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Chapter 241 Finding a Leader's Son

Chapter 241 Finding a Leader's Son
"Can I ask you questions first, and if I can't figure it out, then you can help me determine the location?"

"No problem." Zhang Zhe nodded: "Paid users can enjoy the service twice."

"Come on, tell me your question."

"Okay, thank you, Brother Zhang." The guy on the video call coughed lightly and said, "Well, I'm a doctor at a municipal public hospital."

"My problem right now is that I'm a little frigid."

"Brother, are you a gynecologist?" Zhang Zhe asked curiously.

I've heard that some doctors lose interest in physiological tissues because they see so much of them. Although the percentage is not high, I can understand it.

However, this older brother is not in this situation.

"I'm not in gynecology, I'm in the emergency department."

"I think it might be because I'm too busy."

“I work 6 to 6 days a week now, and I feel so tired every day that I don’t have any ideas about many things.”

"No way..." Zhang Zhe frowned.

He had a friend who worked for a month straight, and after receiving his salary, he didn't rest for a minute. He immediately took a taxi to get a foot massage, without even considering whether he would die from exhaustion.

Desire is something that only explodes when suppressed to the extreme; it rarely disappears when suppressed.

"How old are you, bro?"

"I'm 98 years old."

"You're younger than me?" Zhang Zhe exclaimed in disbelief. "I thought you were already 40."

I'm 41 and I'm not cold-hearted.

Brother Zhang seems to look down on us 40-year-olds.

He either has a physical problem or has experienced some kind of psychological trauma.

[Only 27 and already lost interest? That's pathetic. At his age, I was spending all my time figuring out how to connect.]

"Dude, do you have some kind of psychological problem?"

"Didn't you try to get it checked out at another hospital?"

"Not yet," the man explained. "Actually, that's not the question I wanted to ask. I'm currently being introduced to potential partners by someone, and I'd like to know how I should choose."

"Choose one who doesn't mind your X being aloof?" Zhang Zhe thought for a moment, then shook his head and said, "That's a bit difficult to discern. You can only ask them one by one; you can't tell just by observing them."

"Brother Zhang, you've misunderstood me."

"I mean, I'm not really interested in the opposite sex anymore. It's not that I'm impotent. I've actually had a few relationships before."

"Oh, so you're exhausted, both physically and mentally, right?"

"Yes, yes, that's what it means."

"Now..." the older man explained, "because I've reached a certain age, people around me have introduced me to quite a few potential partners, mostly teachers."

"My blind date experience with them was not very good."

"Actually, I do have some requirements for a girl's appearance, but I can't really accept someone who is too willful."

"I don't have much ambition in terms of material things."

"But because I'm very busy with work, I don't feel much motivation to get married..."

Zhang Zhe listened and nodded, writing down what the man said on the whiteboard.

He talked about all sorts of things, going on and on about whatever came to mind.

He seemed so tired that he couldn't calm down and think things through properly.

This may also be the reason why the marriage rate is getting lower and lower.

Everyone is too tired from work. Even when it comes to personal matters, it's just fragmented thinking like this, without any careful consideration.

The result is that every time I go on a blind date, I feel that it's not a good match, and I feel more and more that I am not suitable for marriage.

After his older brother finished speaking, Zhang Zhe helped him tidy up:
"Actually, you're just a bit of a looks-obsessed person. You hope to lower your material requirements and find a wife who is good-looking and can understand your work."

"For this kind of thing... you would definitely prioritize finding someone in the same industry."

“Yes, I’ve thought about that too.” The older brother was thinking the same thing as Zhang Zhe: “I’m also thinking about finding a doctor or nurse.”

"But my parents felt that if both of them were busy at the hospital, then forming a family wouldn't feel like having a home."

"What are they thinking?" Zhang Zhe did not object to the man's parents' words, because they did make some sense.

Dual-income families, especially couples who are too busy to be home, can still live quite well if their interests are well aligned.
However, if there is a significant gap in income and contributions to the family between the two parties, irreconcilable conflicts can easily arise. The most direct example is:
If a wife is promoted to a leadership position and her husband becomes a subordinate in the same workplace, then the entire family's internal relationships have to be restructured.

Even without this risk, who will take care of the child after birth is still a problem.

Do your parents want you to find someone who is family-oriented?

"They..." The older brother paused, then said somewhat embarrassedly, "They want me to marry the daughter of a leader."

This is really good.

It seems doctors can indeed choose their spouses based on their social standing, since they can help their future in-laws with their medical needs.

He must be a very good person, otherwise his parents wouldn't have the confidence to do this.

If you want to climb higher, you certainly can.

According to the dating information Zhang Zhe has, doctors are indeed considered to be among the professions where it is relatively easy to find a partner.

Although male doctors have the classic three-way romance with classmates, pharmaceutical representatives, and female students, if they want to advance their careers, it's not too difficult to find a wealthy or powerful father-in-law through their abilities and social connections.

"The leader's daughter? There aren't many who are that pretty."

"Brother, you're obsessed with looks and have a low libido. I'm afraid you'll marry an ugly daughter of a leader, and for the rest of your life, all you'll do is work."

"I'm alright with that," the older man said nonchalantly. "Anyway, all I have now is work. I feel like the meaning of my life every day is just working for the director."

"Marrying the daughter of a leader is really just about doing another job for your wife after get off work, it doesn't matter."

"..." Zhang Zhe was momentarily speechless.

This guy seems to understand things quite well, but he's a bit down, like he's become numb from working so much.

"Brother, in your situation, I actually suggest you try dating more."

"In a slightly superstitious way, it's called: to bring good luck."

"Actually, it's just to bring a little change to your life. Otherwise, you're so lifeless. You're only 27 years old and you're already like this. I don't even want to think about what will happen when you're in your 30s."

Zhang Zhe's advice was very sincere. Considering the responsibility for this guy, if he goes straight to blind dates and marriage now, it will probably be difficult for him to have a happy marriage.

Adjusting the current state is the most important thing.

But the guy's answer was completely unexpected:
"I have thought about dating."

"But it's a bit strange, because all the guys who are pursuing me now are men."

"Huh?" Zhang Zhe and Xia Yi both stared wide-eyed in surprise.

The live stream chat exploded with activity.

"Brother, did you actually like brothers?"

"No, my sexual orientation is normal. I've dated girls before, but it's strange, there are always guys pursuing me."

"Um...did you grow a beard?"

"No, no, Brother Zhang, don't misunderstand. I don't wear white socks, I don't have a beard, and I don't have a buzz cut."

"But I really enjoy watching videos from Nantong."

"I think they dance very well in those pole dancing videos..."

"Anyway, that kind of drive they have is something that girls don't have."