably the first girl he ever held hands with, so he can't forget her.

Actually, I think the two of them are quite compatible, but there's nothing that can be done about the girl's lack of assertiveness.

[Doesn't he seem a bit like a gender-swapped version of a mama's boy?]

Marrying a woman with such a close sisterly relationship, where they can influence each other's decisions, is a recipe for disaster. That's why only daughters are more desirable.

"Hey bro, want me to help you with your dating market positioning?" Zhang Zhe asked enthusiastically.

"I don't need it."

“My family is from the countryside, and I know my situation. If I were to get married, it would definitely be someone from a similar family background introduced by my family.”

"We probably won't need to use location services anymore."

"Haha, since you've put it that way, I won't force you to define yourself, but your thinking is really flawed."

"In your situation, before someone helps you find a blind date, you'll definitely prioritize looking among your colleagues and old classmates."

"The probability of meeting a suitable partner this way is much higher than going on a blind date."

"If you're going on blind dates, you should be prepared to only meet one person out of 100."

The probability isn't that high.

I think there should be at least 200.

[500 is enough to meet almost every girl in a county who is a good match for you.]

[Do you guys think blind dates are like gacha pulls, hoping to get a guaranteed pull after trying multiple times?]

"Then I feel like it'll be difficult for me to get married in this lifetime." The boy suddenly became a little dejected: "Where am I supposed to meet so many girls? I might only meet one out of 100."

"Brother, do you have a comprehension problem?" Zhang Zhe frowned and asked back, "I said the probability of finding a partner through a blind date is low."

"That doesn't mean you have such a low probability of pursuing other girls in real life."

"But I don't know how to pursue girls!"

"Then... just take your time with blind dates," Zhang Zhe said helplessly.

The other person has very low initiative; this type of person is used to being pushed forward.

If you ask him to take the initiative, he will say that he can't do it.

Fortunately, this guy has a father who understands him very well. With him being pushed around like this, it's estimated that getting married and starting a career won't be a problem in the future.

"Brother Zhang, won't you teach me a couple of tricks?" The guy had a wicked thought to him, wanting to take a shortcut: "I saw you taught people how to chat with their blind date before, and it was quite useful."

"Teach me!"

“You don’t need to learn this so early,” Zhang Zhe shook his head and refused. “Go on more blind dates first, and figure out whether you want to get married.”

"If you still want to get married after ten failed attempts, then come back to me with your medical records."

(End of this chapter)