The growth system comes at the age of 30

Chapter 208 It’s broken! The teacher is really going to become my sister-in-law! (4.5K)

"Uh, is this a local hot topic?" asked Chen Jingle.

Li Beixing smiled and said, "Yes, it's quite popular. How is it?"

Chen Jingle looked thoughtful: "It's certainly worth being happy to be recognized by everyone. After all, I'm not a saint who has no desires. But at the same time, I feel that being in the spotlight will over-expose myself, so I subconsciously resist. Tell me, is there something wrong with me?"

When he said the latter part, he couldn't help but laugh and felt a little embarrassed at the same time.

The main reason is that he has been exposed on the Internet more than once before, and the various problems it brought caused him a lot of trouble, but he just avoided talking about it.

The most obvious thing is the surge in private messages in the background.

Including but not limited to personal attacks, confessions of love, guild invitations, etc.

There is really no solution to personal attacks. After all, the world is so big, not everyone is human, and some people are just psychologically twisted.

As for courtship, if it’s just women, it’s fine, but there are still many men involved.

He even thinks it's normal for men to simply want to make friends. There are also many men who directly ask him how much per night, or offer him 100,000 yuan to stay in a certain city for a month.

The most outrageous thing is to directly post unhealthy photos.

Spicy eyes!
Although the economic environment is not good these days and many people are unemployed and unable to find jobs, and are forced to do marginal work or even go into the sea, he really can't do this kind of work.

When he started a business with others, he would never swallow his anger when he was wronged. Moreover, he is financially independent now. Do you still want him to accept the steel wool thrown by a rich woman?

are you crazy!

Then I asked him if he was interested in being a host or an artist.

These two are relatively normal.

But more people come to ask him if he is interested in being a male model.

Do you really think he doesn't know what a male model is?
Next time when you try to trick people, could you please delete the nightclub videos on your homepage first?
After being exposed, they still said “Don’t worry, we have never been caught”, damn!
After reading the private messages in the background once, Chen Jingle basically stopped reading them for fear of dirtying his eyes.

After hearing what he said, Li Beixing came out of the charming state he was in just now, thought about it seriously, and said, "From a psychological point of view, this is called a lack of identity and sense of security."

"Um?!"

Chen Jingle was slightly surprised and curious: "What do you mean?"

Li Beixing organized his words: "On the one hand, there is such a psychological need, hoping to gain recognition from the outside world through certain things, so as to improve one's self-confidence. On the other hand, our traditional culture advocates virtues such as moderation, humility, and low-keyness. The two are in conflict to a certain extent.

Then there is the shame discipline in the socialization process. Since childhood, we have been taught that "the one who sticks out gets hammered down", which to some extent suppresses the expression of self-worth. After adulthood, this sense of shame becomes more and more ingrained, but many times we have to show ourselves. All of the above have led to your contradictory psychology, which is actually normal."

Some people say that men's psychology is actually children's psychology. Although this statement is a bit one-sided and stereotyped, it is not without reason.

At least it is worth learning from and thinking about.

Although Li Beixing has no brothers and no children yet, his observations of the male classmates around him from childhood to adulthood, the courses he took in college, the work he did after graduation, and the boys in his class he came into contact with, have largely confirmed this statement.

It mainly has to do with the education men receive from childhood to adulthood.

As we all know, our education generally emphasizes that men should be strong, not cry, not show weakness, and have a sense of responsibility, etc. The lack of emotional education has inhibited their emotional development to a certain extent, leading to the relative immaturity of men in emotion.

Of course, her research in this area is limited, as she has only taken courses in educational psychology and is not a professional psychology graduate.

I feel that these are more the result of social gender discipline and are not directly equivalent to the psychological level.

Looking at Chen Jingle who was looking down at something thoughtful and a little confused, at this moment, she suddenly had the urge to hug him, and then whispered in his ear, "It's okay, it's okay."

This idea sounded a bit strange, so much so that she was a little timid and only dared to think about it but not to put it into action.

I don’t know why I suddenly feel so overwhelmed with maternal love.

However, isn't it a kind of trust that Chen Jingle shows his vulnerable side appropriately in front of her?
Thinking of this, Li Beixing felt relieved again.

……

Chen Jingle sighed: "Now that you mention it, I'm a little interested in studying psychology."

After listening to Li Beixing's words, he felt as if the clouds had parted and the blue sky was revealed.

It is true that those who are involved are often confused, while those who are not involved can see things clearly.

Although he has read a lot of books and learned a lot of new knowledge during this period, and has also gained a relatively strong physique through persistent exercise, he seems to be a little behind in terms of his spiritual core.

In fact, many times, spiritual power is far more important and more powerful than simple material power.

A truly strong person will not be frightened by the enemy's aggressiveness, will not be frustrated by setbacks that he can still endure, and will not be discouraged by certain setbacks.

Matter is indestructible, at most it can be shattered, but spirit is eternal.

Even if it is only limited immortality.

Decided!
This will be the next subject to study!

