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Chapter 134 I Didn't Plan to Eat the Childless

"As for my temper, I definitely have a good one, because my colleagues and superiors have always had a very high opinion of my interpersonal skills."

"So far, in our relationship, I'm the one who mainly provides emotional support."

"There shouldn't be any other spots, right, teacher?"

"Yes, that's about it." Zhang Zhe nodded.

Now both the man and woman's conditions are out in the open.

The man's biggest advantage lies in his prospects and future.

As long as he doesn't cause any major problems and Alibaba doesn't go bankrupt, it's almost certain that he'll earn a million-dollar annual salary by the time he's around 35.

This was deduced based on his previous learning and work experience.

The woman's biggest advantage is that she has all the necessary qualities, making her the most common denominator for most high-quality men looking for a partner.

Putting her information in a dating agency would satisfy most guys' requirements.

They are highly sought-after in the matchmaking market.

Based on the current conditions, the man is clearly in a weaker position, which is probably why the woman was in control when the two were on voice chat.

"Brother, tell me, what are you thinking?"

Zhang Zhe believed that given the other party's education and understanding, they should be able to analyze the gap between the two sides.

We'll see if he tells the truth.

"Sigh—" Before speaking, the man sighed, "To be honest, the gap is huge."

"The only difference between me and a rural man from a poor background is that my parents have made it clear that they don't need me to support them in their old age; they want to live with my sister."

"But I also know that they don't want to cause me any trouble."

"How can there be an only child who earns hundreds of thousands a year in a big city, while his parents live with his son-in-law? I feel this is quite troublesome."

"As for my girlfriend's family background, it is indeed very good, but I feel that the gap is not so large that it is insurmountable."

"If her family had 5000 million, I would have run away long ago."

"Huh?" the woman exclaimed in surprise, "You actually wanted to run away?"

“Girl, it’s not your turn yet,” Zhang Zhe reminded her. “Besides, this guy has actually hesitated for a while now.”

"Yes." The boy was very honest. He had a bright future ahead of him and would not commit marriage fraud, so he said whatever came to mind: "After hearing about her family's conditions, I hesitated that very night about whether to end the relationship."

"But I feel that breaking up directly would be bad for everyone, so I suggested finding a professional matchmaker to analyze the situation."

"Brother, I appreciate your honesty." Zhang Zhe was very satisfied with the boy's attitude.

That's what a normal person is like—rational, and not someone who only thinks about their own interests.

"Then I'll be frank with you, from the perspective of marriage and relationships, your first impression is correct."

"Should I end this relationship?" the boy asked immediately.

The girl next to him wanted to say something, but he stopped her directly: "Don't rush, let me finish talking to the teacher first."

"Teacher, is this what I mean?"

“Yes.” Zhang Zhe nodded and said, “Your personality is a bit sensitive, and your pride is too strong. You won’t be able to move up in the ranks if you’re like that.”

"Marrying a woman who is better off than you is not much different from becoming a live-in son-in-law."

"Think about it, what kind of person is suitable to be a son-in-law who lives with his wife's family?"

Zhang Zhe simply listed a few conditions: "His family doesn't need him to carry on the family line, he can accept a soft break with his parents, he needs his in-laws' help, and he has a soft personality and not a strong sense of self-esteem."

"You don't meet any of these requirements."

“Some viewers in the live stream said that you would eat this girl out of her fortune. To be honest, do you really want to endure for decades for her 1500 million yuan fortune, and then divorce her after her parents pass away?”

"At least not at this stage, right?"

"No, I don't think so." The boy smiled. "Teacher, I understand what you're saying. It's true, I'm a bit sensitive. If I get married, how will I face my in-laws?" "Yes, you still lack a bit of confidence."

Zhang Zhe's situation is actually somewhat similar to this guy's; the girl's conditions are also better than his.

Both are exam-takers from small towns, both are dating wealthy women, and both have master's degrees from 211 universities.

However, Zhang Zhe's childhood environment was significantly better, so he was less prone to feeling inferior.

"So what kind of person should I look for?" the boy continued. "I'm at the age to get married, and next year I plan to buy a talent housing unit in Lin'an, the kind with shared ownership with the government."

"Could you please analyze this for me, teacher?"

"No analyzing!" The girl finally couldn't hold back anymore and shouted, "I'm still here, why are you all talking about other women?"

"Teacher, isn't it my turn yet?"

"I have something to say, I can't hold it in anymore."

Sisters, don't they understand what they're saying?

To be honest, this guy is a good person; everything he said to Brother Zhang was correct.

Girl, you should wash up and go to bed.

Sister, you are amazing, you deserve better.

"Then you say it." Zhang Zhe said helplessly, realizing that the girl was a bit love-struck.

"Okay, what I'm about to say is very important."

"You listen too!" This was clearly said to the boy next to him, who quietly replied, "Okay, I'm listening."

“My parents said that as long as I like it, they are willing to pay for it. They will prepare a wedding house for us, and they can also take care of our children later.”

"Do you understand what your parents mean?" Zhang Zhe asked with a smile.

"what do you mean?"

“They say they’re willing to pay for your relationship, but the subtext is that they don’t approve of your relationship.” Zhang Zhe reluctantly offered his analysis for the girl: “Saying they can help you take care of the child is just a way of telling the man’s parents not to come.”

"Understand?"

This girl's parents really did their best.

[This is how parents from highly educated families are; it seems like they can't even have a conversation with the boy's parents.]

Sister, you two young people will face a lot of pressure in this kind of marriage.

The man has already said "let it go," so why are you still insisting?

"Oh, I see."

“I understand now, but I don’t think it’s important.”

The woman insisted on her point of view, and she had her reasons:
"Teacher, I know. From the perspective of matchmaking, I would definitely prefer to marry a local man from Lin'an who is a good match for my family. That would be more stable."

"But I've met a lot of people before, and none of them are as outstanding as him."

"That's nonsense. He's definitely excellent. A P7 at Alibaba isn't exactly a cash cow. But the risks associated with him are too great."

"For a stable marital relationship, the lower the risk, the better."

Do you understand this?

"I understand, but... what risks does he face? I don't see any." The woman asked doubtfully.

"Bro, should I tell her the truth?" Zhang Zhe asked the guy next to him. "Or should you tell her yourself?"

"Teacher, you can tell me. If I do, she'll think I'm just trying to fool her."

“Okay, then I’ll tell you.” Zhang Zhe organized his thoughts: “Sister, imagine a scenario first. He’s 35 years old and has been laid off. He’s looking for a job at home. His parents are sick, and your child is fighting with someone at school.”

"Can you comfort your disheartened husband, arrange for your in-laws to see a doctor, and take good care of your child at the same time?"

(End of this chapter)