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Chapter 243 Waiting for the other party to take the initiative

"Sister, your request sounds like a portrait of a scumbag."

Zhang Zhe raised an eyebrow and asked:

"You've been in relationships before, so you should know that guys who meet these requirements are inherently capable of being jerks."

Although in the impossible triangle of men, good looks and wealth must appear together to lead to the conclusion that a man is a scumbag.

In reality, a man who is good-looking and has a good physique, understands women's hearts, can have common topics with most girls, and is also popular in the market is very likely to be a master of romance.

"Actually, given your situation, I suggest you play it safe and find a guy from a stable family background who works in the public sector. That would be better."

"If you're a scumbag, I'm afraid you'll be eaten alive, with not even bones left."

"Actually..." the woman said, then suddenly laughed, "I don't care if he's a scumbag or not, what if I'm even worse than him?"

"Huh?" Zhang Zhe never expected that someone would answer like that when he was asking about blind dates.

Like that Japanese girl before, who felt that the scumbag understood her very well and wanted to gamble on whether he would change his mind, that's barely understandable.

But this guy wants to find a scumbag to compete with...

"Are you really here for a blind date?"

"Marriages in our country are generally aimed at long-term relationships, and there is at least a 30-day cooling-off period for divorce. It's not like you can change partners every day."

"I know that, Brother Zhang. What I mean is, it's okay even if he's a scumbag, because I'm no pushover either."

“I’ve dated several guys before, the kind that everyone thought were jerks, but I still stayed with them.”

"In the end..." the woman couldn't help but laugh, "Actually, I was the one who dumped them."

【You're even proud of it now?】

Wow, this woman's values ​​are really shattered.

[Actually, I can understand her. What she means is that if someone dares to cheat on her, she's ready to fight back. Who's afraid of who?]

[This kind of person shouldn't be on blind dates. They should just find a man on their own and have some fun.]

"Can I interpret this to mean that in your previous relationships, you were actually the one who changed your mind, and as soon as you felt you didn't like someone anymore, you immediately moved on to someone else?"

"Yes, yes, exactly what you're describing, Brother Zhang."

"If you don't like it, even if the conditions are good, you won't consider it?"

"Not necessarily. If they are rich kids from A9 or A10 universities, they can give it a try."

"Well..." Zhang Zhe stroked his chin and said, "You can pretend you didn't hear my suggestion just now."

Zhang Zhe originally wanted to suggest that she find an honest man with a sense of family responsibility, so that she could quickly establish a stable new family after marrying him.

This is very good for a girl whose parents have passed away, as it can make up for the lack of warmth from her family.

But after hearing the girl's answer, Zhang Zhe changed his mind.

Given her situation, finding an honest man would only lead to endless suffering for him.

"Just find someone you like, it doesn't matter if they're a jerk."

"Huh?" The woman exclaimed in surprise upon hearing the suggestion, "Brother Zhang, are you serious?"

[Or should I send you to prey on honest people?]

Honestly, just lock up scumbags and gold diggers.

Even scumbags wouldn't date her; if a scumbag were to marry, he'd definitely choose a naive girl.

I love this streamer's method of fighting fire with fire.

“I consulted other matchmakers, and they all advised me to find an honest man so that I would have someone to rely on for the rest of my life.”

"Although what you said, Brother Zhang, is indeed the answer I like, I feel like it's a bit unreliable." "Reliable, of course it's reliable." Zhang Zhe waved his hand and said, "You yourself are a scumbag woman, how can you be prejudiced against scumbag men?"

"If you dismiss them and think they're unreliable in marriage, aren't you also dismissing yourself?"

"It seems...yes." The woman became a little embarrassed as she spoke, and forced herself to explain, "Actually, I'm not exactly a bad woman. It's normal to break up if a relationship doesn't work out, right?"

“Sometimes I just don’t want to continue the relationship, so I might as well break up.”

"But if I can find a man who understands me well and is very devoted, I can definitely be a good wife and mother."

"Haha, I believe you can do it."

"But scumbags are the same; they're also looking for a place for their souls to rest. Look at someone like Lu Ziqiao, didn't he end up with Chen Meijia?"

Zhang Zhe smiled after speaking, without offering any further explanation.

It's common knowledge that scumbag women go on to find honest men, and Zhang Zhe didn't believe this woman didn't know that.

She clearly didn't want to.

She didn't face pressure from her parents, and although she was persuaded by relatives to get married, her ideas were still rather idealistic.

To put it bluntly, she just wants to find someone she likes. Coincidentally, her past dating experiences show that she likes the kind of scumbag who knows how to please women.

Then go find a jerk.

The woman clearly listened, but she wasn't stupid:
"I understand what you're saying, Brother Zhang, but I think there's still a difference between marriage and dating."

"I have no problem dating scumbags, but when it comes to marriage, I don't know how to choose."

Find someone you want to marry; for you, taking a loss is a blessing.

Aren't you afraid of jerks? Don't you have the ability to tell if they're sincere?

Haha, I love seeing stories of evil getting its just desserts!

It's okay, it's quite normal for a "bad girl" to get married multiple times.

The comments were almost all sarcastic. It's understandable; when it comes to the relationship between a "bad girl" and an "honest guy," most people will empathize with the honest guy.

Even if someone could put themselves in the shoes of the "bad girl" and see the overwhelming amount of highly aggressive comments, they wouldn't dare to say anything.

“It’s actually simple. Just focus on two points,” Zhang Zhe said, holding up two fingers. “First, think carefully about whether you want to marry the man you’re dating.”

"Second, give a slight hint, just a hint, and then wait for the other party to take the initiative to push for marriage."

"Is it really that simple?" the woman asked incredulously. "Shouldn't we also have to consider things like family background?"

"Those are things to consider, but they're not the most important. To be honest, you wouldn't consider marrying a man from a poor family, would you?"

"Haha, that's true." The woman readily admitted this.

"I understand what you mean, Brother Zhang. I need to confirm my willingness to get married first. If I want to get married, it means that the man is someone I like."

"If I hint that I want to get married and he doesn't run away, but instead takes the initiative to advance the relationship, then it means he really likes me."

"This means that the scumbag wants to spend his life with me, because these days, the risk of marriage is higher for men than for women. Since he is willing to marry me, his sense of family responsibility is definitely not a problem."

“Yes, theoretically that’s true, but there’s one thing,” Zhang Zhe reminded him, “Your parents probably left you some inheritance, right?”

"Yes, he has assets of around ten million."

"Try to protect these assets well, so that no man will marry you for your money."

“I know that, Brother Zhang, don’t worry. My profession speaks for itself. If we get married, I can find out everything about the man.”

"It's hard to fool me."

(End of this chapter)