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Chapter 209 I Don't Have Time to Tease You
“But my dad just isn’t happy with his job,” the woman said emphatically.

Is he in a high-risk position in the construction industry?

Zhang Zhe could only think of this point: if the man has a job where he risks his life to earn money, then it would be reasonable for the woman's parents to object for this reason.

After all, her father is a businessman, and the family is probably quite well-off, so he would hope that his daughter's family life would be more stable.

"No, he's just the kind of construction site manager."

"You're still complaining about this?"

"Actually, my dad is a little dissatisfied with his educational background because I have a master's degree and he only has a junior college degree. My dad feels that his educational background is not good enough for me."

"As for jobs, I became a doctor with a government-affiliated position after graduation, while he worked in a private company. His job was not quite good enough for me."

“My family is well-off, with around 20 to 30 million yuan, while his family is just an ordinary family. My parents felt that we were not a good match.”

The difference in family background is too great.

[They really are a mismatch. I think the girl's parents are right.]

This guy is probably after her family's money.

If that's the case, why did you get together in the first place?

Zhang Zhe could guess why the young couple had gotten together.

It's highly likely because the man is handsome and faithful.

Seeing the comments section was confusing, he specifically asked the woman this question: "What's your boyfriend like?"

"He has a good image, is very tall, about 1.8 meters, and looks very sunny."

"So when you two got together, looks played a part to some extent, right?"

"A little bit."

"And what about him now? How's his income?"

"His annual income is now about 200,000 to 300,000 yuan."

Do you have any bad habits?

"No, his biggest hobby is playing basketball, and I also enjoy watching him play basketball."

"So... do all the ladies in the live stream understand?" Zhang Zhe looked at the camera and smiled, "This guy doesn't have any major shortcomings except for his family background."

“His associate degree might be a bit lacking, but he can earn two or three hundred thousand a year, so he must be very hardworking. As long as he doesn’t go on blind dates with graduate students, he’s unlikely to be looked down upon for his education.”

"Although he's a good guy, I still suggest you break up with him."

"The first thing you should do after getting ashore is to cut off your love interest. You should have done that a long time ago. Break up sooner and don't hold your boyfriend back."

"With his qualifications, he would find it very easy to find a partner in his social class. He is handsome and can earn money, so he would definitely be popular when going on blind dates."

Zhang Zhe believed that this girl's parents were definitely not against their relationship for the first time, but even if the girl had thoughts of breaking up while she was still an undergraduate, she certainly wouldn't have gone to the point of consulting someone online.

Being young and not in a hurry is one thing, but the bigger problem is that she got into graduate school.

She's a graduate student and hasn't graduated yet, but she's already saying that she'll be a "tenured doctor" in the future. What she's implying is that she and her boyfriend are no longer in the same social class.

She went online to seek advice just to put her mind at ease, so that she could blame netizens after the breakup.

"But we've been together for many years."

"I'm afraid that if I break up with someone at my age, it will be harder to find someone else."

Isn't this just a case of trying to find a better opportunity while still having one?

If she says that, I'll have to message her boyfriend privately. What's the point of keeping a girlfriend like that?

I suspect she pursued her current boyfriend.

So you know you might not find anyone better? Then aren't you crazy?

"Don't you even have this much confidence?" Zhang Zhe encouraged, "Go ahead and try. You can definitely do it. You're a doctor with a formal position; in ancient times, that would be like being an imperial physician." "How can an imperial physician be working alongside a laborer on a construction site?"

"But I'm afraid I won't find someone like him who treats me so well." The girl was a little conflicted: "I see that the guys I meet on blind dates online are all pretty materialistic."

How good is he to you?

"Tell me, the viewers in the live stream and I are all very curious about just how good it is that you like it so much."

“He’s very generous with money. For example, on my birthday, he’ll give me gifts worth 20,000 to 30,000 yuan, like bags and jewelry.”

"Brands like Chanel, LV, and Chaumet are not cheap."

Zhang Zhe doesn't know much about jewelry, but judging from the comments in the live stream, brands like Chaumet are considered top-tier luxury brands, the kind that even minor female celebrities can't afford.

The woman said it was only 20,000 to 30,000 yuan, which was a very conservative estimate. I guess it was roughly that price when all the gifts were added together and averaged out.

"how long have you been together?"

"7."

"Wow, seven years?" Zhang Zhe exclaimed in shock.

I thought it would be three or four years, but it turned out to be seven years?
"He gives you gifts on holidays and birthdays, so the total value of all the gifts he's given you must be around four or five hundred thousand, right?"

This guy definitely doesn't just give gifts once a year on his birthday; that would be considered stingy in a girl's eyes.

It's estimated that there will be a constant stream of luxury goods for Valentine's Day, Qixi Festival, birthdays, anniversaries, and flowers and milk tea sent regularly. In short, there will be small romantic gestures on ordinary days and big surprises on holidays.

A college graduate working on a construction site, who usually eats 10-yuan fast food, gave all his savings to this woman.

They dated for seven years, and now the girl wants to break up...

Zhang Zhe thought for a moment and realized that if someone was emotionally fragile and couldn't think straight for a while, they might even have thought about jumping off a building. Even someone with a stronger will would probably fall seriously ill.

“It shouldn’t be worth four or five hundred thousand.” The woman shook her head and said, “He’s really good to me, he spends all his money on me.”

"But his educational background is just too poor."

“My parents have also met him and think he is a good person. They just want him to change jobs and take the civil service exam, but he can’t do it.”

"Stop talking nonsense." Zhang Zhe waved his hand at the camera like he was shooing away a fly: "So what if he passed the civil service exam? The income of a grassroots civil servant is so low that he can't afford to buy you luxury goods. You'll still break up with him."

"Seven years, not seven days or seven months. It's not like he suddenly became unworthy of you. When you accepted his gifts, didn't you ever think that he wasn't good enough for you?"

[Brother Zhang hit the nail on the head. That's seven years! A full seven years of youth!]

The girl herself also wasted seven years of her youth; you can't calculate it like that.

The man was useless; he spent all his money on women and now he's been dumped, leaving him only with his luxury shopping records.

If he's really been pedaling for 7 years, the guy isn't really at a loss. I'll message him and tell him to start pedaling more freely recently.

If a guy is handsome, and a girl is hesitant to admit her looks, she's probably just average-looking. It's hard to say who's at a disadvantage in this situation.

“Well… everyone’s thoughts can change!” the woman defended herself. “I didn’t understand these things so well before. He loved me and gave me gifts, so of course I accepted them.”

"He loves you, but you don't love him."

"I love him too, otherwise why would I have been with him for 7 years?"

“No, no.” Zhang Zhe smiled and shook his head: “Your explanation can only fool turtle men, not Sigma men.”

"I don't have time to argue with you. Let me be frank, you just can't find anyone better than him in a normal relationship right now, and since he's generous to you, you should just enjoy it for now."

"If someone more generous and outstanding than him were pursuing you, you would have dumped him long ago."

Even now, you doubt whether you can find someone better than him after the breakup; you have no confidence at all.

"But you're right about one thing: if you don't break up soon, no one will be willing to take you on in the matchmaking market."

(End of this chapter)