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Chapter 194 Really Need to Take Care of Children
[Case solved! The sisters were tricked by Brother Zhang!]

Her requirements aren't high at all; it's probably because there aren't many suitable people in this small town.

[This could be considered an awakened woman, but she's too old.]

If you're 5 years younger, you can get married within a month, provided you don't ask for a high dowry.

"Actually, I feel that your requirements are fine, it's just that the search might be a bit slow."

"Let me interview you. How are you feeling right now?" Zhang Zhe was curious about the other person's current mental state.

"Now I... am starting to regret it."

“I started going on blind dates when I was 27. Actually, I met a really nice guy a long time ago. He worked in the public sector, was a very good person, had a great personality, and his parents were very satisfied with me.”

"But when we were preparing to get married, he told me that he was impotent."

"..." Zhang Zhe felt like he had heard this story somewhere before.

Are there really that many incompetent men these days?
“I broke up with him right then and there. Part of the reason was that he was impotent, but the main reason was that he had kept such an important matter from me.”

"Before you knew he was incompetent, you must have thought he was very respectful of women, right?"

“Yes, yes, yes.” The woman replied repeatedly, “He was really a good man, but at the time I felt that his lying was a matter of principle.”

"After that, I went on many blind dates, but I didn't meet anyone suitable."

"Around the beginning of this year, I met a younger man who works in the system. He actually works under that man, who is now a leader with a high rank, and he is also married."

"We always tell others that we are childless by choice."

"I regretted it at the time. If I hadn't been so impulsive and had thought it over more, I would have agreed to his request."

"Ugh--"

You're not regretting it, you're just aware you'll never get married, so you've started having a string of potential partners.

Sister, believe me, if you had married him back then, you would regret it now.

Trust your first choice.

[Does this woman really think that a marriage without sex, or just having good financial conditions, guarantees happiness? She doesn't seem to be thinking straight.]

“This story tells us,” Zhang Zhe sighed, “that self-castration really works. When a man is pure of heart and desires, it’s easy for him to achieve results in his career.”

"Otherwise, he might not have been able to become a leader."

"Oh? Is that so?" The girl's tone was slightly puzzled.

"Of course, sister, you don't need to regret it. People always tend to romanticize the path they didn't take. If you had married back then and hadn't had a marital life for a long time, you might have gotten divorced."

Since she was a true fan, Zhang Zhe didn't beat around the bush and told her directly:

"You regret it only because you missed the opportunity to become a leader's wife. If that man were still a low-level employee all these years later, you would never regret it."

"..." The woman seemed reluctant to respond to Zhang Zhe's words.

That statement was a bit too cruel for her.

She tried to change the subject:
"If my current requirements are met, is it still possible to find someone? I'm already 34, and if I don't get married soon, I'll be going through menopause."

"Probably not." Zhang Zhe shrugged and said, "You really don't have much of a competitive edge."

"Men around your age, around 35, who are divorced and have no children, have a very low probability of remarrying. Many of them prefer short-term relationships, that is, finding young and beautiful women."

"You can't compare to those twenty-three or twenty-four-year-old girls, even if they're tattooed delinquents."

"If you're in a hurry to get married, you have to accept that the person is around 40 years old, divorced, and has children."

"The good news is that you can have a painless pregnancy."

Zhang Zhe provided a very precise portrait; only men of this caliber could help this woman get married before she turned 35. "But being a stepmother is tough," the woman said, scratching her head. "I don't have much confidence in myself."

"Well, so you need to add another condition: if the man owns a house, his income must be above 8."

"With your income, the family's monthly disposable income can reach 1 yuan, which is a pretty good life."

“You’re already poor. If you find another poor woman with kids, you’ll definitely argue about every little thing.”

"We can't make ends meet."

"When children are young, money can solve many problems."

Children are the easiest to please, but they become more difficult once they enter puberty.

Divorced men without children will look for young women, not 34-year-olds.

At your age, giving birth naturally is too strenuous. You might as well do what Brother Zhang suggested and have a painless pregnancy.

"Do I really have to bring the child?" the girl was still struggling with the question.

"Of course not. You can find someone even if they don't have children, but it's slow and depends on luck."

"I can only tell you that men with children devote many times more energy to their families than other types of men."

Zhang Zhe couldn't continue speaking, otherwise he would be suspected of instigating his sisters to cheat honest people.

But the reality is that men in small cities who need to support their children are willing to give the vast majority of their income to their families.

With the single father having already sorted out his life, the arrival of the stepmother is like a small business that has already achieved stable profitability, where you suddenly invest and become a shareholder.

As long as you yourself are fine and don't cause trouble, the chances of getting a positive return in the end are very high.

"You can look for unmarried men, but you'd better lower your standards a bit and look for ordinary office workers from rural families."

"We need to lower our economic expectations a bit, because the median wage for enterprise employees in our city is only 5500."

"5500? That's just a little higher than mine?"

"A little? No, no, no, it's 37% higher." Zhang Zhe knew that girls were generally not good with numbers, so he helped them calculate it.

"So many?" The woman didn't believe it, so she took out her phone and counted, and found that it really was true.

Actually, this is an underestimation. If you exclude basic living expenses, men can save twice as much money as women, or even more.

"In this situation, can the groom ask for more dowry?"

“Of course you can, you can even do it this way.” Zhang Zhe offered a suggestion: “You set a time limit, like six months. Within these six months, whoever meets your requirements and offers the most money, you can marry.”

"That way you definitely won't lose out."

"Huh?" The woman looked shocked. "Isn't that selling yourself?"

[Otherwise, why do you think the man would give money to a 34-year-old old man?]

One good thing about this girl is that at her age, the men who are interested in her are all genuinely interested in marriage and have a strong willingness to commit.

Sisters, never ask for less than a penny, otherwise men won't cherish you.

To put it bluntly, she still wants to pay off her debts.

“Our country doesn’t allow the buying and selling of people, so what you’re doing is a normal need,” Zhang Zhe said with a smile. “But once you’re out here, don’t tell anyone you’re my fan.”

"I can't afford to lose this person."

"..." The woman laughed awkwardly: "I'm sorry, Brother Zhang, I've embarrassed you. I really can't change my way of thinking for a while."

(End of this chapter)