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Chapter 218 Find a Mama's Boy

"Sister, if you were to go to Hu Zi's live stream and connect with him, he would definitely say you're an Android user."

"Let me tell you objectively, you have a bit of a poor person's mentality."

Zhang Zhe knew this girl had a high opinion of herself, so he was willing to be direct; she could handle it.

"The fact that you told me about this shortcoming of your blind date shows that in your eyes, this guy is unwilling to spend money on a taxi and walks back to work to save money."

"Perhaps that's not true."

"He probably just wanted to take a walk after his meal to digest his food."

"I didn't understand it when I was a child. It wasn't until I was in college that I met a guy from Peking University in the next dorm. He really would take a walk around the campus twice every day after lunch and dinner."

"People with this kind of lifestyle don't always think about money. Even if they do save money in the end, it's just a side effect."

"Of course, that's not really the key point."

"The most important thing is what the comments say. What does this have to do with you?" Zhang Zhe asked with a puzzled look: "They're willing to spend money to treat you to dinner and a movie. Afterwards, you each go your own way. Why do you care how they get home?"

“But, in this situation…” The woman was somewhat incoherent, unsure how to explain, and finally said, “He makes me feel uncomfortable.”

"I really can't accept it."

"Why can't you accept it?" Zhang Zhe countered. "Is it because he doesn't have a car that you're looking down on him for not being well-off?"

"He has a car, but he wasn't driving it because there were traffic restrictions that day."

“So, there’s nothing wrong with his behavior.” Zhang Zhe told the girl, “Let me correct what you just said. This guy isn’t stingy. Even if he’s trying to save money, it’s still being frugal.”

"What's the difference?"

"The biggest difference is that thrift is for oneself, while stinginess is for others. As long as he doesn't ask you to save money for him, then you have no grounds to say that he is stingy."

"Okay, that's the problem with the last blind date. What about the one before that? What did you not like about him?"

“The previous one…” The woman looked on with a nostalgic expression: “He was a bit of a chauvinist and didn’t respect me much.”

"He won't let you sit at the table to eat?" Zhang Zhe asked in surprise.

"No, but when he ordered, he didn't even ask if I liked it. He just asked symbolically if I had any dietary restrictions, and then directly ordered the restaurant's signature dishes."

[Isn’t this normal? 】

[It must be that the guy asked her what she wanted to eat, she said anything was fine, and then she wasn't satisfied after he ordered.]

[Are you blind? Can't you just say what you want to eat?]

[From the man's perspective, I'm already at the red-hot level.]

Everyone's a bit irritable today, but they're right, this girl is just nitpicking.

"Okay, how about one more?"

Zhang Zhe didn't comment much on what the woman said, because there was no need to.

He now only felt sorry for the guys who were on blind dates with this girl. They had money to treat her to a meal, but they would have been better off buying two sausages to feed the stray dogs on the street.

"The previous one was a bit indecisive," the girl recalled. "When we went shopping together, I was basically the one leading the way. I felt like I was taking care of a little kid, and it was exhausting."

“…” Zhang Zhe nodded with some difficulty.

"The boy before that..."

"Alright, you don't need to say anymore." Zhang Zhe interrupted her; he no longer wanted to know what kind of guys this girl had been on blind dates with.

He just wanted to tell her what she had done wrong as soon as possible, and then send her away:

"Sister, in your situation, my advice is:"
Go back and have a good talk with your parents, or other trusted elders, such as your grandparents, about what kind of partner you're looking for.

"What exactly are your requirements for marriage?" Zhang Zhe pointed to the information registered on the whiteboard behind him:
"A person can have so many conditions. If you want to get married, you can only make demands on a few of them. As for the rest, you have to learn to accept them."

"If you can't accept any of my flaws, then you're simply not suited for a close relationship, so you should stay single."

Brother Zhang, she won't understand what you're saying.

Is it possible that she's looking for a perfect man and won't marry anyone who isn't?

Being with this kind of woman means you have to be extremely careful every day, afraid of stepping on her triggers.

That's just how it is with single-parent families—they're incredibly sensitive, have tons of triggers, and it's hard to get close to them.

[Her personality is terrible. If I were a guy, I wouldn't be able to stand her nitpicking like that either.]

When the girls in the live stream are all saying "I can't take it anymore," then the person connecting with them really has a serious problem.

"Brother Zhang, do you mean that my purpose is unclear right now, so I can't find a suitable one?"

"But I'm almost 30. If I don't find someone now, it will be harder to find one later."

"What does this have to do with your age?" Zhang Zhe frowned. He hadn't expected that this girl, besides being picky, was also not very bright.

His speech lacks any logic whatsoever.

But then he felt relieved.

It's because only people like that would be foolish enough to fixate on a particular trait of a blind date.

"Sister, given your current situation, you can only look for three types of people."

"One type is just playing with you, because once he gets tired of you, he doesn't have to bother breaking up with you. He can just step on one of your triggers and you'll dump him."

"There's another type that can teach you a lesson, which is someone whose conditions are much better than yours. You fawn over him, and he turns around and uses psychological manipulation on you until you're completely submissive."

"But guys with these qualities usually don't like you. Your qualities aren't worth their time. You'll have to try your luck."

"Perhaps you'll encounter it when you're in your seventies or eighties."

"What's the other one?" the woman asked impatiently.

"There's another type: the scheming guy. You'll never understand what he's thinking. On the contrary, he looks at you like you're a kitten or a puppy."

"If he finds that you're not very bright and are easily fooled, he might choose you."

Holy crap, every single option is righteous!

Sister, I'll sponsor you 50 yuan, but you absolutely have to find the third option! I want to see a river of blood.

That kind of scheming man can ruin her life, leaving her penniless and even burdened with debt.

If we could truly find these three types of people, it would be considered acting on behalf of Heaven.

The comments in the live chat were a bit harsh, but Zhang Zhe wasn't that evil, so he sincerely advised the other party:
"First figure out what you're looking for in marriage. If you're looking for a house, don't complain about how frugal the other person is; if you're looking for money, don't complain about how chauvinistic they are; if you're looking for gentleness, don't nitpick about whether they're a domineering CEO or not."

"Understand?"

"Okay, I understand." The woman nodded. "Thank you, Brother Zhang. I'll go down and think about it carefully."

"go Go."

Zhang Zhe waved his hand, directly operated the computer, and kicked her out of the live stream.

"Stop criticizing her in the comments. I don't usually talk about people like her because her brain is muddled. She can't even explain why she did what she did."

"To put it bluntly, she's so stupid, she must be really upset about it herself."

"Okay, let's continue with the next girl. This girl told me that she wants to find a mama's boy."

(End of this chapter)