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Chapter 220 I just got divorced last month
"What's going on?" the woman asked, bewildered, but her tone was full of wisdom.

"Of course, it was his mother who arranged it."

"Didn't you say yourself that he's a mama's boy? So it must be because his mother approves of you that you can enter his family."

"So, under what circumstances do you think a mother from an A8 family would be interested in you?"

"I...I don't know." The girl honestly admitted that she was useless: "I've never been in a relationship, I don't understand any of this."

"It's okay, I can tell you."

Zhang Zhe had experience communicating with Hui Zi, so he had a firm grasp of the criteria for choosing a partner for wealthy mama's boys.

"Mothers of mama's boys will most likely hope to find a daughter-in-law who is not too assertive, sensible, considerate, and will not cause them any trouble."

"After you marry into the family, you'd better be like his son and listen to your mother-in-law in everything you do, otherwise life will be very difficult."

"The most common complaint I've heard about 'mama's boys' is that when there are conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the husband will always side with his mother and almost never stand on the wife's side."

"So you need to give people the feeling that you don't fight or compete, and are even willing to suffer humiliation. It's best to make people feel that you are easily controlled."

"can you do it?"

"I..." The woman hesitated, speaking haltingly, as if she couldn't bring herself to say what she truly thought.

Zhang Zhe answered for her directly: "You definitely can't do it."

"I guess you want to find a mama's boy because you've never been in a relationship, and you think:"
"Ah, if a boy listens to his mother so much, then he'll definitely listen to me after he gets married, right?"

"If a guy like that has money, then if I become his wife, his money will be mine, right? That would be too good to be true!"

Brother Zhang, it's a bit impolite of you to be so blunt.

[It really seems that way. She has no idea how outrageous a real mama's boy can be. A mother-in-law is even harder to please than your own mother.]

She just wants to find a rich and obedient man, and among rich men, only a "mama's boy" fits that description.

[As expected of a female PhD student, her wish-making skills are definitely superior to those of the average girl.]

"Sister, is that so?"

"Um... a little bit, I guess." The girl didn't shy away from admitting it: "I do want to find a guy with a good personality."

“No way.” Zhang Zhe waved his hand: “Mama’s boys are indeed obedient, and after marriage, you will certainly have the opportunity to make him listen to you, but there is a major prerequisite—that you can outmaneuver his mother.”

"This is no longer a conflict between a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law; the essence is a fight for custody of a man."

"Just think about whether you're even worthy of playing palace intrigue with the matriarch of a wealthy family."

"..." The girl paused for a moment, carefully considered Zhang Zhe's words, and asked in return, "It's impossible for all wealthy families to engage in palace intrigue, right?"

"Of course, there are exceptions. You just need to keep your mother-in-law happy and manage the household affairs well. Then, when your mother-in-law gets old and doesn't want to manage things anymore, it will naturally be your turn to take charge of the household."

"The question is..." Zhang Zhe asked the girl he was connecting with online with, "Do you have that skill level?"

Do you know how to provide emotional value to people?

"I..." After calming down, the woman replied, "I really can't."

"But my friend said that it's easiest for female PhD students to find a rich, mama's boy; the rest are much harder to find."

“Those rich men have seen a lot, and someone like me with little dating experience will only be manipulated by them.”

"No, you're worrying unnecessarily," Zhang Zhe reassured her. "An average-looking female PhD student is unlikely to be the type of rich man who would be so bored as to try and take advantage of you."

"You and the friend who gave you the advice may both have a misconception that since you come from a family with a net worth of four or five million, after getting a PhD, you should look up to an A8 family."

“That doesn’t make sense.” Zhang Zhe shook his head and said, “Among the rich guys I’ve met so far, even if they’re strict about education, they only go up to a bachelor’s degree.”

"They do treat PhDs differently, but most of the time, that special treatment is negative."

[The female PhD student is older, but she also has a bad temper and low emotional intelligence. What rich man would date someone like that?]

[A8 and A9 graduates who truly seek capable wives don't look at academic qualifications, but rather at your personal abilities.] [Sister, are you treating your 211 university degree like Harvard? Do you think you're some kind of socialite?]

The biggest misconception among women is that improving their education level will make them more attractive, which is why so many highly educated women remain single.

Men always choose wives based on looks, personality, and emotional value; I've rarely seen anyone who idolizes academic qualifications.

Zhang Zhe thought the comments in the live chat made a lot of sense.

He's been doing live-streamed matchmaking for so long, and he's only ever encountered women who have an "educational background worship" mentality.

The boys didn't seem to care.

As long as a girl is pretty, has a good personality, and doesn't have a messy private life, any educational background is acceptable.

When we were young, girls probably believed the teachers' words the most: "Study hard, get into a good university and you'll achieve this and that."

However, this kind of thinking has almost no place to survive among the rich second generation. Don't these rich people know how their parents made their fortune?

How many rich guys' parents actually earned a lot of money by studying hard, going to university, and then making a fortune?

"So, in my situation, there's no way to seek help from higher-ups?" The woman, like Zhang Zhe, had read the comments on the screen, but she was still unwilling to give up.

There is only one way, but it involves an element of luck.

Zhang Zhe offered his last trump card: "You can only take advantage of the campus environment, when everyone is less concerned about their family background, to win the heart of a landlord's foolish son."

"But this method is extremely risky, because it is very possible that the boy wants to marry you, but his parents strongly disagree, and you break up after graduation."

From a rational perspective, Zhang Zhe would definitely advise the girl to find a guy from a similar family background, with slightly lower education than her, but with a good personality.

For example, a male master's student in software engineering with an average appearance but little romantic experience, who is essentially a programmer.

But clearly, this girl is arrogant and doesn't think much of this kind of guy.

After listening to Zhang Zhe's advice, she immediately asked, "Brother Zhang, do you think it would be okay for me to find a rich second-generation heir when I study abroad?"

"Stop fooling around, sister."

"I feel like you're making me laugh."

“When rich kids go abroad to study, they’re just there to gild their resumes. In their eyes, a degree is just a piece of clothing that you can buy with money. Your PhD doesn’t give you any advantage.”

"In the end, you can only compete with other girls in terms of looks and hard skills, and you can't compete with them."

"How will you know if you don't try?" The girl suddenly felt a bit inspired: "Thank you, Brother Zhang, I understand everything you said."

"Since it doesn't matter whether I have a doctorate or not, I guess I need to hurry up."

"Okay, then hurry up."

Zhang Zhe doesn't force the other party to understand his meaning.

Helping this girl figure out that she's not suited to dating a mama's boy is already a huge achievement.

After the other person disconnected, and seeing that no new viewers requested to connect, Xia Yi leaned close to Zhang Zhe's ear and whispered, "Why is she, a female PhD, always thinking about marrying a rich man?"

“Because she has already demystified academic qualifications.” Zhang Zhe smiled slightly: “But she hasn’t demystified money yet.”

"However, it's also possible that she realized she couldn't find someone she liked anyway, so she might as well find a rich man."

"Can we find it?" Xia Yi said worriedly. "Her idea doesn't seem very reliable."

"It doesn't matter. She's almost 30 anyway. If she struggles for a few more years, she might figure it out when she turns 30."

Zhang Zhe was very open-minded; as a matchmaker, one must learn to respect the fate of others.

The two whispered to each other as they waited. A little while later, someone else joined the microphone, and this time it wasn't an ordinary person. The woman's reason for joining was:
She just got divorced last month.

(End of this chapter)