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Chapter 282 Sister, I don't have the same needs as you.

For most people who come for advice, regardless of their circumstances, Zhang Zhe will try his best to help them find a direction for marriage.

Matchmakers and livestreamers do this kind of work.

But this girl is really different.

[Medium-Value Intelligence]

[Your blind date, Ge Xi'an, comes from a wealthy family and has always been pampered. However, due to her mother's death and her father's remarriage, she is very demanding of her partner and has a strong possessive nature. Several of her relationships have ended because of her personality issues.]

Currently, Ms. Ge and her father have a strained relationship and have not communicated for years. If you want to advance your relationship with this woman, you must first make her feel attracted to you.

Upon reviewing the system's intelligence, Zhang Zhe almost immediately sentenced the sisters' marriage to life imprisonment.

Her situation is no different from that of girls from poor families of origin, and may even be more serious.

Some people suffer trauma in their childhood, such as witnessing their parents arguing or experiencing domestic violence, which makes it take them a long time to heal as adults.

But this girl encountered this kind of thing when she had just come of age. Zhang Zhe didn't know the specifics of her family situation, but it was clear that her psychological trauma was a "new wound" that couldn't be healed in a short time.

New wounds are always more painful than old ones. She happened to encounter family changes during her prime dating years, which could easily ruin her chances of finding a partner.

"Sister, you should be mentally prepared to spend the rest of your life alone, right?"

"Yeah, I've thought about that a long time ago." The girl clearly had a lot to say: "I feel quite comfortable living like this without any worries. I feel that finding someone else might lower my quality of life."

What do you think, teacher?

“I basically agree.” Zhang Zhe nodded: “In our matchmaking industry, your current situation has a specific name: misalignment of values ​​in marriage and relationships.”

"What I mean is that your current mindset, beliefs, lifestyle, etc., are completely disproportionate to your assets and family background."

"They were just slightly off-center."

“I can imagine that you live the life of an urban elite woman, or even a second-generation rich kid with some financial freedom, but if you come to the matchmaking market, your hard conditions will position you at the level of an ordinary urban white-collar worker.”

"If you marry a man who matches your criteria in the matchmaking market, you're unlikely to enjoy life as much as you do now when you're single, especially after you have children."

These sophisticated girls with no family wealth are the hardest to find a partner.

[Aren't most single women in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen like this?]

She's different from other single women; she's single because of a family tragedy. If her mother were still alive, she would be a typical "rich, beautiful, and successful" woman.

It's just fate playing tricks on us.

Sister, I can't even imagine how wonderful your life would be if you weren't so fixated on marriage.

"Yes, I'm really embarrassed right now."

The woman nodded emphatically.
"My current situation is that I know the kind of guy I'm looking for would definitely not be interested in me, but as for the kind of guy I'm not interested in, I feel like I'd rather be alone."

"And it might also be related to my personality. None of the guys I went on blind dates with were particularly enthusiastic towards me."

“I went to have my fortune told a while ago. The fortune teller told me that I am destined to be a lonely person and that I am destined to be alone and miserable in this life.”

"Sister, have you really reached the point of having your fortune told?"

"Why would you waste that money? Come to me, and I'll explain everything clearly to you."

Zhang Zhe stretched out his hand, pinched his fingers, and asked:
"Tell me, what do you value most when looking for a partner?"

"What I value most... is having a spark, and it has to be someone I feel is right for me."

The girl's answer was exactly the same as the system's intelligence report—an answer that would make any matchmaker's eyes go blank. It seemed to be the most demanding requirement.

However, Zhang Zhe wasn't trying to find her a partner, so after hearing this answer, he only paused briefly before continuing to ask:
"If it feels right, what do you look at next?"

"Then... let's see how he's doing financially." The girl thought for a moment and explained, "Actually, when I was younger, I didn't care whether a guy had money or not."

"But now that I'm older, I can clearly feel that whether a man has money or not has a huge impact on him."

"If possible, I would still prefer to find someone with better conditions."

“No problem, this request is normal.” Zhang Zhe could tell that this girl was very rational. Her views on marriage and relationships had been formed gradually, not just on a whim, so they could withstand scrutiny.

"If you still want to get married, there's really only one way left."

"You should seize the golden age of finding a partner at 30, participate in social activities with acquaintances as much as possible, and if you see someone you like, quickly ask your friends to introduce you."

"Keep trying and failing until you find your soulmate, or eventually give up."

"You don't need to go to the matchmaking market anymore. Your background and requirements are too mismatched, you won't find anyone."

"I understand." The girl bit her cheek and nodded thoughtfully. "Then at what age should I stop trying?"

"It won't be long. Your pride won't let you hold out for long," Zhang Zhe predicted confidently.

This girl was already certain in her heart that she could live well on her own, regardless of the actual situation, but she had a backup plan in mind.

Given this premise, if she is rejected a few times by the men she likes, she will completely lose the courage to get married.

“I think you’re right, teacher.” The girl nodded in deep agreement. “Actually, I’m already starting to lose confidence.”

"But after what you said, Brother Zhang, I feel like I can give it another try. I haven't really participated in many social activities before..."

She's only 30. I think she'll be attractive until she's 35.

This girl studied abroad, which is a big disadvantage in blind dates now, but she earns her own money to support herself, and that's fine.

If she wants to find a partner, she must make choices. If it's about feelings, she can't look at conditions; if she looks at conditions, she can't force feelings.

Why get married? Wouldn't it be better for her to find a handsome younger man and spend some money to buy herself emotional comfort?

While listening to the girl speak, Zhang Zhe was also reading the comments from the viewers in the live stream. When he saw one comment, he couldn't hold back any longer.

He was dragged out and publicly executed.

"Hey sis, there's a girl here who says you should find a handsome younger man, spend a little money on him, and he'll be devoted to you."

She said she was 30 years old and had married a 17-year-old younger brother who hadn't gone to college yet, and they were living a very comfortable life.

"Sister, what do you think?"

“I think… if you don’t go to university, aren’t you just a high school student?” The girl on the other end of the call had a complicated expression on her face: “Maybe this girl has these kinds of physical needs.”

"I'm not that thirsty."

"Whether I'm dating or going on blind dates, I'm never looking for someone for sex. If a guy is looking for sex, I think he's a bit low."

"Finding a younger brother is out of the question; I'm happier living alone than he is."

“No problem.” Zhang Zhe gave his sister a thumbs up; at least in this respect, she had no problem at all.

This is a normal person!

(End of this chapter)