It just so happened that he was recently worried about the next new subject and had originally wanted to continue learning some new languages, but after comparison, he felt that knowledge of psychology would be more helpful to him.

Just change direction.

Li Beixing came back to his senses and said with a smile: "If you have the time and energy, you can just dabble in it. If you need help, you can always ask me. I still remember some of the course content from college."

"it is good!"

Chen Jingle nodded.

Suddenly I realized: "Oh no, I forgot there was food in the pot!"

He hurriedly opened the lid of the pot, then breathed a sigh of relief: "Thank goodness it's not burnt!"

Li Beixing smiled.

Chen Jingle turned around and smiled at her, "There's a lot of fumes in the kitchen, you can play with your phone outside for a while. I guess we'll have to wait before dinner is served."

Looking at the time, it’s almost 40 minutes, and the middle school students are only a few minutes away from school.

"Okay~!"

Li Beixing left the kitchen with a smile.

She stood alone in the living room, with her hands folded behind her back and light steps. She turned around and saw that Chen Jingle couldn't see her in the kitchen, so she let herself go and started dancing on tiptoe.

I am glad that I was able to help Chen Jingle just now.

He only jumped a few times and then stopped. After all, he didn't dare to be too presumptuous. He was afraid of being caught and felt very guilty.

Then he sat down on Chen Jingle's rocking chair, took out his cell phone, and continued to browse the comment section.

When she saw the praising comments, she felt proud, but when she saw the negative comments, her face turned dark. She wanted to curse back, but she would seem petty and uncultured, so she just blocked the comment directly.

Out of sight, out of mind. I silently curse these foul-mouthed people in my heart to fall head over heels when they get out.

Hum~!

……

Chen Qiyun came back from get out of class, humming a song and jumping around.

However, when she saw Li Beixing's car outside the yard, she was stunned and quickly ran into the yard.

Before entering the door, I saw Li Beixing sitting in the living room leisurely playing with his mobile phone and eating fruit.

"Teacher Li?!"

Chen Qiyun's eyes widened in disbelief: "Why are you here again?"

again?
You said again?
Li Beixing paused and looked at her with a half-smile: "Why? Can't I come? Or do you not want to see me?"

"No no."

Chen Qiyun was frightened and quickly shook her head and waved her hands, feeling inexplicably guilty.

hateful!

Is this the legendary bloodline suppression?

I am the great Yun Tianzun, who has never been inferior to anyone in my life. How could this happen? Could it be that the person in front of me is some super emperor who has never appeared in the world?
Chen Jingle heard the noise outside, so he poked his head out of the kitchen and said, "Wait a moment, the food will be ready soon."

"Oh!"

Chen Qiyun obediently put down her schoolbag, sat on the sofa behind Li Beixing, and looked around quietly.

Putting aside all her secondary fantasies, she muttered to herself that even if the two of them weren't together yet, it looked like they would be together soon. Otherwise, who would believe that a single man and a single woman, being together every day, didn't have something going on?
She is not an elementary school student who knows nothing!

But when it really came to this, she couldn't laugh anymore and no longer wanted to watch the fun.

I finally understood what Li Beixing meant when she said, "Even if I really become your sister-in-law, I will only be stricter with you."

Chen Qiyun had no doubt about this.

She hasn't even gotten married yet, but the blood suppression has already appeared. If she really gets married and moves in, won't she be trained like a dog?
I can’t imagine what it will be like if Li Beixing lives in Chen Jingle’s house every day in the future.

Done!

This is really a trap for oneself!

Not only do I have to face Teacher Li during class, I also have to face him after school. Maybe in the future I won’t be allowed to play with cell phones or tablets, and I will have to watch me do homework every day.

My scalp goes numb just thinking about it.

……

After all the dishes were served, Chen Jingle announced that the meal was ready!
Roasted chicken with chestnuts, typhoon shelter prawns, stir-fried beef with green onions, fish-flavored eggplant casserole, plus the indispensable green vegetables, salted Chinese cabbage, and the yam, cordyceps and chicken soup that has two functions in one.

"Why is the meal so rich today?" Chen Qiyun asked curiously.

In addition to the delicious meals mentioned above, they even opened a bottle of coconut milk, making it like a festival.

She couldn't help but look at Li Beixing, and wondered in her heart, could this be specially prepared for Teacher Li?

You have to know that you can't eat such sumptuous meals at home.

Even more sumptuous than the last time Teacher Li came!
The gap is really obvious, Chen Jingle, you are a guy who forgets his principles for the sake of beauty!
Aren’t you afraid that I will beat your son in the future?
"Your brother rushed to the sea to save people that day. Later, he was awarded a certificate for bravery."

Li Beixing smiled and rushed to help explain.

"Really?!" Chen Qiyun widened her eyes and forgot all the complaints she had just made.

Chen Jingle nodded: "Yeah, so we decided to celebrate."

"Not bad, not bad, it's time to celebrate!"

