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Chapter 264 Love from Parents
“It’s not that he dislikes me, it’s just that he lacks motivation.” The girl’s tone was a little irritated: “He keeps telling me that things are pretty good as they are.”

"I feel like he has no ambition."

"They don't consider our future at all."

"Yes, indeed." Zhang Zhe nodded, pursing his lips.

What a classic story! He absolutely has to edit this live stream together.

The girl seems to have been brainwashed by short videos on Douyin, blindly believing in the theory of hard work. But in reality, for most people like her boyfriend, who are rich second-generation or entrepreneurial second-generation from Guangdong Province, the most important task is not to work hard themselves, but to get married as soon as possible.

Only after you get married will your elders in the family give you money.

Not getting married? Basically, all they can do is ensure they have enough to eat and drink.

Even if things get really bad, the parents would rather use an alternate account than give their inheritance to a son who doesn't even want to get married.

"But sister, have you ever thought about this?"

"If your boyfriend were truly ambitious and had the wealth of his family, would he still choose someone like you?"

[This guy's first step to getting ahead was dumping this girl.]

Indeed, people are looking for you because you don't have high demands and are looking for a stable, practical life.

She still wants his parents' money.

Women are like that; they're incredibly greedy.

[This kind of person will behave after going back to their rural hometown for two blind dates.]

"he……"

"I do not know either."

The girl was stumped by the question and changed her answer:

"But what will happen when he has children if he doesn't strive for success?"

"Don't worry about what will happen after you have the baby. Answer me two questions first: First, after you break up with him, what kind of person do you think you can find?"

"I...I don't know."

“It’s okay. I’ll tell you, you can most likely find a rural guy who earns 8 a month but has no family support.”

"He can save money and work hard with you, but if you two struggle your whole lives, the money you save may not even be one-tenth of the family fortune your current boyfriend inherited."

"Of course, this way you can experience the happiness of striving."

"But to be fair, the joy of labor is indeed a higher kind of joy, incomparable to lying down and collecting money."

[Brother Zhang, why don't you do the work for me?]

A brain is a good thing, but unfortunately this woman doesn't have one.

This girl is probably still thinking about working hard to change her fate.

[So stupid it's outrageous]

She should be paying off her car loan and mortgage; she feels that kind of life is meaningful.

"Brother Zhang, I think I made a mistake."

"What the comments say makes a lot of sense."

"Huh?" Zhang Zhe feigned surprise: "You've changed your tune already?"

"It's boring, really boring. I thought you were going to keep being stubborn."

"No, I don't want to break up, I just feel insecure," the girl explained.

"There's no point in playing dirty tricks, sister. It's fine to want to break up, but if you can realize that you're wrong and turn back, there's still hope."

"Now I'll tell you something more."

"Your boyfriend probably knows, but he didn't tell you."

This girl's circumstances were indeed average, and she had some mental issues, but her advantage lay in her willingness to listen to advice. Zhang Zhe was willing to communicate with people like her who listened to advice.

"Why don't your boyfriend's parents give him money? Because he spends money recklessly, and they're afraid he'll go astray."

“Our son doesn’t have a high level of education to begin with. If he has any money and runs off to Hong Kong or Macau, no amount of our family’s wealth can withstand his squandering. So it’s a good thing for you that his parents control the family’s finances.” “Huh?” The girl was puzzled: “But his parents don’t even give him living expenses every month.”

"There's no need to give it, and it's not the right time to give it."

"Let me put it this way, if you have the chance, you can look at your boyfriend's good friends. Do they earn seven or eight thousand a month, but drive cars worth hundreds of thousands, and never have to worry about raising children?"

"In such families, after the son gets married, the groom's parents will cover all the expenses for the house, car, and children. Your quality of life will most likely only improve and will not be affected."

"Really?" The girl's tone gradually became excited.

"There's a 90% chance, I guess. Only children, especially grandparents, will definitely get lots of gold coins. It's just a matter of how many."

Zhang Zhe laughed as he spoke, recalling a security guard at his former company who had a similar experience. One day, he suddenly drove a Tesla to work and brought out a box of wedding candy for everyone.

I heard that after she had a son, her father immediately allocated a building to his daughter-in-law to collect rent.

The girl on the live stream was also a strange one. She was planning to get married to a second-generation Guangdong native, but she didn't even understand this basic custom.

"Ok, I see."

"Thank you, Brother Zhang, and thank you to all the viewers in the live stream. I know I had a problem."

You're welcome, sisters.

[You've already called me "brother," so what else is there to say?]

Sigh, I was actually thinking of advising you to break up with him.

[That's unfair! She should have broken up and lived a hard life, but Zhang, you helped her cheat!]

After thanking him, the girl was about to leave when Zhang Zhe stopped her:
"Wait a minute, I have another question for you."

"You want to break up? It wasn't your parents who encouraged you, was it?"

"No, my mom advised me to get married. She said she knows her own daughter well, and that finding someone like my boyfriend is already a stroke of good luck."

"Haha, no one knows a daughter better than her mother." Zhang Zhe nodded with a smile: "Your mother supports it, so why are you still hesitating?"

Do you have a best friend?

"Uh...yeah."

"Hahaha, okay, all correct."

"Sister, before I leave, I'll give you one more piece of advice: If you want a happy family and a happy life, don't share your private matters with outsiders."

"Okay, thank you, teacher."

Her mother was absolutely right.

[Having this best friend makes me feel like our relationship is doomed to fail sooner or later]

[Don't even mention best friends, even sisters can have bad intentions because they married different people]

[Best friend: I almost let her live a good life]

After the girl disconnected from the microphone, Zhang Zhe shook his head and sighed:
"This girl listens to her best friend but not her mother. I guess it's because her family won't let her go to college. She still feels that her parents don't understand her."

"So when her mother said she knew what kind of daughter she was, she must have scoffed at it in her heart."

"However, the comments are right. If she doesn't distance herself from this kind of best friend, her marriage will be ruined sooner or later. Who knows if her best friend has taken a liking to her boyfriend?"

"Alright, now it's time for today's Q&A session."

"If you have any questions, feel free to send them in the chat, and I will answer the appropriate ones."

[Brother Zhang, how can I tell if a guy is ambitious?]

"Sister Zhizhi, that's a good question."

“A guy who meets the kind of ‘ambition’ that we sisters look for will definitely be a little selfish. He will spend at least one of his time or money on himself.”

"Only in this way can he earn more and more money."

"If someone just goes to work and comes home every day without improving themselves, then unless the platform they work for is also improving, it won't meet our requirements for self-improvement."

(End of this chapter)