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Chapter 24: Helping Sisters Avoid These Pitfalls
"Lie? What do you mean?"

"Host, can you explain what you mean by 'deceive'? I was on a legitimate blind date, how did that count as deceiving me?"

The fat man sounded a bit anxious.

She had initially thought Zhang Zhe could help her find her other half, but the more she listened, the more something seemed off.

What do you mean?
Looking for a male version of her?

Doesn't she know who she is?
Finding a male version of yourself would be unbearable, wouldn't it? Isn't that insulting?

"Host, be objective. With my qualifications, finding someone within the system who meets my requirements shouldn't be difficult, right?"

[Good news for those in the public sector who are in the live stream!]

[I'm a programmer, thanks to the streamer for helping me avoid this pitfall]

[The men in the live stream are fantasizing again. Do you even have millions in assets? What makes you think you can marry this woman?]

I'd rather be millions in debt than date a woman like that; she's bad luck.

“Your request is really not simple.” Zhang Zhe shook his head: “It can basically only be done by lying.”

"I know you're in a hurry, but don't rush. Let me ask you a question first:"
When you go on a blind date, do you tell the other person that you've had countless casual relationships before?

"And was the purpose of dating at that time simply because of animal instincts?"

"Of course not!" the fat man said matter-of-factly. "My dating history is my premarital privacy. Why would I talk about it?"

"Not only will I not tell, but I will also refuse to answer if the other party asks me."

"If a man judges me based on my dating history, I will only think that he is low and not good enough for me."

My sister is right!

Okay, that makes sense.

[Holy crap, this fat woman, I really want to hit her with a slipper.]

Is the livestream full of girls? If there are any handsome guys, be careful to avoid them.

"Stop talking nonsense." Zhang Zhe said with a look of disgust, "Normal men are tolerant of their partner's dating history. Your kind of short-term relationship is actually similar to finding a duck. It's a complete rubbish relationship."

"It's essentially the same as male-on-male sexual activity."

"Can you accept your blind date being addicted to casual sex?"

"No." The fat man was quite honest about this: "I'm just a hypocrite; hypocrisy is the nature of humanity."

"I don't care if you have double standards or not, what I'm trying to say is that if your blind date comes from a family with similar financial circumstances to yours, then unless he's a carbon copy of you, he will absolutely not accept your messy premarital relationships."

"If you want the other party to accept it, you can only do so by hiding it from them or by lying."

Do you understand?

"Yes, but..."

"Don't say 'but' yet, I have a second question." Zhang Zhe changed the subject: "When you go on a blind date, do you honestly tell the other person about your health condition?"

"Huh?" The fat man was a little confused: "I'm fine."

"Impossible." Zhang Zhe smiled slightly.

"Given your height, 200 pounds is already severely obese. You're likely to have at least one or two of these conditions: insulin resistance, polycystic ovary syndrome, fatty liver, high uric acid, high blood pressure, and high cholesterol, right?"

Zhang Zhe said he would only get one or two.

But intelligence actually indicates that this woman has it all.

This woman has all the common diseases that obese patients suffer from, except for type 2 diabetes.

The reason for her obesity is simply that she "can't control her eating and can't exercise." In short, she is both lazy and greedy.

Losing weight is extremely difficult for someone like her, unless she uses technology and takes pills like some celebrities do nowadays.

"Obesity affects both men and women and can lead to a variety of diseases."

"Even if you shout slogans loudly, saying things like 'No body discrimination,' 'Reject body shaming,' and 'Resist the white, young, and thin aesthetic,' you won't get any fewer diseases."

What Zhang Zhe didn't mention is that obesity poses a significant threat to women's prospects in marriage: polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) – a condition that can potentially lead to infertility.

Being single isn't such a big deal, but it has a significant impact if you're married.

Zhang Zhe was about to mention it, but the fat man interrupted him and retorted, "You're the one with these illnesses!"

"I am very healthy, perfectly healthy, there is absolutely no problem with me, please don't curse me!"

The streamer's good intentions were misunderstood.

Putting everything else aside, fatty liver is definitely a given. If a 200-pound fat person doesn't have fatty liver, what am I supposed to eat on my live stream?

Sisters, don't believe them, these men are just using manipulative tactics on you.

Being overweight is definitely not healthy, and I'm a girl too, to be honest.

"Fine, whatever you say goes." Zhang Zhe waved his hand dismissively.

He wasn't there to offer health advice, so he didn't care how stubborn the woman was.

"Here's a reminder to viewers in the live stream who are looking for a blind date: if you meet a blind date who was overweight but has since lost a lot of weight, you should definitely consider their health."

"Gaining weight is easy, but losing weight is really hard."

"This is especially true as people get older. A chubby girl in her early 20s can be considered a potential star, but a chubby woman in her 40s is just a pure patient in preparation for illness."

"You don't want your partner to have this or that illness after only a few years of marriage, and have to get insulin injections all the time, right?"

That might have been a bit offensive, because the overweight woman on the other end of the video call jumped up and down in a fit of rage, saying, "What do you mean by this, streamer?"

"Did I get fat and eat your rice?"

Why are you always targeting me?

"Huh?" Zhang Zhe looked shocked: "I'm your blind date now."

"What I just said are things that any normal person would think of."

“A normal person wouldn’t say this much,” the woman said angrily. “You’re clearly targeting me because I’m fat!”

"Well... I don't really have any."

"You wouldn't expect to meet a fool on a blind date who, given that you're already an older single woman, doesn't care about your romantic history or your health, but only whether your family's wealth matches yours, and then you get married?"

"If you really met a man like that, would you dare to marry him?"

Give me this woman's contact information; I'll sell her health supplements when she gets old.

When you actually encounter someone who doesn't care about anything, you'll know you're in for a world of trouble.

[It's no use dealing with people who care about these things; this woman definitely won't tell the truth.]

"I...I..." The woman said "I" twice, but couldn't get the rest of her sentence out.

There are some things she said that even she herself didn't believe.

It's already quite obvious:

If she wants to find a reliable man to marry, besides losing weight, she has to lie.

Otherwise, in the dating market, respectable men wouldn't even glance at her.

"Alright, that's enough for our blind date for now."

Zhang Zhe planned to end this farce himself. He should have told her to go away and play when she said she "weighs 200 pounds and still likes to have fun".

Because the audience loved watching it, they kept her a little longer.

……

After the overweight woman finished speaking, the girls in the support group exchanged their experiences watching the live stream:

"Sister Qinghe (the fat woman from earlier), I think whether or not you get married is irrelevant, but good health is indeed very important. Dating anchors have seen a lot of people, he might notice something wrong with them."

"Are people actually believing this streamer? Don't be ridiculous!"

"With such great qualities as Sister Qinghe, as long as she's willing to settle down, she can find any man she wants, okay?"

"This kind of male dating streamer only knows how to put down women; no matter who goes up to connect with him, they won't get any nice words."

"I think we should post this on Xiaohongshu to warn people to avoid this streamer. He's clearly defending the male streamer."

"Looks like another sister has come on the mic!"

(End of this chapter)