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Chapter 156 Directly arrange to meet

Does being short make it harder to find a partner?

The answer is yes.

The reason why "tall, rich, and handsome" is ranked first among the three is because it is the most common of the three, but precisely because of this, it has become the most demanded condition by girls.

Zhang Zhe was certain that there was 100% height discrimination in the matchmaking market, because if he were 1.8 meters tall, he would have been able to find a partner back in Shenzhen.

Several girls introduced to him by friends all explicitly rejected him after learning about his height, saying they wanted to find someone taller to improve their genes.

The hardest thing is that no matter how tall a girl is, she wants to find a tall guy.

A girl who is 153cm tall once said directly to Zhang Zhe:
“I’ve been short since I was a child, and I was bullied a lot when I was in school. If my children are like me, they will probably have the same experience.”

"That's why I must find a husband who is 1.8 meters tall."

There are far too many girls with this kind of thinking in the dating market.

For someone as tall as me (163cm), it would be reasonable for me to date a girl who is 155cm tall, but in reality, these girls all require at least 170cm.

"Height is definitely a disadvantage." Zhang Zhe nodded, partially agreeing with his older brother's statement: "Have you ever been in a relationship before, brother?"

"No, I've only had a few crushes, and I'm still single."

Haven't your colleagues or classmates introduced you to anyone?

“A colleague introduced me to someone, but that girl was too good for me, and I felt I wasn’t good enough for her.” The man was very honest: “So we only got to know each other briefly and that was the end of it.”

"Yes, I understand." Zhang Zhe nodded. In fact, the more social experience one has, the clearer one's self-awareness becomes.

A mature man can clearly sense his own limits.

It's probably like a limiter.

It's possible to break through, but not everyone can, and even if you try, the chances are very small.

When it comes to marriage, dating, and making friends, this feeling of "I'm not good enough" will arise.

"Just this one?"

“When I went home for the Chinese New Year, my family introduced me to two women. I even talked to one of them for quite a while, but later I found out that she had just lived with her ex-boyfriend for three years and had only broken up with him three months ago. After hearing that, I felt uneasy.”

"So we didn't continue."

Living together for three years? Then just consider it as a divorce.

This girl is quite honest; she told the guy she met on a blind date about her cohabitation history.

The older brother is an honest man, so the girl naturally wouldn't take advantage of him.

[Dude, you don't have a mental obsession with cleanliness, do you? That's hard to find!]

"What kind of person are you looking for?" Zhang Zhe continued to ask.

"After thinking about it, I realized that given my circumstances, I might need to find someone who lives outside the city center and has a strong desire to stay in Qingdao. Only then will my house become an advantage for me."

"As for her appearance, an average person is fine, but her family burden cannot be too heavy. She cannot be the kind of family that expects me to support them."

"I don't require the woman to have a job, as long as she has a stable job and a normal salary."

"There must be quite a few girls like this at the matchmaking corner, right?" Zhang Zhe pointed to the information cards: "Didn't you try contacting them?"

"No." The older brother shook his head: "Many are either older than me or have height requirements. There aren't many that are really suitable."

“Even if there aren’t many, there are still some.” Zhang Zhe had completely understood the older brother’s problem.

He was timid and hesitant when he found a suitable match.

He simply gave up on anything that wasn't suitable.

With his timid and cowardly personality, he wouldn't even get a chance to cross the river in a dump truck.

"Dude, do you know how you're making me feel right now?"

"How does it feel?" the older brother asked curiously.

“It feels like you have a lot of X-force.” Zhang Zhe bluntly told his older brother, “It’s like when you stand there, chuckle, and girls think you’re a very honest person, nothing interesting, and they don’t want to have any relationship with you.” “To put it bluntly, you’re not attractive to the opposite sex.”

"If a short guy wants to date, he has to be attractive. Otherwise, you can only rely on his financial situation to push him. He has to drive a Maserati or a Land Rover, or at least a BMW, Mercedes-Benz, or Audi."

Do you understand what I mean?

"I understand a little," the older brother nodded in reply.

"One example isn't enough. Let me give you another one."

Zhang Zhe looked into the other person's eyes and asked, "Do you usually like looking at girls with big breasts?"

"I like it, but what does that have to do with blind dates?"

"It's okay, I was just asking." Zhang Zhe smiled and said, "Imagine a girl with big breasts, wearing a loose black short-sleeved shirt, slippers, bangs, and slouching shoulders, walking down the street while eating corn on the cob. Do you think she'd be attractive?"

"No, she looks like an older woman."

"But what if she wore a Mai Shiranui cosplay outfit?"

【Then I'll just take off】

Brother Zhang knows what he's doing; he's probably quite skilled in his craft.

If this guy always dressed like this, no girl would look at him; he looks like he's 40.

[Actually, many of the women on Douyin who flirt with the wrong image are just like the ones Zhang Ge described in real life; they're just more uninhibited in front of the camera.]

"If it were cosplay... it would definitely be very attractive." The guy understood, looked down at his own outfit, and couldn't help but sigh.

"I really can't have a relationship like this."

Is it still worth starting to work out now?

"It's bound to be useful. If you can show off your six-pack abs anytime, anywhere, you'll have a chance to strike up a conversation with girls your age at the gym, to say the least."

"Brother, remember this: blind dates are competitions between people of the same sex. The more advantages you have, the greater your competitive edge will be."

"Having abs and looking energetic is definitely more attractive than being short and chubby, looking like you've been drained by work."

"However, this is not your most pressing problem right now."

Zhang Zhe changed the subject, explaining that he had only wanted his older brother to understand why he had difficulty finding a partner.

Honest men who seem boring are at the bottom of the dating market; they can only be promoted by their economic conditions. Moreover, even if such men get married, there will be other risks involved.

Baoqiang is a good example.

"The most important thing you need to do right now is to change your approach to blind dates."

"But before that, let me confirm something with you."

Zhang Zhe stared into the other person's eyes and asked:
"Is this marriage absolutely necessary? Is living alone unacceptable?"

"I definitely want to get married," the boy replied earnestly, without avoiding Zhang Zhe's gaze.

Does your family have a throne to inherit?

Everyone grows up in different environments, so there's no need for ridicule, right?

In my opinion, getting married now is a good idea. Your children will face less competition from their peers.

Brother, you absolutely have to have more children! My retirement pension will depend on your son.

When you're old, and I have a son while you don't, then you'll know how many eyes the Horse King has.

"OK, let's continue."

"Let me ask you a question. Why did you stop chatting with that outstanding girl because you felt you weren't good enough for her? Was it because she charges for chatting?"

"No, it's just that I feel there's no point in talking about it," the older brother replied without hesitation.

“Chatting is pointless. I feel like after a few words with her, she’ll figure out you’re a boring person.” Zhang Zhe suggested, “Next time you encounter someone like that, send fewer messages and just ask her out for dinner.”

(End of this chapter)