Iron Snow Clouds

Chapter 1074 (One Thousand and Seventy Four) Invasion
The reason why Wu Xunsheng had such worries was because the Tiecang tribe had a custom - after getting married, if the two married people did not formally recognize each other's parents as the "father" and "mother", the two married people were absolutely not allowed to live in each other's parents' home and live with each other's parents.

In the Tiecang tribe, if after marriage one does not acknowledge the other party's parents as "father" and "mother" but lives in the other party's parents' home and with them, it will be regarded as a serious disturbance of the other party's parents' private space, an intrusion into the other party's parents' normal life, and extreme disrespect or even an insult to the other party's parents.

In the Tiecang tribe, most parents whose children are married cannot accept their children's spouses living with them. Most of them cannot stand letting a stranger invade their own small space just because their children are married.

In the Tiecang tribe, if one of the married couple returns to his or her parents' home to live for a period of time, then the married child must temporarily separate from his or her spouse during that period of time.

Of course, there are a very small number of parents who do not mind their children's spouse living with them in their own small home. If at this time, their children's spouse also likes to live with them in their own home, that is, everyone is willing, then their children's spouse must first hold a ceremony to recognize themselves as the "father" or "mother". After the recognition, even if their children's spouse lives with them in their own home, it will not be regarded as an intrusion into their small home.

Hearing Wu Xunsheng's question, Tie Hongyan smiled and asked, "Are you very reluctant to worship my father as your 'father'?"

Wu Xunsheng nodded without thinking too much. However, after nodding several times, he didn't want Tie Hongyan to think that he was not satisfied with Tie Wandao, so he quickly said to Tie Hongyan: "Let me give you an analogy. Let's not talk about the matter of recognizing the father and the mother. If you are an ordinary person, if in the tribe you live in, as long as you marry someone, according to the customs of that tribe, the other person's parents will be designated as your parents, and you don't even have the room to choose whether to let them be your parents, it is mandatory. Would you feel uncomfortable in this situation?"

Tie Hongyan laughed and said, "Do I even need to ask this? If I can't choose, of course I'll feel uncomfortable! How can you force someone to be their parents? My parents are the ones who gave birth to me and raised me. Even if they didn't do both, at least they either gave birth to me or raised me. How can their identities be forcibly designated? If I marry someone whose parents neither gave birth to me nor raised me, and I have no choice but to agree, then that's ridiculous, isn't it? You said let's not talk about recognizing the 'father' or 'mother' first, but I still want to say that unless I have a special relationship with the other party's parents, and I have the choice and am not forced, I am willing to recognize the other party's parents as my 'father' or 'mother'. Otherwise, forcing me to be designated my parents just because I'm getting married is a pure joke, and a disgusting joke at that."

(End of this chapter)