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Chapter 208 Jian Yunsang's Proposal
Chapter 208 Jian Yunsang's Proposal
Ren Zhenzhen looked up, tears still clinging to the corners of her eyes, and asked blankly, "What suggestion?"
"You're worried about leaving your child with someone else, right? But if you take care of the child yourself, it will affect your sleep."
Ren Zhenzhen nodded. "I've seen many people online say that nannies and maternity nurses sometimes abuse children when they're tired from taking care of them. They might give the children medicine to make them behave. Especially at night, they won't feed the children when they're hungry, and they'll just let them cry. I can't bear the thought of my child experiencing the same thing."
Jian Yunsang nodded, "I understand. It's normal to be protective of your child. When I had just given birth to Chaochao, I wanted to keep him by my side 24/7. I felt like no one cared about him more than me."
Ren Zhenzhen seemed to have found a kindred spirit, nodding repeatedly, "Yes, yes, they take very perfunctory care of the children."
Jian Yunsang smiled and said, "But you do need to rest, right? Are you easily startled awake at night? Do you wake up as soon as the baby moves?"
"Yes."
"But actually the child is sleeping soundly and hasn't woken up at all, right?"
"Correct."
"But once you wake up, you'll touch him, feel him, see if he's too hot or too cold, if he needs to be fed, or just change his diaper. But that just wakes the baby up, right?"
Speaking of this, Ren Zhenzhen was also troubled. "Yes."
"So, you didn't actually take good care of the child at night, and instead damaged his sleep quality and ability."
Ren Zhenzhen was stunned. She... she had ruined the child's sleep quality?
So, is she the one who actually failed to take good care of the child?
"Actually, the baby is already three or four months old, so two meals at night are enough. You can hire two nannies, one for the first half of the night and one for the second half. If they only feed the baby once a day, they won't be too tired, and naturally they won't give the baby medicine or anything to get some rest, right?"
Ren Zhenzhen felt that what she said made sense, "but..." she was still hesitant.
Jian Yunsang smiled and said, "No rush. If you're worried about it at night, then we can start during the day."
"How to say?"
"If you don't trust the postpartum nanny, are you comfortable with your mother?"
Ren Zhenzhen nodded hesitantly, actually feeling a little uneasy.
"Okay, then, ask your mom to help out. During the day, after you've put the child to sleep, have your mom stay with him. Try staying outside the room, or in the next room, close to the child so you can hear anything. Then play on your phone or read a book. If you miss the child, go into the room to check on him. Gradually increase the distance and time. After the child falls asleep, go to the small living room, downstairs, or in the yard, find something to do for yourself."
Jian Yunsang is not a psychologist; she can only offer advice based on her own experience.
At the very least, let her feel at ease handing the child over to her parents or husband/mother-in-law. This is a painful process of 'separating' her from the child, but children and parents are not a whole and should be separated in the first place.
Ren Zhenzhen pondered, should she slowly widen the distance between them?
Don't you need to stay by their side day and night?
She knew she was in a bad state. She had listened to what Jian Yunsang said, but she wasn't sure if she could actually do it.
She knew that her husband and mother-in-law loved the child very much and did most things themselves, but she was always worried about them.
Just as she was hesitating, the eldest son of the Tang family rushed in.
"Zhenzhen, are you alright?"
Ren Zhenzhen looked up, tears streaming down her face again. "I'm fine."
Seeing this, Jian Yunsang quietly stood up, waved to Chaochao, and whispered, "Let's go." The mother and daughter left the small living room and slowly walked downstairs.
When He Nanzhou saw them, he came over and asked in a low voice, "I saw that my sister-in-law didn't look too good just now. She and the eldest and second sons of the Tang family went upstairs. You just came downstairs. What happened?"
Jian Yunsang looked up; it seemed that Tang's eldest sister-in-law didn't intend to make a big deal out of this.
Indeed, there are many guests today, including relatives of relatives, and even media reporters have been invited. If this matter becomes public knowledge, regardless of whether the two women's reputations are damaged, news of Ren Zhenzhen's postpartum depression will definitely spread everywhere.
Originally, her story was only circulating in a small circle, and it hadn't even been confirmed.
She's already under immense pressure; if this kind of thing gets discussed or made into the news, who knows what kind of verbal attacks she'll face.
Ren Zhenzhen couldn't withstand it.
Therefore, it is normal for the Tang family to handle this privately.
She briefly explained what had happened to He Nanzhou, who, upon hearing this, couldn't help but pat the little girl's head and say, "Chaochao is so great."
Chaochao tilted her little head back and puffed out her little chest. "I... I was actually a little scared at the time, but when I thought that someone was trying to hurt people, I rushed forward. And with my mom by my side, I was very brave."
If she hadn't encountered Jian Yunsang before rushing upstairs, Chaochao felt she might not have had the courage to confront him.
Even if we had brought Yuan Yuan along, it might still have been...
Huh? Wait, where's Yuan Yuan?
Chaochao's eyes widened suddenly. "Mom and Dad, I... I forgot about Brother Yuanyuan."
Jian Yunsang and the other person exchanged a glance. "Where is he?"
"It's under that table over there, I'll take you there." With that, he pulled the people and ran towards the corner.
But when she lifted the tablecloth, there wasn't a single person in sight.
Chaochao was so anxious she was about to cry, "It's gone, what do we do?"
He Nanzhou said, "Don't worry, this is the Tang family home. Yuanyuan spent most of his life growing up here, so he definitely won't get lost. Maybe, maybe he saw you weren't here, so he went looking for you too."
"Where will he look for me?" There are so many people here, and Brother Yuan is so small, she can't see him at all.
He Nanzhou thought for a moment, "All sorts of nooks and crannies."
Given his thought process, he'd probably search in various bushes and corners.
Thinking of this, He Nanzhou led them towards the door, "Let's go take a look in the yard."
Just as they reached the yard, they bumped into Yuanyuan, who was huffing and puffing as he ran over. He had a blade of grass on his forehead and his clothes were all wrinkled.
Upon seeing this, He Nanzhou realized that his guess was indeed correct.
When Yuanyuan saw Chaochao, she breathed a long sigh of relief. "Little sister, where did you go? Luckily, I asked the gatekeepers, and they said they hadn't seen you go out. But I even searched the doghouse, and I still couldn't find you."
Chaochao, “…” Who would go into a doghouse for no reason?
Seeing that Chaochao was alright, Yuanyuan was relieved. He held up his phone and said, "I'm telling you, I finally cracked my brother's phone password."
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