The growth system comes at the age of 30

Chapter 70: Rejecting Repressive Education

After Chen Jingle came back from running and having breakfast, he first did some personal image management as required by the system.

At this time, Chen Qiyun suddenly appeared.

"Chen...uh Le-ge!"

"What are you doing? If you have to fart, do it now!" Chen Jingle raised his eyebrows.

"First thing first." Chen Qiyun said proudly: "I have grown 1 centimeter taller!"

"Oh?"

Chen Jingle was surprised: "Is this true? It's only been a few days?"

Chen Qiyun put her hands on her hips and said unhappily, "Humph, I've been drinking two bottles of milk every day and eating three meals a day. Isn't it normal for me to grow taller? If you don't believe me, take a ruler and measure it!"

"Let me measure it. But let me make it clear first, you are not allowed to stand on tiptoe when wearing shoes." Chen Jingle pointed his finger at her.

"Of course!" Chen Qiyun was fearless.

Chen Jingle took out a tape measure from the room and asked Chen Qiyun to stand against the wall.

"Yeah, it's really 153."

"I told you it's long, but you didn't believe me, huh!"

Chen Qiyun folded her arms and turned her head away angrily. The consequences were serious.

Chen Jingle put away the ruler and laughed: "Okay, okay, I was wrong. I apologize. I'm sorry."

Don’t underestimate this 1 centimeter. For Chen Qiyun, who used to not like eating or exercising, as long as she can continue to grow, it means she will have the chance to grow to meters.

It’s definitely better than 155 or even less than 155!
"So where's the mysterious gift you mentioned earlier?"

Chen Qiyun wanted to glance at Chen Jingle from the side, but she was too short, so she could only look up, which was a bit funny.

Chen Jingle didn't care: "Why are you in such a hurry? You can't be left out."

"It's ok as long as you haven't forgotten it!"

Chen Qiyun had already prepared herself mentally. If the so-called mysterious gift did not satisfy her, she would...

Refuse to accept!!
"Then the second one, I'm doing my homework here with you today."

"Can't you just do your homework at home? Why are you coming to my place?"

Chen Jingle frowned.

Chen Qiyun said confidently: "Didn't Teacher Li ask you to help me with my homework?"

Chen Jingle rolled his eyes and was about to retort, but stopped himself.

Well, he didn't refute it at that time, which was considered as his tacit agreement.

Chen Xiuyun is married, and now he is the only one in the family who can tutor Chen Qiyun in her studies.

If you don't want to see Chen Qiyun ruined, it's better to give her some tutoring.

So Chen Jingle thought about it and said, "Okay, you do it first, and then you can take some time to explain it to me when you're done."

Chen Qiyun was surprised. She didn't expect him to agree so readily. She hesitated for two seconds and raised her chin: "Okay."

Chen Jingle asked in his mind, "System, does tutoring children's homework count as practical lessons?"

[If necessary, it can be classified into education category. 】

"Yes! I need it so much!"

Chen Jingle secretly breathed a sigh of relief.

Systematic course learning is one thing, and the other is that I am afraid that a situation will occur where Chen Qiyun doesn't know how to do it and I can't teach her, which would be embarrassing.

……

Chen Jingle arranged an old desk on the first floor for Chen Qiyun, while he himself was busy with his system knowledge study class.

You can't neglect your own tasks.

I am still continuing to learn history today. I am about to finish reading it and then I can move on to the next stage.

When he finished his work, he looked at Chen Qiyun in the room. Seeing that she was concentrating on writing the questions seriously, he nodded secretly.

"How much have you done?"

Chen Jingle walked over. Chen Qiyun took a deep breath and exhaled again: "I have finished the Chinese part, and I still have half of the English part."

Chen Jingle held out his hand: "Let me take a look at the Chinese language first, you continue with the English."

"Oh."

Chen Qiyun quickly handed him the Chinese test paper.

Chen Jingle took the test paper and looked at it, then frowned immediately.

Although I have prepared myself mentally, I still want to sigh when I see so many vacancies. It seems that the foundation is a bit poor.

I wanted to scold him, but I held myself back.

Repressive education cannot solve the problem. On the contrary, it can easily cause children to have psychological trauma, develop inferiority complex, and affect their lives.

Chen Jingle has a deep understanding of this.

Although his parents had good tempers, he lived with his grandparents since he was a child and was often scolded, so his childhood was not happy.

As for Chen Qiyun, every time she was scolded by her uncle and aunt, she would remain silent and grit her teeth. Even if her little pearls kept falling down, she kept everything in her heart and was unwilling to tell her family.

Over time, your personality will become more and more withdrawn.

Chen Jingle certainly doesn't want her to continue on the wrong path. Correct and effective communication methods are very important!

The growing environment of children today is different from that of his time.

When Chen Jingle was a child, there were very few things to entertain himself. Even if he was scolded, he would go out for a walk and do something interesting, and he would not be so sad.

However, Chen Qiyun and her friends now have too many things to play with, which is not a good thing. Their threshold of happiness has been raised too much, while their limit for accepting frustration and pain is pitifully low. If they are scolded a little harshly, they may develop psychological problems.

The best way is to guide and encourage.

Let children take the initiative and get used to using language to express their inner thoughts.

Don't keep it in your heart and let others guess.

Chen Qiyun is already showing this trend.

My second uncle and second aunt are both people with strong personalities. If they do something wrong, they will be yelled at. Even if they are wrong, they will not apologize to a child.

Chen Qiyun was afraid of saying the wrong thing at first, so she simply stopped saying anything later.

……

Chen Jingle scanned all the blank questions and after making sure there were no questions he didn't know, he said, "Stop for a moment, let's talk about Chinese."

"Oh." Chen Qiyun stopped writing and looked at Chen Jingle.

Chen Jingle spread out the test paper and placed it on the table.

"First, this is the sentence connection. The key is to understand the meaning of the words. The first half tests adjectives. Sing with full energy and vigor. Singing requires letting go of your voice. "Very joyful" describes a refreshing and happy feeling. After singing, the whole person is enjoying it. Read aloud with clear pronunciation. "Clear and loud" means standard accent and clear pronunciation, so when reading aloud, the pronunciation should be clear..."

"..."

Chen Jingle patiently explained to Chen Qiyun the ideas and key points for solving each problem, and then asked, "Do you understand?"

He would only move on to the next question after making sure Chen Qiyun understood.

If you don't understand, ask clearly what you don't understand and ask for it to be explained several times.

Knowledge usually needs to be read several times before it becomes your own.

After explaining a test paper, Chen Jingle frowned slightly: "Tell me the truth, are you really not good at these questions, or are you too lazy to think and do them when you encounter difficult questions?"

Chen Qiyun twisted her body uneasily: "Some of them I don't know, and some of them take a long time to think about. My foundation is too poor..."

Chen Jingle waved his hand: "You are only in junior high school, how bad can it be? At most, you have to make up for the six years of elementary school. If I ask you to go back and learn the knowledge in elementary school now, would you find it difficult?"

Chen Qiyun quickly shook her head.

Although her grades are average, it is still very easy for her to relearn elementary school content.

"That's it!"

Chen Jingle spread his hands and said, "You have to learn new things, and you also have to learn old things. As long as you are willing to do it, you will not have to worry about not being able to do it!"

　Chapter 2 will come later.

　　
　
(End of this chapter)