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Chapter 104 The Sisters Are Right

A person whose parents have a happy marriage will definitely have aspirations for marriage.

Similarly, a person who has been well raised by their parents from childhood is more likely to have a child after marriage.

Various concepts about family are naturally passed down through the family, from parents to children.

What kind of young people wouldn't want children?
"Actually, they are in similar situations to you, or their family conditions are not as good as yours."

"Think about it, if you don't want children because of your parents, then others might not want children for the same reason."

"Does that mean that if you have a happy family, you won't choose to be childless?" the woman asked with some concern. "Because I'm currently in contact with a colleague whose family seems to be quite complete, and he said he respects my decision."

I respect your decision, because I don't intend to take responsibility.

Isn't this classic short-term dating tactic? He'll respect whatever you do because he just wants to play with you.

Making him write a guarantee won't work; he can back out anytime.

Sister, if he truly loves you, make him get a vasectomy!

Post-marital sterilization is really effective, but pre-marital sterilization is out of the question.

It's hard to understand why people still insist on having children in the 21st century. What's so good about having children?

"It's normal for young people not to want to have children."

Zhang Zhe explained the audience's doubts:

"There are so many fun things to do outside now. Having a child is such a hassle. It interferes with your own eating, drinking, and having fun. And you have to spend all the money you earn on the child. Why bother?"

"But just like you can't understand yourselves when you were students."

"When people get older and their loved ones start to pass away, many people gradually change their views and can't understand why they didn't have a child earlier."

"Especially for married people who don't have children, the fact that they are willing to get married proves that they have a sense of family responsibility."

After hearing Zhang Zhe's words, the woman immediately replied:

"Teacher, I understand what you mean."

"Actually, that's what I think too. Those guys who simply say they respect my wishes have actually made it clear from the beginning that they respect my wishes now."

"What if he becomes disrespectful one day after we get married?"

"This is very troublesome," the girl sighed.

"It's good that you think this way." Zhang Zhe was satisfied with the woman's thinking, although it was a bit extreme, but the direction was right.

"What if I date someone much older than me?"

What kind of conditions can I look for?

"Have you thought it through?" Zhang Zhe didn't rush to analyze but asked in return, "Given your mother's situation, if you also find an older man, the public's opinion might not be very good."

The anchor was too restrained; if you ask me, even the mistress's child would want to be the mistress.

She can date a divorced man; it doesn't have to be a mistress who takes her place.

How can you guarantee that you're dating a divorced person, not someone in the cooling-off period after divorce? Aren't there enough women who have been cheated on?

Sister, you earn so much, why are you still looking for an older man? Why can't you be an independent woman?

"Teacher, can I answer a question from the comments?" the woman asked after seeing a comment. "I feel I need to answer the questions from the ladies."

"Uh, okay."

Zhang Zhe really wanted to tell the other person that this was Douyin (TikTok), and it was hard to find someone like her.

Those who call each other "sisters" are more likely to be sarcastic or eccentric.

Or like him, they genuinely treat each other as sisters, but he is one of the few.

"Thank you, teacher." "Just now, a sister asked me why she doesn't rely on herself when she earns an annual salary of 30."

"My pre-tax income is 30 yuan. After deducting social security and housing provident fund contributions, I only get a little over 20 yuan."

"Renting a house in Shenzhen costs 3000 yuan a month, which is just enough to make ends meet. I can't afford to buy a house, and it's impossible for me in my lifetime."

"My salary is hard-earned money from working overtime, without any skimping. If possible, I would still prefer to live a more relaxed life."

"That's so true, sister." Zhang Zhe nodded empathetically.

As a seasoned veteran, he felt the same way: money is hard to earn, and life is tough!
Every industry has its own difficulties. If given a choice, who wouldn't want to choose the easy mode?

Moreover, this girl herself is from a wealthy family in Shenzhen. Many of her classmates must be financially independent. Comparing her own scoundrel father with other people's fathers, the sense of disparity is hard to describe in words.

"But sister, you also need to understand one thing."

"If you find an older man with children and ask him not to let you have any more children, then you might have to be able to accept that the child is more important to that man than you."

"You have to take good care of the child like a nanny, and then you, as the stepmother, can be happy."

“I can do it!” the woman replied readily.

"Not necessarily. You need to think about it carefully. Being a stepmother isn't easy."

"If you have any colleagues who are stepmothers, you can ask them or interview them, and you'll know how difficult it is."

In divorce cases, men rarely win custody.

So many people don't know how tough the "profession" of being a stepmother really is.

If a child is naughty and disobedient, it's fine for the biological mother to hit them. If the stepmother dares to hit them, it's good that the child will fight back. The real problem is if they go to their grandparents or biological mother to complain. Just thinking about that makes things complicated.

Therefore, Zhang Zhe seriously suggested:
"You were born in 01, so you still have time before you turn 30."

“You really need to think this through. You’re childless by choice. If you marry an older man and then divorce him because you can’t handle the pressure, the chances of you getting married again are almost zero.”

"Hmm," the woman replied hesitantly.

This is a good sign; it shows that she is really thinking about what Zhang Zhe said.

……

After the girl left, Zhang Zhe quickly sent a message to Hui Zi, asking him to prepare to connect with the second blind date he had arranged.

Hui Zi didn't reply to his message, but instead, Liu Shao (impotent) from the group contacted him.

"Brother Zhang, Brother Zhang, I really liked that girl who's childless by choice."

“I’m not really impotent, I have azoospermia, and my condition is perfect for her.”

Could you please introduce it to me?

Perhaps because Zhang Zhe didn't reply to the message, Liu Shao directly initiated the transfer.

It's also 8800.

Zhang Zhe didn't dare accept the money.

He gave a brief reply to the other party's message:

"Young Master Liu, if you have azoospermia, just write 'azoospermia,' why did you write 'impotence'?"

"But even if you could, it wouldn't matter."

"That girl is from Shenzhen, so the chances of her marrying someone from another province are very, very small. I can ask around for you, but you'd better not get your hopes up."

Liu Shao was probably considering this matter, and immediately replied to Zhang Zhe's message:

"Why not marry out of the city? Shenzhen isn't like Beijing or Shanghai."

(End of this chapter)