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Chapter 237 The Woman Who Hates Matchmakers the Most
I tried it out, and then I got scammed.

This is how scammers in "pig butchering" scams persuade their victims.

How many chances does one have in a lifetime to try and fail? Every time you try, you lose the right to choose.

[This does sound like something a girl with a fatty voice would say.]

"Trial and error comes at a cost."

"You must have seen couples who are mismatched, dated for a very long time, but ended up not getting married and wasting their youth."

“I’ve met more than a dozen women in our live stream who dated their ex-boyfriends for years, even lived together for years, but couldn’t agree on things like dowry, and ended up going on blind dates around the age of 30.”

"There are seven or eight other boys in the same situation."

"They tried it just like you said."

"The result was that he died after trying it."

Zhang Zhe spread his hands, his tone somewhat helpless. There are quite a few older women with decent conditions in this situation, and there are also quite a few men in the same situation.

Perhaps marriage positioning won't necessarily help them. After all, when the hormones of love are raging, couples simply can't listen to what others say and believe that true love can overcome everything.

But at least it can help them avoid some detours when they consider marriage.

“This is exactly what I wanted to say.” The girl on the live stream suddenly raised her voice a little, sounding very confident.

"I think there's nothing wrong with this kind of girl."

"She may have been with the person she was attracted to in her early twenties, but in the end she didn't get married, wasting seven or eight years of her youth."

"But I think this kind of waste is much, much better than those men that you help the anchors find, men that they don't find attractive from the outside to the inside."

"Think about it, you might be happy for seven or eight years with someone you're attracted to, but you're unhappy when you break up in the end."

"But being with someone you're not attracted to might make you unhappy forever, just because they come from a wealthy family or have good parents, you have to endure it for seven or eight years."

"This is actually what ruins one's own life."

[I feel like there's a point to what she said.]

This is a hedonistic mindset: enjoying yourself while you're young means you don't care about the hardships later.

Now you know what kind of older single women you meet on blind dates.

You've had your fun for eight years, fine, but if you're so capable, why did you choose not to leave a decent guy to take your place?

Her statement aligns with the thinking of those women who work as prostitutes.

"Are we saying that youth has to be wasted?"

Zhang Zhe couldn't help but laugh:
Why do you think that marrying a rich man, or a man from a similar family background, will necessarily lead to a bad life?

"If that's the case, is it possible that you've chosen the wrong person?"

"No, no, no, this is just how I feel watching your live stream." The woman on the other end of the line gave an example: "Like that female streamer just now, she just wants to find a handsome guy with a little money."

"You insist that this handsome guy won't marry her because of her family background, making her compromise and accept a fat guy."

"If she really accepts, they can indeed get married, but it definitely won't be as fun as dating a handsome guy."

"right?"

"Where is that right? From what you're saying, it's as if a person can just enjoy themselves for a few years when they're young and then not care about the rest of their life?" Zhang Zhe frowned.

He understood the woman's line of thinking; in short, she was advising her sisters not to settle.

You must find someone who makes your heart flutter.

Even if you don't end up getting married, as long as you're moved, that's good, that's happiness.

Based on Zhang Zhe's many years of experience interacting with people, this kind of person has most likely never been in a relationship.

In her eyes, being with the person she's attracted to is always sweet love, and the only suffering is when they break up.

But anyone who has been in a relationship knows that love is always a mixed bag, with sweetness, bitterness, sourness, and spiciness.

The pain of separation is not as easy as she described. It's not something that can be endured after a short while. In fact, many people suffer so much that they can't get over it at all.

It's been so many years, I still can't let it go. Some people can't even move on from a failed relationship their whole lives.

However, Zhang Zhe wouldn't discuss this issue with this woman. Analyzing the joys and sorrows of love with a woman who has never been in a relationship is like casting pearls before swine.

"Let me clarify, I did not make any girl compromise. I have always emphasized the matching of values. The reason why the female anchor was asked to find a chubby guy from a wealthy family is because they are a good match in the marriage market."

"Compromise is just a subjective concept of one party. You may feel that you have compromised, but is it possible that you only deserve this much?"

"It's like if you only have 5 yuan in your pocket, you might say you'll compromise and just eat a bowl of instant noodles. But if you want to eat Western food, you still need to have the money."

Brother Zhang, my Superman!

[Yes, that's right. I don't understand why those older single women keep saying they've compromised with life. What are you compromising for?]

Dating is about matching values. If you can't accept the matching system, then go play custom games or play against bots.

Anyone who talks about compromise is simply lacking self-awareness.

"I don't understand what you mean by 'value matching', host."

"But after carefully observing my friends, mainly married men and women, I have come up with some patterns."

"He's the kind of man who can make a woman happy. By happiness, I mean that she won't complain to me about her husband in private, and that she's clearly just as happy before and after marriage."

"A man like this must be a man who is good-looking both inside and out, and also has inner qualities."

"I think women don't need to define themselves; they can just find this kind of man."

“Yes, that’s right.” Zhang Zhe nodded, unable to suppress a laugh, and said, “You guys can definitely look for someone like that, but the problem is, they have to be interested in you.”

Zhang Zhe initially thought this woman was there to cause trouble, and he was a little annoyed.

After hearing her observations, I could understand.

She claimed to have observed many couples and her final conclusion was:
For a woman to be happy, she needs to find a good man.

This conclusion was so brilliant that even the most critical commenters couldn't refute it.

There's no way around it, who would argue with a fool?

"The kind of men you're talking about who are both beautiful inside and out, they probably don't just fall for any woman, right?" Zhang Zhe asked, suppressing a laugh.

"I admit that if a girl is empty-headed or not good-looking, she really wouldn't be good enough for such an outstanding guy."

"But that's not what I meant to say."

"What I want to say is that your marriage positioning is useless, because the kind of guy who can make women happy after marriage will never enter the matchmaking market."

"If you want to find a good man, you shouldn't be on blind dates."

What exactly is she trying to express?

[It's very simple, she's just advising everyone not to come to the blind date, it seems like she has some personal conflict with Brother Zhang.]

What if you don't want to go on blind dates? Should you sit at home and make a wish?

The matchmaking market is meant for ordinary people; she's only talking about high-quality men, who are a very small minority.

"How can a girl meet a high-quality guy if she doesn't go on blind dates?"

Zhang Zhe was very curious about how this woman would explain herself.

"After leaving school, whether it's through introductions by parents, friends, or matchmaking agencies, it's all essentially the same thing: matchmaking, just with different connecting links."

"If you don't go on blind dates at all, how are you going to find someone? Online dating?"

"Online dating is even less reliable," the woman said casually. "Finding a good man like that is easy, just go out on the street and look for him."

"For example, you can go to the Four Seasons Hotel and see a guy who looks pretty good. You can add him on social media, get to know him, and if he's also a good person, you can move on."

"A good man should be like this, appearing randomly somewhere, definitely not someone you'd meet on a blind date."

"I understand." Zhang Zhe nodded and asked, "Are you playing Palkia or Pokémon?"

(End of this chapter)