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Chapter 143 If you need anything, please contact Teacher Wang.
I think this girl shouldn't get married.

[Step away from this situation, take the civil service exam, and get transferred to a less demanding position.]

[How strange, nobody mentioned the three types of men they wouldn't marry today.]

Don't date nurses anymore. No matter how good a person she is, all her energy is in her work; she has no family life.

"Auntie, I know the basics about your daughter's situation."

"This information card needs to be optimized. You need to show that your daughter is a contract worker at a top-tier hospital with a stable income and housing provident fund. Otherwise, people will only focus on how busy she is at work."

"Unless your daughter is willing to hand over her salary, no man will want to marry a woman who is too busy with work and doesn't care about her family."

"What's the point of marrying her? Is it because she doesn't come home, or because you want to spend money on her?"

"Huh? What? The woman hands over her salary?" The aunt looked shocked.

Ms. Wang, who was standing next to her, even trembled slightly. In all her years in the profession, this was the first time she had ever heard such words.

Has the world changed?

“You don’t have to hand over all of it, but you must set aside a portion to help with household expenses,” Zhang Zhe said seriously. “You absolutely cannot keep it all to yourself.”

"Otherwise, the man will feel insecure."

"Men also need a sense of security?" The aunt stood up abruptly.

[The streamer is so brave!]

[Brother Zhang is awesome, no wonder he's the streamer I follow]

[I've never understood why nurses don't find other jobs if they don't earn money? And if they do earn money, where does the money come from? Now that the host has explained it, I understand.]

If a female nurse were truly willing to hand over her entire salary, I feel there would be men willing to marry her, but the chances of her encountering a jerk would also be relatively high.

The reality is that she earns her own money and spends it as she pleases, occasionally having to ask her family for more, and then she comes home with a sour face.

Unless you're obsessed with having many children, you generally won't choose this kind of woman.

The elderly people nearby, seeing what seemed to be a commotion, quickly gathered around.

"What happened?"

"Are they arguing again?"

"What outrageous things did the matchmaker say?"

"Wow, this matchmaker is so handsome, he looks a bit like a male celebrity."

Seeing that there were many people around, the aunt who was asking for advice suddenly seemed to gain confidence, and pointed at Zhang Zhe, saying:
"This matchmaker told me that after my daughter gets married, she should hand over a portion of her salary, otherwise the man will feel insecure."

Have you heard of this saying?

“It’s fine if you don’t hand over your salary, but then you can’t demand that the man have a house for the wedding. Just let your daughter share the cost of a house with him.”

"In short, we must contribute to our families."

Zhang Zhe remained completely calm, and even wanted to laugh:

"Your daughter is a nurse. You can ask her how much energy she has left to take care of her family after a long day at work."

“In a marriage, everyone should work together to maintain the family. If she can’t provide emotional support to the family, then she should provide financial support.”

Upon hearing this, the elderly men in the crowd nodded in agreement.

They all seem to have real-life experience.

The older women's opinions were quite divided, with some supporting it and others opposing it, but generally speaking, they all agreed with Zhang Zhe's point that they should contribute to their families.

After hearing this, the aunt's expression changed, but she sat down again and continued to ask:
"What if the man is unreliable and uses my daughter's hard-earned money to live a carefree life outside?"

"Just stop giving him money next month. If that doesn't work, we can get a divorce and make him return the money he spent on personal expenses." Zhang Zhe smiled helplessly, "Auntie, we should also pay attention to the marriage law."

"This is your version, what are you panicking about?"

"Here's what I'll do: let me sketch out a picture of your future son-in-law for you."

"If your daughter is willing to contribute her salary or work hard with the man, then she should be able to find someone like that."

“Ages 30 to 35, ordinary employees of private enterprises or state-owned enterprises, with income similar to or slightly higher than your daughter's, owning a house in their hometown but not in Qingdao, and having saved several hundred thousand yuan to make a down payment.”

"He looks honest and unassuming, not very attractive to girls, but he's reliable and doesn't have any bad habits."

"As for education, a junior college diploma, or a bachelor's degree obtained through a junior college to university program."

