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Chapter 280 Little Sweet Potato Still Hasn't Been Read Enough
That makes sense.

The problem is, in terms of family background, isn't she the one marrying above her station?

This kind of woman shares the same mentality as the "phoenix man" from the countryside.

[Just tell her that you were born into a better family than she was, wouldn't that be enough?]

"So, how did you refute her?" Zhang Zhe asked with a smile. "You don't sound like the type to go along with her."

"Of course, I definitely disagree with her saying that. It's not like I haven't lived in big cities before. I'm back now working a 9-to-5 job because I can't keep up with the pace anymore, not because I'm incompetent."

"But she just kept arguing with me, saying that being able to withstand pressure is also a skill. Anyway, she felt that she earned more money than me and that she was marrying down."

"Yes, my income is not as high as hers, but her family background is not as good as mine either. I have a car and a house. She would have to work hard for at least ten years and save all her money to reach my level, right?"

"Why did she still marry down?"

"Anyway, what she meant was that my car and house were given to me by my parents and had nothing to do with me, so I should just listen to her."

"I didn't want to, so we argued all the time, and eventually we just couldn't get along anymore..."

While listening to his older brother's introduction, Zhang Zhe was also watching the live comments. Most viewers could tell that both his older brother and his ex-fiancée felt that getting married was a compromise and concession made by their side.

They all felt they had been taken advantage of and wanted to make up for it in other ways, such as in terms of their status within the family.

When two people are together, if they both feel they have the upper hand and neither is willing to give in, it's no wonder they argue.

Only a small number of viewers asked this man: If that's the case, why did you get engaged to her?

Zhang Zhe asked the same question: "She's in this state, how can you still get engaged? What do you see in her?"

"I think she's great. Many of the girls I've met on blind dates are actually quite average, but they still want this and that."

“She’s pretty much the same, but she’s in a better position, so I think it’s reasonable for her to ask for these things. She definitely deserves my high dowry to marry her.”

"Got it, bro, your brain is completely muddled." Zhang Zhe rubbed his temples. Someone had gone on 100 blind dates and was still thinking about marrying an "excellent woman" instead of finding a "suitable wife."

It's like taking the same test 100 times and getting a maximum score of only 10.

It's pointless to analyze relationship dynamics with this kind of person; if they could understand, they would have figured it out long ago.

"Come on, bro, let me ask you, what do you think is so great about your ex-fiancée?"

“She can make money,” the older brother replied without hesitation. “These days, being able to make money means she’s capable, right?”

"So you want to spend the money she earns?"

"No, that's not it. I have enough money of my own, but being with a woman like that would definitely make married life easier. It's better than those girls who only earn three or four thousand a month, right?"

"So you still want to spend her money."

“I definitely won’t spend her money. I don’t need her money.” The older brother said confidently.

"What does it matter to you how much someone earns each month?"

"..." The older brother thought for a moment and said, "Besides money, she has good genes too. She was able to work her way up from a rural family, so she must be very smart."

"Oh, so you value the woman's genes." Zhang Zhe pretended to understand and nodded: "Then you could find a teacher or a female PhD."

"Female PhDs probably wouldn't be interested in me, but I have dated a few female teachers, and I feel that none of them are quite normal." "I've dated no less than ten female teachers, and I didn't think any of them were smart. When we talked about marriage, I felt like they were dreaming."

If you're stupid, you'll look down on you; if you're smart, you're no match for you. It's like wanting both!

This kind of person is the most difficult to deal with; they don't know their own limitations, and his fiancée probably saw through him a long time ago.

I understand what he means. He wants to find a woman who's only superficially intelligent, so that he can make all the decisions after marriage and appear intelligent himself.

The comments in the live chat were a bit too harsh. Zhang Zhe felt that if he repeated them, he could break the defenses of the guy he was chatting with.

However, since this was the first viewer to connect with the live stream today, Zhang Zhe didn't want to go straight to the intensity and instead guided the conversation a little first.

"Hey bro, let me summarize it for you, see if it's right."

"You need to find a smart woman, because you can't stand someone who's too stupid; but she can't be too smart either, otherwise you won't be able to win an argument with her after you get married."

"At the same time, she has to be a woman who can earn money to support herself, so that your pressure will be shared after marriage; but she can't earn too much money, otherwise you will become her appendage."

"right?"

"I feel... Brother Zhang, you've said enough, but I actually have one more requirement: the girl can't be too ugly, and I can't bring myself to kiss her either."

“That’s not important.” Zhang Zhe waved his hand and said, “Brother, your request doesn’t sound like you’re looking for a wife, it’s more like you’re looking for a business partner, or the second-in-command of a company.”

"This 'wanting both' mentality is just like my former boss."

"If you really want to find someone, you can. Marriage can sometimes be seen as a joint venture. It's not a problem to find a second-in-command to run the marriage together."

"The problem is that you're not capable enough to be the head of this company. Even if you manage to find someone, once they figure out your capabilities, they'll want to switch places with you."

"Like your ex-fiancée, she certainly didn't look down on you from the beginning, but she kept saying that you relied entirely on your family and had no skills of your own, right?"

Even if someone like him became emperor, he would still be destined to be ruled by a treacherous empress.

[But he comes from a wealthy family, like an only child from the Yangtze River Delta region. Why should she marry a man from a poor background and have to put up with his bad temper?]

[That's why people don't date men from humble backgrounds anymore; he shouldn't date career-oriented women either.]

[You should just find a female teacher to marry. You've been on over a hundred dates and still haven't found the right person. You should have started to reflect on whether there's something wrong with you.]

“Indeed.” The older brother’s words confirmed Zhang Zhe’s guess: “When she first chatted with me, she said she envied my easy life.”

"But she changed her attitude after the engagement."

“Because she changed her state.” Zhang Zhe said knowingly, “The way she was before she broke up with you is actually the same as her normal state after marriage.”

"That's just how strong-willed women are. If you're looking for someone with a high income, you have to be prepared."

"But I don't understand," the older brother said, puzzled. "Her family is so poor, and her parents don't have any pension or anything. I'm much, much better off than her, so why does she seem to look down on me?"

"Can't figure it out?" Zhang Zhe chuckled. "That's right, you can't figure it out. This is what happens when you don't watch enough Little Red Book."

"After you go downstairs later, go to Xiaohongshu and search for keywords like 'strong female lead,' 'no need to get married,' 'being happy alone is also possible,' and 'don't settle.' Take a good look at what girls are thinking these days."

(End of this chapter)