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Chinese people value subtlety.

Qin Huairu was no exception.

Although she had discussed the plan with Jia Zhangshi, she still wanted to maintain her composure.

A week later, I finally found an opportunity to discuss it with Tang Yanling.

Tang Yanling sat there impatiently: "What do you want from me?"

Qin Huairu's gaze towards Tang Yanling at this moment carried a hint of resentment.

In her eyes, Tang Yanling was no longer Bang Geng's wife, but a tool for the Jia family to make a living.

Tang Yanling is the next one.

At this moment, Qin Huai had a deeper understanding of Jia Zhangshi.

She finally understood why Jia Zhangshi had tormented her so much.

No one would feel good having a daughter-in-law who is unfaithful.

"I want to discuss with you the matter of getting an IUD inserted at the hospital."

"IUD? What kind of IUD?" Tang Yanling was a little confused and didn't think about sterilization.

Because of the one-child policy, IUD insertion is quite common.

However, very few mothers-in-law would proactively encourage their daughters-in-law to get an IUD.

Qin Huai said, "What kind of IUD are you talking about? You and Bang Geng have a child, so according to the rules you can't have a second one."

"What if you get pregnant if you don't use an IUD?"

Tang Yanling finally realized what was happening, and a thought crossed her mind.

She got pregnant by accident.

Because she had a child, her family kicked her out, leaving her with no choice but to stay in the Jia family.

Tang Yanling didn't want to experience something like that a second time.

Qin Huairu's suggestion indirectly helped her.

However, Tang Yanling was a little curious. Why would Qin Huairu say something like this?

"You mean this? Just make sure your son doesn't touch me, that'll solve the problem."

Qin Huairu's opinion of Tang Yanling changed.

The same words can have different meanings depending on one's perspective.

Listening to Tang Yanling's words, Qin Huairu thought to herself, "If you don't let Banggeng touch you, doesn't that mean the child is definitely not Banggeng's?"

What will others think of the Jia family if they find out?

Qin Huairu recalled that no matter what she did outside, she would never get pregnant with another man's child.

She immediately labeled Tang Yanling as shameless.

"If you won't let the pheasant touch you, then who do you want to touch you?"

Upon hearing this, Tang Yanling was furious: "What do you mean?"
I'm a daughter from a good family; I wouldn't do anything shameless.

You call yourself a mother-in-law? How can you view your daughter-in-law like this?

When Banggeng comes back, I'll definitely have a good talk with him.

Qin Huairu gave a cold laugh, expressing her thoughts.

She didn't know what Tang Yanling was like in the past, but she knew what Tang Yanling would be like in the future.

"What are you saying? You think I don't know that you've been blocking Xu Damao in the yard every day?"

Tang Yanling felt a little guilty, but stubbornly said, "What's wrong with me blocking Uncle Xu?"
I contacted Uncle Xu to look for a job.

Look at your aunt, she's made so much money following Uncle Xu.

I blocked Uncle Xu because you guys offended someone.

Go out and see how other people get along with their neighbors.

In a family, if one person gets rich, they will bring others along to get rich too.

What about our courtyard?
You've offended everyone.

Whoever has the ability, you offend; whoever has the money, you offend.

I just don't understand what you guys are trying to do.

"You've offended everyone stronger than you, so now no one is stronger than you, right?"

The more she spoke, the louder Tang Yanling's voice became.

The smell spread from inside the house to outside.

As soon as Yi Zhonghai came out of the house, he heard Tang Yanling's kind words.

He was immediately furious.

What does it mean to offend whoever has the ability?

Did they offend someone?
It's clearly those people who don't know how to respect the elderly.

Yi Zhonghai wouldn't allow this kind of thinking to spread in the courtyard, so he went to the Jia family to stop it.

Suddenly, Jia Zhangshi came out of the house and blocked Yi Zhonghai's way.

"Zhonghai, go back."

“Sister-in-law…” Yi Zhonghai said unhappily. Jia Zhangshi asked sternly, “What did you call me?”

Yi Zhonghai blushed as he looked at Jia Zhangshi.

After a long while, she reluctantly called out "Mom".

Respecting and caring for the elderly is a red line for Yi Zhonghai, and he cannot lead the way in violating it.

If he doesn't abide by this red line, how can he expect others to?

Yi Zhonghai reluctantly called out "Mom".

Yi Zhonghai now truly regrets marrying Qin Huairu back then.

Marrying Qin Huairu meant he truly became family with her, and he could rightfully expect her to support him in his old age.

However, he was also completely bound by the Jia family. He couldn't stand on moral high ground and condemn the Jia family.

Madam Jia snorted: "Huai Ru and Yan Ling are talking to each other."

What are you, a grown man, going there for?
"Can't you see I'm not going in?"

Yi Zhonghai said, feeling aggrieved, "Listen to what she said."

What is the most important thing in being a person?
It is filial piety.

As the old saying goes, of all virtues, filial piety is the most important.

No matter how much money a person has, it's useless if they are not filial.

In the past, those who were not filial to their parents were not allowed to become officials.

When Jia Zhangshi saw that someone was looking in their direction, she didn't want to make a big fuss, so she could only try to appease Yi Zhonghai.

"I know everything you're saying. Isn't Huairu inside trying to persuade Yanling?"
It's always the mother-in-law who teaches the daughter-in-law; it's unheard of for the father-in-law to cause trouble for his daughter-in-law.

Jia Zhangshi added to herself, "My father-in-law isn't a proper father-in-law."

Yi Zhonghai felt even more aggrieved.

He wanted to teach his son, but he also needed a son.

Bang Geng, his stepson, doesn't listen to him.

However, what Jia Zhangshi said makes sense.

A mother-in-law can criticize her daughter-in-law, but a father-in-law cannot.

He really had no reason to go in and teach Tang Yanling.

If he really goes in, who knows what people will say about him behind his back.

Unable to go inside, Yi Zhonghai could only offer reminders from outside.

"I'm not going in. I'll just talk to Huairu outside for a bit."

The most important thing in being a person is morality, and the most important aspect of morality is filial piety.

As human beings, we should never forget to be filial.

If a person is not filial, what is the difference between him and a beast?

Huairu, I've always told you to be good to your sister-in-law and to your mother.

Why do I say that?

Because you are not filial to your mother today, Bang Geng has seen it all. When you get old, he will learn from you.

I've always said that we should learn from good role models, not bad ones.

You saw that Sha Zhu and Xu Damao made money.

But why don't you look at how they make money?

Neither of these two people lived with their parents.

Do you all not understand what they mean?
They've become rich and no longer respect their parents.

They said they were paying someone to take care of their parents.

But why don't they think about what parents need?

I'm putting it this way: when they get old, their children will learn from them.

These are words that Yi Zhonghai has wanted to say for a long time.

Since the news of He Yuzhu's fortune spread back to the courtyard.

The way everyone in the courtyard looked at He Yuzhu changed.

Many people, though they don't say it, secretly want to learn from He Yuzhu.

This idea reached its peak after Xu Damao also made a fortune.

Yi Zhonghai saw this and was deeply concerned. He wanted to correct this dangerous mindset.

But no one in the courtyard listened to him, and he couldn't find an opportunity.

Hearing Tang Yanling's words today, he sensed danger.

Yi Zhonghai decided to speak these words to remind the elderly people in the nursing home.

He originally wanted to use Yan Bugui as an example, but he didn't bring it up for fear of offending Yan Bugui.

Those watching the spectacle seemed to ponder Yi Zhonghai's words.

Yi Zhonghai's words, though driven by personal motives, still held some truth. (End of Chapter)