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Chapter 206 Why don't you find a woman to be your husband?
“I kind of understand what you mean, host, but to be honest, I’m not sure myself what kind of spiritual connection I’m looking for.”

"Because I have a lot of hobbies."

I like a little bit of everything.

"How complicated is it? Tell me, let me see." Zhang Zhe was very expectant; his intuition told him that this girl was something special.

"The host just mentioned reading. I've been reading recently too. I'm reading Marcel Proust's 'In Search of Lost Time'."

"I'm learning French now in order to read this book, and I've been taking classes for half a month."

"?" Zhang Zhe was somewhat familiar with this behavior; it had a very bourgeois feel to it. "Besides French, have you studied anything else?"

"I have also studied Spanish, Portuguese and Russian."

"I learned it all while reading books, because many translations are inaccurate."

"666, that's some serious showing off, I've learned something."

"I'm guessing you've only studied them, but aren't proficient, right?"

"Yes, I mainly learned it because I was interested in it."

[Isn't this a classic XXN portrait? Only the rich kind.]

This is the kind of person who's fakely sophisticated.

The book she reads most often is probably Little Red Potato.

[Studying such a wide variety of things, no wonder your brain is a complete mess]

"Besides languages ​​and literature, do you have any other hobbies?"

"I am learning piano;"

"And I'm also learning to dance;"

"I'd like to learn more about wingsuit flying recently."

"..." Zhang Zhe now has a complete understanding of this girl's situation.

She must be one of those rich second-generation heirs whose only task every day is to find ways to have fun.

The only difference between her and the typical "XXN" type of person on Xiaohongshu is that she pursues more spiritual refinement than material refinement.

If the genders were reversed, they would be like Lan Zhanfei and Tong Jincheng.

They pursue different goals.

However, they all have one thing in common: they both find it difficult to find a marriage partner who meets their requirements.

"Sister, maybe we should skip the blind date."

"Unless they're after your financial situation, no guy in the dating market will be interested in you."

Zhang Zhe's words were even more direct than before.

This time, it wasn't that the woman couldn't find a suitable partner; it was that none of the men she went on blind dates with were interested in her.

"Why? Am I that bad?"

"It's really bad for men."

"Could you elaborate?" the girl asked, her tone pleading. "Some of the guys I went on blind dates with had meals with me four or five times, but then inexplicably nothing happened."

"The feedback they gave me was: At first glance, I seem like I would be a perfect wife, but the more they got to know me, the more they found me boring and uninteresting."

"But my female friends all think I'm very interesting and cute, and they're super happy to be friends with me."

"So I really don't understand those men."

"Then just find a woman to marry, what are you babbling about?"

You actually believe the flattery between people of the same sex? You've never believed that before!

They're not going to marry you, so they don't have to take responsibility for what they say.

This girl is definitely not very bright; she's not suitable for marriage.

"You and your sisters..." Zhang Zhe looked embarrassed, "Do you often treat us when you go out to play?"

"No, we all split the bill."

"Then it can only be because the evaluation systems are different." "Your sisters see you from the perspective of friends, but when a man is considering marriage, he has to see you from the perspective of a wife."

"What's the difference?" the girl asked, very confused. "I think good couples should start as friends, right?"

“There’s no such saying.” Zhang Zhe shook his head.

"This is actually quite simple. When men in China look for wives, if they don't consider material conditions, they just look at whether you look like a woman."

"If someone is good-looking, has obvious feminine features, or is gentle and kind, then they fit the traditional definition of a woman and will naturally find it easier to find a partner."

"But someone like you, with all sorts of hobbies, just playing around every day, finding new ways to play, and maybe even saying some strange things from time to time..."

“In the eyes of boys who don’t understand you, you’re just a child.”

"Taking care of children for long periods of time is already exhausting, let alone getting married."

[That's so true. Her best friend must be having a great time hanging out with a girl who's so childlike.]

She'd be better off finding someone who loves to have fun just like her, so they can enjoy life together.

Guys who love to have fun are unlikely to get married this early.

[She's the kind of girl who's always partying in your social circle; any normal guy would avoid her.]

"I think there's something wrong with what you're saying, host."

Suddenly, another woman's voice came from the other end of the video call:

“I’m her best friend, and I want to say a few words on her behalf.”

"She is not suitable for the current marriage market because everyone is looking for a virtuous wife and loving mother, but this is the mindset of ordinary people."

"I think truly outstanding people, or rather, wealthy people, should find a soulmate."

"So what are you trying to say? Do you think the kind of guy you're talking about would actually come on a blind date?"

Zhang Zhe shrugged and asked with a puzzled look:

“If you go to a fast food restaurant and order Boston lobster, and the owner says they don’t have it, you should say that the restaurant is too low-class.”

"What, are you going to help this restaurant get Michelin star status?"

"Is it really that hard for you to honestly admit that you're not suited for the dating market? You're making it sound like you're going to die."

Zhang Zhe curled his lip in disdain.

Once this best friend appears, it's safe to say that any girl who does this live stream with her basically doesn't need to worry about getting married for the rest of her life.

However, this may not be a bad thing for the woman. As long as her family's financial situation remains good, she can live like this for the rest of her life without any problems.

Besides, she's already planning to go wingsuit flying, so how long her life will actually be is still an unknown.

Where did this best friend come from?

I can already imagine this girl's daily life; it's probably just a group of young girls partying from morning till night.

To put it bluntly, it's just a richer version of the "energetic young woman."

[Zhang Ge has such a good temper; if it were me, I would have yelled at this friend.]

"Okay, I understand." The woman nodded earnestly in front of the camera. "Thank you, Brother Zhang."

"Can I take your slides to show my parents?"

"Your parents won't meet me in person, will they?" Zhang Zhe asked, feigning concern.

"That probably won't happen."

"If you don't know how, just look at it casually. The slices are cut out to be used for dissemination."

“It’s normal for parents to urge their children to get married.” Zhang Zhe roughly guessed what the girl wanted to do with the smear, and comforted her: “The older generation has a clock in their bodies, and they must do certain things at certain times.”

“Now that you’re almost 30, they’re not comfortable if they don’t urge you to get married.”

"After you get married, they will urge you to have children."

“They feel bad even if they don’t urge them, and they can’t sleep at night.”

"Just listen to what I say, but how you actually do it depends on your own situation."

(End of this chapter)