"I have two elderly people to support, but our hometown is in the countryside, so the cost of their care is easily affordable." "Do you think that's a good idea?"

“I think it’s fine.” The aunt nodded, and even wanted to ask where Zhang Zhe could be found.

"Huh?" an old man in the crowd said, "Why does it feel like they're talking about my son?"

[What a coincidence? Isn't this part of the script?]

[Wow, that's awesome, they made the connection right away!]

[Sir, calm down. Don't let this woman get your son involved.]

The aunt hasn't agreed to let her daughter hand over her salary yet.

Upon hearing the old man's words, the people around him consciously made way, leaving the two potential in-laws staring at each other in public.

Finally, the old man broke the silence:
“The matchmaker’s description does sound like my son. He’s 34 years old and still not married. He’s planning to buy a house next year.”

"But I've been in Qingdao for a month and haven't seen a single girl at the matchmaking corner who's willing to hand over her salary to a man."

"Men are expected to hand over their wages."

"Because men with money turn bad!" an older woman in the crowd shouted, which was echoed by many others.

“That’s not right.” Zhang Zhe’an sat in his chair, his voice not loud, but the elderly men and women immediately quieted down to listen to him: “You say that men with money will turn bad, but I’d say that women with money will turn into Yan Dongping. How can anyone get married if they’re looking at such extreme examples?”

"Marital issues should always be analyzed on a case-by-case basis."

"If a woman works nine to five, goes to work every day, takes her child to school, picks her child up after get off work, and then goes home to buy groceries, cook, and take care of the elderly, while her husband leaves early and comes home late every day to earn money, only returning home in the middle of the night."

“At this point, it is reasonable for the man to bear 60% or more of the family expenses.”

"Switching them would be the same."

Even with heartbreaking examples like Yan Dongping, Zhang Zhe still believes that working together to build a marriage is the right thing to do.

All you can do is try to screen out those with bad intentions before marriage, otherwise even if you have all the cash in your hands, your partner can still steal money using joint debts.

That's how it is now; even if you take it to court, there's nothing you can do.

The main problem is that there are too many bad women these days.

In my family, my dad is the breadwinner, and my mom takes care of the elderly and children. We're doing alright, but my dad is too much of a chauvinist.

Actually, it's not good for couples to have too much intimacy. Earning money together and discussing how to use it is the right thing to do.

[Sigh, it's a pity there are so few girls with sound values ​​these days.]

After hearing Zhang Zhe's words, many more middle-aged women supported him.

Some of them gave birth to sons, while others came from families that followed the pattern Zhang Zhe described and knew it was the right one.

The auntie who was getting the consultation looked visibly tired after listening to the explanation.

"Matchmaker, you're right, but my daughter, alas..."

"Could I bring her over so you can give her a lesson?"

"Yes, that's fine," Teacher Wang nodded and said.

Zhang Zhe quickly nodded in agreement and pointed to the sign next to the table: "Yes, just look for Teacher Wang from Xi Xiang Feng Matchmaking Agency. Go directly to the matchmaking agency to find her when you have time."

"No way!" Teacher Wang had shot himself in the foot.

She wanted to refuse, but the older woman completely ignored her and took out her phone to add Zhang Zhe on WeChat.

Zhang Zhe wasn't stupid. He could tell from the old woman's expression that her daughter was a rich girl who probably spent all her salary every month.

Such a person does not deserve to enter into marriage.

Even if they force themselves to get married, it will be a disaster for the husband and the children.

Zhang Zhe quickly pointed to the sign next to him and asked the two volunteer ladies to help him find the Xi Xiang Feng matchmaking agency.

"Don't worry, Sister Wang, I'll definitely not take on any private jobs after I accept your payment."

"No, no, no." Teacher Wang shook her head with a wry smile: "How about we take a little bit? I'm afraid I can't handle it."

"So I'll really take it?" Zhang Zhe pretended to take out something, but Teacher Wang thought it was promotional material and quickly changed her mind: "Never mind, never mind, forget I said anything. You just say what you want, if the sky falls, let my boss handle it."

(End of this chapter)