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Chapter 231 It's okay, I'm not that kind of proper matchmaker.
“Few people are getting married,” Zhang Zhe nodded. “But the number of people seeking advice on marriage problems hasn’t decreased at all.”

"Actually, many people come to the matchmaking market, find that they can't find a normal person, and then give up."

"There are very few people who truly have no desire to get married."

"Before I met Xia Yi, I felt that it would be difficult for me to get married, but after meeting her, I had a new perspective on marriage."

"Haha..." Xia's mother laughed very subtly, but Zhang Zhe's words clearly made her, as a mother, very happy.

She glanced in Xia Yi's direction, then suddenly leaned forward and whispered:
"Actually, Yiyi herself thinks so too, hehe, she used to always say that she wouldn't get married."

"Look, when you meet the right person, things are different, aren't they?"

"Yeah, me too." Zhang Zhe blinked hard and nodded.

He used himself as an example, so it was quite convincing.

Xia's mother was, after all, an outsider and knew little about young people's relationships and marriages. Xia Yi, on the other hand, had no such doubts and didn't think that matchmakers would have no business.

Because the girls around her, her kindergarten colleagues, all wanted to change their fate through marriage.

In Zhang Zhe's live stream, there are many people who want to get married, but they struggle to find their place or the right person.

Some people break down because of failed blind dates, while others temporarily give up the idea of ​​marriage due to the pressures of life.

These people are actually potential customers in the matchmaking market. As long as the marriage market improves slightly and is no longer threatened by the double threat of "sky-high dowry" and "rape warning", they will come back.

After hearing Zhang Zhe's explanation, Xia Yi's mother was still a little worried because, from her personal perspective, the marriage market wouldn't improve anytime soon.

Some decision-makers have their wives and children living abroad and don't care whether young people can get married these days.
Anyway, once they've made their fortune and transferred it, they either go abroad or go abroad to work as sewing machines; they don't lose out either way.

However, Xia's mother also knew that what she thought might not be right, and no one could predict what would happen in the future.

Those people standing at the highest point in Qing City, they're pretty impressive, right? But they're just observing the wind direction.

"Xia Yi told me that you earn about the same amount of money as a programmer in Shenzhen by working as a matchmaker online?"

"Yes, it is now, and it might even be a little more."

"Well, that's already pretty good. You work for one year, which is equivalent to someone else working for three years. So the money you earn in more than ten years is someone else's entire lifetime."

"But you can never earn enough money. You also need to take care of your health. Health is the most important thing."

Xia's mother's views were exactly the same as Xia Yi's, which clearly showed the inheritance of values ​​between mother and daughter.

"I have one last question."

"Don't laugh when I tell you."

"It's nothing, Auntie, please ask." Zhang Zhe had already guessed what Xia's mother was going to say; it must be about the matter Xia Yi had reminded him of before.

Sure enough, Xia's mother whispered furtively:
“In our village, there was a fortune teller who once said that everyone’s life is a line.”

"The matchmaker is like a thread that pulls two people together. Some get entangled and get married, while others don't get entangled and break up because they don't like each other."

"The fortune teller said that although the matchmaker is very capable, a person's fate is fixed. When she helps others to get married, she will lose some of her own fate."

“Some matchmakers are already married, so their children have to suffer the consequences for them.”

"So it's generally more difficult for children of matchmakers to get married. Like me, I used to help people find partners every day, but Xia Yi still doesn't have a boyfriend."

"She's not bad either, but we just weren't meant to be." "So after I had someone calculate my future, I didn't introduce anyone to potential partners for a long time, and guess what happened?"

"You came."

Xia's mother pointed at Zhang Zhe, who was clearly the one who would "get what he deserved." His arrival completely confirmed Xia Yi's mother's view on the luck of matchmakers.

"Auntie, are you worried that my role as a matchmaker will affect my relationship with Xia Yi, and also our children's marriage in the future?"

"Actually, no..."

Before Zhang Zhe could finish speaking, Xia's mother quickly explained, "It's not all superstition; there's some scientific basis to it too."

"Think about it, as the child of a matchmaker, he sees marriage more clearly than most people. He has seen too many bad aspects of marriage from his parents' work, so he may eventually lose interest in marriage."

"What's this called? The influence of one's family of origin."

"Yes, that's right, it's possible." Zhang Zhe nodded calmly. With Xia Yi as the "mole," he had already drafted his answer.

"But Auntie, you don't need to worry too much. I'm not the kind of respectable matchmaker who sets people up."

"Are you an improper matchmaker?" Xia's mother looked shocked and subconsciously glanced at Xia Yi's room, as if hesitating whether to ask her daughter what was going on.

"I mainly help people with consultations."

"Didn't you just say that a matchmaker helps people connect? I'm like someone who helps find the starting point of the connection before connecting people, and tells them where to begin."

Zhang Zhe explained the difference between him and ordinary matchmakers.

Simply put, his main job is to help people find partners. As for whether they can find a partner after he has done so, he doesn't guarantee it and basically doesn't help with that either.

Compared to ordinary matchmakers, they get involved in relatively few karmic entanglements.

To convince Xia's mother, he specifically showed her his private messages on his platform.

The last message I replied to was from a guy asking:

"Brother Zhang, my first love is a student from a top-tier high school. She played for several teams during college, but later suffered a serious injury and asked me to come back to her hometown. Can I agree to that?"

Zhang Zhe's reply to him was:

"If a player like this is offered a free transfer with a minimum salary contract, it's worth considering, since players who want to return to their hometowns tend to have a stronger sense of belonging."

"The correct approach is to sign a 10-day two-way contract and observe their performance. If they work hard on the court, have the right positional awareness, and can do the dirty work, you can try to offer them a minimum salary contract. But never sign a high-salary contract to avoid locking up the team's salary cap space."

After reading the private message, Xia's mother turned to look at Zhang Zhe and asked, "Are you talking about marriage like you're talking about basketball?"

"Are young people like this nowadays?"

"Yes, that's why I said I'm not a proper matchmaker."

"I won't help them find wives, I'll just help analyze things."

Zhang Zhe smiled and explained:

"And Auntie, you don't know, I not only advise people to get married, but also often advise them to break up or get divorced in order to balance things out."

(End of this chapter)