Chen Qiyun was also proud of it. After all, she was there to witness the whole process. Although she was not directly involved, as a witness, and her own eldest brother, wasn't it natural for her to feel happy?

She suddenly felt heroic and raised the disposable paper cup filled with coconut milk in front of her: "Come on, let's cheer for Comrade Chen Jingle. Cheers!"

Chen Jingle: “…” Speechless.

Li Beixing chuckled, but also picked up the cup: "Well, come on, cheers~!"

Seeing this, Chen Jingle had no choice but to follow suit and pick up the cup. But after finishing a glass of drink, he smiled with relief again.

It's a good thing to be a role model for the little ones, why bother with so much!

"Okay, pick up your chopsticks!"

He put a lot of thought into today's lunch.

Li Beixing, on the other hand, had already been impatient, but due to his face and habit, he did not show his impatience.

She has gradually become accustomed to the taste of Chen Jingle's food, and whenever she tries the food cooked by Aunt Wang at home, she always subconsciously compares it with the other food and feels that it is not quite as good.

As for the food outside, there is no need to mention it.

Therefore, wanting to eat food cooked by Chen Jingle every day has become a very important, or even the most important goal at the moment.

She is very aware of this and is determined to work towards this goal!
As for how to work harder next...

She has already thought about it.

Humph, take it, Chen Jingle!
……

The video of Chen Jingle's brave act was widely circulated, even some of his relatives saw it.

Once they get it, it basically means that all their relatives have got it.

Not surprisingly, my parents called back to ask what happened.

Chen Jingle is the only child in the family, so naturally no accidents can happen to him.

Chen Jingle had to explain patiently: "It's actually a small matter, not dangerous. I just threw the lifebuoy over, let her grab it and pull her back. The tide has receded. It's just that they think I have a good image and asked me to cooperate with the promotion. Change? Your son now goes to bed early and gets up early every day and exercises regularly. Isn't it normal for him to have changes? Plus, the cameras now have more or less beautification effects. Don't worry, it's really okay! Well, I will pay attention next time..."

After hearing his explanation, my parents finally felt relieved.

For the parents, it was a great honor for their son to be commended by the municipal government. He also received a bonus.

At their age, they basically place all their hopes on their sons and grandchildren.

Chen Jingle has been their pride since he was a child. Although he has not been able to settle down in a big city, there is nothing wrong with returning to his hometown. Now he has no worries about food and clothing. If he has to say what he regrets, it is undoubtedly the marriage.

However, they also knew that Chen Jingle didn't like to hear them talk about this topic, so they simply stopped talking about it.

As for the big family group, those relatives forwarded the video to the group and tagged him...

Chen Jingle thought about what Li Beixing said in the morning, about the lack of sense of identity and security, and this time he felt much calmer.

He is trying his best to use his subjective initiative to eliminate that awkward feeling of shame.

What really matters in whether something can be done well is the determination to succeed and the right goal.

in the afternoon,

Chen Jingle began to study psychology-related courses.

Just do it!

Psychology is a very broad concept. From the professional introduction, psychology mainly studies human psychological phenomena and the mental functions and behavioral activities under their influence. It involves many fields such as perception, cognition, emotion, thinking, personality, behavioral habits, interpersonal relationships, social relationships, etc. It is also related to many areas of daily life such as family, education, health, and society.

It mainly describes, explains and predicts people's psychological activities by observing their behavior and expressions.

In addition, psychology is also related to disciplines such as neuroscience, medicine, philosophy, biology, and religion, because the physiological or psychological effects explored in these disciplines will affect the individual's mind.

For example, common depression and bipolar disorder seem to be psychological illnesses, but in fact they already fall into the category of mental illness.

Chen Jingle is currently reading "Psychology and Life".

This textbook is a basic compulsory course in several domestic colleges and universities that have been rated A+ in the psychology subject assessment.

There are also "History and Schools of Psychology", "General Psychology", "Social Psychology", etc., which are all on his next reading list.

Just learn it, just learn it!

The sea of learning is endless and the journey is hard!
Now, after undergoing systematic strengthening, his brain is much more useful than before. He can basically remember the content of the textbook after reading it once or twice. Is there anything happier than this?
He could barely reach this threshold when he was 16 years old and at the peak of his intelligence.

Now take it easy.

……

The two-hour study session passed quickly.

Just as Chen Jingle stretched and was about to do a little exercise before cooking, Li Beixing sent a message.

"Do you usually listen to Deng Shiying's songs?"

Chen Jingle didn't understand, but still replied: "Hmm, Bubble? Light Years Away? Where did U go? I have heard of some of the popular songs."

He is not a fan of celebrities, he just listens to music. He doesn't even listen to it very often. He is not a music enthusiast. He just listens to music when he has free time.

Li Beixing said, "She's coming to Jiangbei for a concert. I got two tickets. Do you want to go and see her?"

concert?
Chen Jingle was stunned and fell into thought. It seemed to be true. He had seen it on Douyin before.

(End of this chapter)