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Chapter 109: Learn to Pull and Dodge When Fighting a Boss

"Haha, Brother Hui, you're so funny."

"Hehehe." Hui Zi chuckled, a hint of bitterness in his smile: "Anyway, Brother Zhang, you know my situation."

"My dad is henpecked; he's a well-known henpecked husband in Qing City."

"I guess you could call me a mama's boy."

"Don't rush to define yourself," Zhang Zhe interrupted. "Don't listen to the matchmakers or the nonsense from the women you're going on blind dates with."

"When women hear that your mother is domineering, they will label you as a mama's boy so that they can stand on the moral high ground and criticize you at will."

"Matchmakers are the same."

"Ask yourself first, has your mother arranged everything for you from childhood to adulthood, and have you relied on her for advice whenever you encounter a problem?"

"Pretty much," Hui Zi said sadly. "I feel like my upbringing was predetermined by my mother."

"I saw online that those mama's boys are like that."

"So your mom wants you to be 34 and still not married?" Zhang Zhe asked with a smile.

"No, actually, according to my mother's plan, I was supposed to marry my childhood sweetheart when I was 23."

"And then?" Zhang Zhe asked curiously, "Why didn't it work out?"

“Her father went in.” Hui Zi’s answer was concise, but also very powerful.

"So it really didn't work out. And then what happened? Your mom didn't make any more arrangements for you?"

“Yes, yes, but I really wanted to marry my first love.” Hui Zi shrugged and said, “Unfortunately, after her father went to jail, her mother took her abroad directly, and now they’re said to be in Canada.”

“Then you’re not a mama’s boy anymore,” Zhang Zhe encouraged. “You’ve fought for love until now, which definitely shows you have your own thoughts.”

"There's nothing I can do about my studies and work being arranged by my mom."

"To be honest, I also want to be arranged to do things, but unfortunately my parents were unlucky and didn't get rich even in an era when opportunities were everywhere."

It's clear that Hui Zi's inner conflict stems from the fact that he's a "mama's boy".

He even subconsciously accepted that he was the one.

Sometimes, overly domineering parents can indeed suppress a child's natural instincts. The fact that a business elite raised a child who lacks self-confidence indicates a failure in family education.

It's quite normal that Hui Zi hasn't developed her own views on marriage.

"Brother Zhang, will I still be able to get married?" Hui Zi sighed and said, "I feel like no matter what kind of person I look for now, my parents won't be satisfied."

"Nonsense," Old Bai interjected from the side, "wasn't your mom quite satisfied with the guy you found before?"

"Ah—" Hui Zi wailed, "If you say that again, I'm going to tell Brother Zhang about the scars you suffered from being cheated out of more than 347 million yuan by a woman."

"Alright, alright, we're all brothers, don't hurt each other," Zhang Zhe stopped them.

He understood that Old Bai's purpose in interrupting was to make the atmosphere less oppressive.

Hui Zi is indeed a bit too pessimistic.

His domineering mother made him feel a little suffocated.

“Brother Hui, you really only have two paths now.”

"First, continue to follow the previous criteria for finding a partner: find someone who will satisfy your mother, that is, a woman with strong resilience and a good temper."

"As long as you don't require a match in terms of economic status, it's quite easy to find a woman like that. Generally, the eldest child in a family with many children is particularly resilient."

"Is it really that easy to find?" Hui Zi expressed his doubt: "Look at those two who went to your live stream today, do you think they were being reasonable?"

“That’s because you didn’t choose the right matchmaking agency.” Zhang Zhe was very confident about this: “Leave it to me, I can help you find the kind of girl you want.”

"However, would you like to hear about another path I can show you first?"

"Yes!" Hui Zi nodded vigorously. "Of course I want it!"

"OK, then listen carefully."

“Find someone you like and start living with her. Don’t tell your mom yet.” “Get a marriage certificate secretly?” Hui Zi shook her head decisively: “No, my mom will cut off all my financial support.”

"Can't we date without getting a marriage certificate?"

A big question mark appeared above Hui Zi's head: "Can we possibly be in a relationship forever?"

"Why not?"

"Just make this clear before you start dating a girl."

“There are quite a few girls who are against marriage these days,” Zhang Zhe pointed out. “Besides, it’s not that they won’t get married for life, but rather that they’ll be pulled along, slowly pulled along with your mother.”

“You rich people should know more about this than I do.”

"No matter how domineering your mother is, as long as your girlfriend doesn't live with her, how domineering can she be? Does she expect your girlfriend to send her smelly socks by express delivery and wash them for her?"

"That's not the case, we have a nanny."

"So," Zhang Zhe explained, "the rune and item builds in the Chinese server are still too outdated. In fact, most of the rich players in foreign servers are like this."

"Especially French men."

"Of course, I still suggest you try not to engage in short-term relationships. After all, you're already this age, and I'm afraid you'll ruin your health."

When faced with domineering parents, pulling and tugging is a basic tactic.

The idea of ​​always going all in is a recipe for disaster; unless you're truly invincible, you'll often find yourself outmatched by the bigger picture.

"If you want to get married, either of these options is fine; you can choose."

"If you don't want to get married at all, then it doesn't matter. You can do whatever you want."

After listening to Zhang Zhe's words, Hui Zi pinched his chin and thought about it carefully for a long time.

He didn't make a decision until all the dishes were served:

"Brother Zhang, I choose the second one."

"I want to find a girl I like to date first, and test my mom's attitude. If she really forces me to get married, I'll threaten her to marry another man."

"Tsk tsk, listen to your attitude. And people still call you a mama's boy?" Zhang Zhe nodded and said, "No problem. Although you're a bit old, luckily you're rich."

"If you have money, then there's no problem."

"Okay, thank you, Brother Zhang." After thanking him, Hui Zi didn't get up immediately, but instead took out the flyer in his hand: "I have another question."

"Brother Zhang, isn't this statement a bit too absolute?"

Zhang Zhe looked in the direction the other person was pointing. It was a template he had found online, which read: "The following ten types of people are not accepted by our store."

Matchmaking agencies usually have this.

Matchmakers are human too. If they keep encountering unpleasant people, they'll develop mental problems over time.

Hui Zi has a question about the fifth point:

We do not accept people who want to get rich overnight through marriage or who want to marry a rich woman or man.

“Brother Zhang, all of us... are considered wealthy.”

"If you don't even cater to those who want to become rich, how are you going to match us with potential partners?"

Zhang Zhe knew what Hui Zi meant; he was reminding Zhang Zhe that this would cut off a source of income.

Wealthy men don't necessarily use matchmaking agencies to get married.

It could also be for a partner.

However, Zhang Zhe didn't plan to earn this kind of money, as it overlapped with the role of a madam, and he couldn't steal her business.

"Finding a billionaire is easy enough, isn't it?"

"Why don't you just park your luxury car in front of the art school and wait for people to ask for your WeChat? Why do you have to pay me to find it for you?"

(End of this chapter)