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Chapter 270 The excellent want to find the even more excellent

“This…” Zhang Zhe sensed an ominous atmosphere.

But the girl seemed to have been prepared: "When I signed up, the teacher told me that there would be a consultation session after the speech."

"She encouraged us to consult you. If you don't believe me, you can ask the other girls here. They will definitely get the same information as me."

"Yes~" Many girls present responded, proving that the girl who asked the question was telling the truth.

Zhang Zhe remained completely calm, still smiling: "I have no problem with that, but are you sure you want to consult me ​​in front of your classmates?"

"Actually, you can ask me privately after the speech."

"It's okay," the girl replied decisively. "I'm perfectly innocent, there's nothing to be embarrassed about."

"Okay, are you consulting for yourself?"

"correct."

"Then you tell me," Zhang Zhe said helplessly, as there wasn't even a place for him to sit on the stage.

Fortunately, Assistant Xia was keeping an eye on things backstage. When she noticed that he was about to have his turn for the interactive segment, she quickly brought him a chair.

After sitting down, Zhang Zhe finally felt comfortable; this was the perspective he was used to in marriage counseling.

The girl in the audience was talking about her situation, but Zhang Zhe felt that it was probably not her true situation.

It's either virtual or someone else's to extort money.

When Zhang Zhe asked her if she wanted to talk privately, she didn't hesitate for a second, which was clearly not a normal reaction.

"I was born in 00 and I'm currently a second-year graduate student. I've had two relationships before, one in high school and the other in my second year of undergraduate studies."

"The first guy I ever met was a jerk. We were classmates, and he pursued me relentlessly in our junior year of high school. It wasn't until the second semester of my junior year that I finally gave in to his advances and agreed to be with him..."

After the girls finished speaking, Zhang Zhe interrupted her briefly:
"You don't need to go into such detail about this, classmate. You don't need to continue describing your second relationship."

"I'm not too concerned about that."

"Answer me first: why are you considering marriage before you've even finished your studies?"

"Actually, when I went home for Chinese New Year, my family was already arranging blind dates for me," the girl replied. "People in our area usually get married quite early."

"When my mom was my age, I was already over a year old."

"I'm about to start preparing my graduation thesis and also need to consider whether to pursue a doctorate. I want to figure out my personal issues at this crucial juncture."

"If my circumstances aren't suitable for marriage, I'll just give up."

"Don't think like that. In reality, only a very small percentage of people are so poor that they can't get married," Zhang Zhe encouraged. "If you want to find someone, you definitely will."

"Come on, tell me your criteria for choosing a partner. Whether it's dating or marriage, just tell me what kind of guy you like."

"I like..." the girl paused before slowly saying, "I like handsome guys who also come from well-off families."

"Actually, it doesn't have to be that handsome, but he should look clean and refreshing, not fat, and not greasy."

"You don't need to be particularly rich. Having your own house in Qingdao is enough. As for income, a monthly salary of over 10,000 yuan is sufficient."

"One more thing, this guy should ideally love sports and not have any bad habits. It would be best if he had a special skill, like basketball or badminton, because I'm a bit of a homebody and I hope he can mentor me."

"Okay, of all the boys here, do you think there's anyone who meets your requirements?" Zhang Zhe asked, looking at the boys in the back row.

"I think so, but I also know that nowadays, guys like that might not be interested in me."

"I bet when they were in school, they were still looking for really pretty girls." "You guessed right!" a boy shouted from behind.

Zhang Zhe quickly made a "shh" gesture, signaling everyone to calm down. The girl was quite rational; although there was a suspicion that she was making it up, there was no need to rush to mock her.

"Since you know that... could you perhaps lower your expectations a little?"

"But that's exactly what I want," the girl pouted. "I'm not bad myself, why should I lower my standards?"

"Didn't you say it yourself?" Zhang Zhe pursed his lips, thinking about how to say it without hurting anyone: "The kind of guys you're looking for are still pretty superficial, they only care about looks, they don't date someone like you."

"You can only lower your standards, broaden your search, and look for things that aren't so superficial."

"I don't want to." The girl shook her head.

"I think girls with good qualities should be paired with boys with good qualities."

"But the current situation is that there are too many good girls and too few good boys. There may be 100 girls who score above 90, but only 20 boys with the same score."

"Among these girls who scored 90 points, I'm in the bottom 20. If we were to match one-on-one based on scores, I could only find guys who scored 80 points or even 75 points."

"I feel this is unfair to me. The boys aren't good enough, so why should I have to settle for them?"

"If they worked as hard as I did, and were even more outstanding, I wouldn't need to lower my standards."

As the girl spoke, the female classmates around her were almost constantly nodding.

It seems they all agree with this view.

After listening, Zhang Zhe thought to himself: That's it!

What this girl said makes sense at first glance, but upon closer inspection, it's not right. Why should a boy have to be in the top 20 among his peers to get 90 points, while a girl only needs to be in the top 100 to get 90 points?
Are there really such big differences between boys and girls?

This is obviously not right.

Take the most direct example of the college entrance examination. In the past ten years, especially after the abolition of the separation of arts and sciences, the number of male top scorers in the college entrance examination has been significantly greater than that of females.

This only considers academic performance. If we add athletic ability, practical skills, and so on, the boys in the school environment are even more outstanding.

Therefore, Zhang Zhe was certain that the girl had a preconceived notion when she spoke. Simply put, before she spoke, she had already assumed that among men and women with similar conditions, women were superior.

Although it's unclear what her basis was, judging from the reactions of her classmates, many girls thought it made sense, while most of the boys in the back row showed mocking smiles.

However, Zhang Zhe didn't intend to refute her. He was there to talk about marriage, so he just needed to stay within his own sphere of influence.
"Student, your viewpoint is biased, but I don't intend to correct you."

"What I want to tell you is that even if you don't lower your standards, you can still find a partner."

"Huh?" The girl was clearly taken aback. "But teacher, didn't you just agree with what I said..."

"That's right, I do agree with what you said. Those exceptionally outstanding boys tend to date pretty girls in school."

"But think about it, are the most outstanding guys guaranteed to find the most outstanding girls?"

"If you were the most beautiful girl in your school, would you date the most handsome boy? Why don't you go to the neighboring Qing City University and find their most handsome boy?"

"Why not go to a top-tier university in the next city and find a rich, handsome, and successful guy?"

"Do you know what I mean? An outstanding woman will always drive herself to improve. She will never be satisfied with the status quo and will definitely look for someone more outstanding than herself. That way, you'll have a chance, right?"

"Right?" Zhang Zhe smiled and looked at the girl not far away, patiently waiting for her reaction.

However, it seems that her mind has gone a little blank.

(End of this chapter)