The growth system comes at the age of 30

Chapter 58 No One Understands Family Education
After dinner, Chen Jingle returned to his home.

Get ready for a nap.

Unexpectedly, my aunt followed.

"Why are you running so fast?" the aunt asked with a smile.

Chen Jingle also laughed, but he was somewhat helpless: "Are you waiting to be scolded if you don't run?"

"Your grandparents are also doing this for you..."

"stop!"

Chen Jingle's smile faded a little: "Today is a holiday, and I'm in a good mood. Let's not talk about unhappy things."

"Okay." The aunt could only sigh.

At this moment, Chen Xiuyun's voice came from outside the door: "Student Chen Jingle! Open the door! I know you are hiding inside!"

Chen Jingle went out and looked, and saw Chen Xiuyun and Lin Yaoheng.

I said, "Why are you here? The door is not locked, just push it open and come in."

Lin Yaoheng smiled and replied, "I just ate, so I just took a walk to help digest the food."

Chen Xiuyun put her hands on her hips, like a fool, and strode across the yard into the house: "Where's your snack cart? Push it out!"

"Didn't you just eat?" Chen Jingle was speechless.

"Food is food, snacks are snacks. Besides, even if you don't eat it, it's nice to look at it."

Chen Xiuyun was deeply impressed by the snack cart she saw when she came here last time and was very envious.

Chen Jingle had no choice but to push the snack cart out of the room.

“Look, he really knows how to enjoy himself!”

Chen Xiuyun said to Lin Yaoheng, "Let's make one later."

"Okay." Lin Yaoheng nodded in agreement.

Whatever my wife says is what it is.

……

"By the way, what were you talking about just now?"

Chen Xiuyun asked.

"Sister Xiu, you came at the right time. I wanted to ask for Li Wenhui."

The younger aunt was a little worried: "She is now in her third year of high school, but your uncle and I have no idea what to do in the future. You know, we don't have a high level of education, and we don't understand a lot. You college students know a lot, so please give me some advice."

Li Wenhui is my aunt’s eldest daughter.

Chen Jingle looked at Chen Xiuyun first.

Since it was a serious matter, Sister Xiu immediately became serious. After thinking for a while, she asked, "How is Wenhui's grades now? What is her ranking in the monthly mock exam for the whole grade?"

"80-100 is not very stable."

"It's OK. With this score in science, you can basically get into a top university in Jiangbei No. 985 High School. But it's more difficult to get into a 211 or 50 university. There is still more than one semester left. I should make up for the gaps and raise my score. If I can stabilize in the top 211, I can still hope to get into a university outside the province."

Chen Xiuyun attended Jiangbei No. 1 High School, so she has relatively more say.

"Can it only be done outside the province?" The aunt looked hesitant.

Chen Xiuyun nodded: "I can only say that it is more stable to apply for a volunteer outside the province. We will have to look at the specific ranking of grades at that time. When it comes to applying for a volunteer outside the province, you can actually fill in the two provinces next to us that are also in the Lingnan region. This way it won't be considered out of the province!"

"That's right." The aunt felt much more relieved.

"The key now is to improve her scores first. I remember she chose physics, chemistry and biology, right?" "Yes!"

"Has she thought about what industry or job she will pursue after graduation?"

“I just haven’t thought about it!”

The younger sister-in-law clapped her hands, looking a little distressed: "She has always been studying hard, and she never tells us anything that is on her mind."

Chen Xiuyun shook her head: "I'm afraid it's not that I don't want to tell you, but even if I tell you, you won't be able to solve it, and it will only add to your troubles. Over time, I don't want to tell you anymore."

"How do you know we can't solve it if you don't tell me?" The aunt frowned.

Chen Xiuyun smiled and said, "She probably did say that, but you didn't take it seriously. Parents think differently from their children, and everyone thinks from different angles."

"It's like when I told my mom that graduate school is tiring, she would say, 'What's so tiring about studying?'"

"Let's not talk about anything else. Boarding students at Jiangbei No. 6 Middle School all get up at 6 o'clock, arrive in the classroom at 10:10, have half an hour to eat at noon, rest for an hour, and study until 11 o'clock in the evening. Some people study until 12: or even or o'clock. Wenhui lives at home, so it's probably about the same. This high-intensity study state will continue for three years. How can she not be tired!"

"But my mother can't understand. She just thinks that it's very comfortable for you to sit indoors, away from the sun and rain, and just read a book. As for whether you can understand it, I don't know."

Sister Xiu didn't give any face at all and complained about her mother harshly in front of everyone.

A trace of embarrassment flashed across my aunt's face: "I know she studies hard, and I try to give her good food and drink every day."

"Look, look, I told you you don't understand."

Chen Xiuyun spread her hands helplessly, frowning: "In the critical stage of life such as senior year of high school, what children want is not food and drink, but spiritual companionship and encouragement. Working hard alone and having someone accompany her to work hard are two completely different things."

Chen Jingle didn't want to talk much and just drank his tea in silence.

Although my aunt has been pushing her child hard, she only started in the past two years, and she has focused more on her son Li Wenrui. In the early days of educating her daughter Li Wenhui, she didn't understand much and adopted an authoritarian and authoritative approach.

In addition, Li Wenhui spent her primary and secondary school years at her grandparents' home. It is understandable that a child who grew up in such an environment would not be close to her parents at all.

Even after I started high school, my aunt's family bought a house in the city and we lived together, which more or less made up for the loss, but the influence of my childhood was still there and it was not so easy to eliminate.

To put it bluntly, Chen Jingle feels that among all the relatives and elders around him, none of them understands family education.

The first generation thinks that as long as they have food to eat and don’t starve to death, that’s enough.

The second generation thinks that as long as they can eat well and read good books, that’s enough.

As for the third generation represented by him and Chen Xiuyun...either they don't want to get married, or they don't want to have children after getting married.

What went wrong?

……

"Don't just drink tea, say something!"

Chen Xiuyun knocked on the coffee table.

Chen Jingle put down the water cup and said, "Aunt, what are your goals for Wenhui? Short-term or long-term, tell me."

The younger sister-in-law did not hesitate: "Of course, parents hope that their children will become successful and have a better life in the future."

"Do you have any specific ideas?"

"Oh, I just don't understand, so I'm asking you."

Chen Jingle pondered for two seconds: "Getting promoted, getting rich, and studying, there must be a general direction, right? I don't think you need to be so anxious. You can discuss it with Wenhui after you go back and respect the child's own ideas. After all, it all depends on her intentions. If she is not interested in a certain profession or industry, even if you think it is good and help her choose it, it may not help her live a good life."

"I know that. We must respect her opinion. I have no idea what to do right now. I want to hear what you have to say, and then I can talk to her."

The young aunt frowned and said, "Then tell me, what exactly is this promotion, wealth, and learning?"

　I'll post one chapter first, and the second chapter is still halfway done.

　　
　
(End of this chapter)