I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Woman: "Brother, actually his father and I beat him with a charging cable last time. It was a pretty good beating."

Lin Feng waved his hand and said, "Listen to me, sister-in-law. Unless he is born with an antisocial personality, he is a bad seed.
Apart from those born bad, to be honest, most of them are deeply influenced by their parents.”

The woman is silent.

Raymond Lam: "If you only know how to beat him, then he will simply deal with the problem.
Anyway, no matter what, if I want to do something, I will do it, just like you can hit me if you want to.

A truth. "

The woman nodded: "Yes, we parents have a responsibility as well."

Lin Feng: "Let me ask, his grades shouldn't be that good right now, right?"

Woman: "His grades are pretty good. He was in the top 10 in the class in the final exam last month. He's not stupid. He has a very active brain."

Lin Feng: "High IQ criminals are even more doomed."

Uh. .

Lin Feng: "Think about it, he's smart, good at studying, but he's a fucking pervert.
This is not the Holy Communion of Labor Reform.
This is the fucking holy body of the gun. From now on, I will definitely have to eat peanuts after wearing the yellow jacket."

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"Good brain, but a fucking pervert, hahahaha."

"I'm a high-IQ criminal (grin)."

"This kind of mobile phone data cable is useless, let's change it to a battery car charging cable (laughing and crying)."

"Just make him spin like a top (sunglasses)."

Hahahaha
"Brother, the rebellious kid."

"Really? I thought this kind of super-male complex only existed in novels, but I didn't expect it to exist in real life (laughing to death)."

"Is it to protect the pregnancy?"

Take the bamboo shoots!

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

The woman was anxious: "What should I do?"

Lin Feng: "First of all, parents must strictly supervise and restrict their children, and spend more time with them.

Because a gentleman is cautious when alone.

The ancients said that a person should never be alone.

Because no matter what, people are not saints. When they are alone, they tend to think bad thoughts and do bad things.

However, when there are many people around, parents can restrain their children's behavior when supervising them.

Second, when he grows up a little, send him to the army.

It's a melting pot, and you can still train yourself.

Just as the ancients said, the water of the Yangtze River is clear, while the water of the Yellow River is turbid.

As the old saying goes, when a sage appears, the Yellow River becomes clear.

But when has the Yellow River ever been clear?
Therefore, during the Ming Dynasty, Hai Rui advised Emperor Jiajing in his memorials to the emperor to use only the Yangtze River and abandon the Yellow River.

But what did Jiajing say?
Is it possible for me?

The water from the Yangtze River irrigates the fields of several provinces on both sides of the river, and the water from the Yellow River also irrigates the fields of several provinces on both sides of the river.

Do not use it because the water is clear, and do not discard it because the water is turbid.

It has been like this since ancient times.

Hai Rui, you don't understand this principle.

To put it bluntly, the water from the Yangtze River is clear and can be used, but the water from the Yellow River is yellow and cannot be used?

The same principle applies to your son: good people are useful, and bad people are also useful.

Because in peacetime, if you release a bad person into society, he will be a scum and may very likely harm society.

But the effect will be different if it is sent to difficult areas.

Just like many generals in ancient times, they are not good people at heart. If they are placed in society, they are scum and a danger to society.

But if you put him in a military area, for example, to our northern Longyin border,

These are the places where conflicts often occur.
He has a tendency to be violent and a bit perverted. He might have gotten addicted to fighting.

This kind of person actually has his role to play, fighting evil with evil."

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On the barrage

"Send the troops (thumbs up)."

"Yes, go guard the border."

"Don't use water because it's clear, and don't discard water because it's turbid. Good people are useful, and bad people are also useful. That's a good saying!"

"Hai Rui was really taught a lesson. I guess Hai Rui didn't expect Jiajing to be so smart (laughing to death)."

"In terms of intelligence alone, Jiajing is definitely the smartest among all the emperors. He was originally an idle prince with nothing to do. He loved reading and finished reading all the books he could find when he was a teenager."

"She is so smart, but it's a pity that she doesn't go to court. She only knows how to gain enlightenment, what's the use of that (laughing and crying)."

"I was scared. There were fires everywhere I went. I was almost killed by a palace maid (grin)."

Clicked
Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Lin Feng: "Emperor Wu of Han also said that no one likes cruel officials. I don't like cruel officials either, but there are always people who have to do things. It's the same principle."

Woman: "Brother, do you have any other good suggestions?"

Lin Feng glanced at the screen and said calmly: "If the regulators are unwilling to supervise, just go to Zhuanzhuan to recycle it."

Uh. .

Lin Feng said angrily: "This is my last resort. If you don't listen, I have no choice but to take you for circumcision.

At least he was honest after the mowing was done.

But one thing is, if you cut 1cm each time, three times a year, it will keep the skin healthy for several years."

woman:. . .

. . . . .

On the barrage

"Circumcision, hahahaha."

"Brother is really an idea king, hahaha."

"One centimeter each time, three times a year, and finally it was all gone (laughing and crying)."

"The traditional way of cutting is to cut directly with scissors without anesthesia (sunglasses)."

Damn, that’s cruel!

"My suggestion is to go to Zhuanzhuan to recycle (the dog head)."

puff~
Hahahahaha.

. . . . .

Lin Feng: "Sister-in-law, I've said all the tricks, but you can't do this. Don't buy a sewing machine for your family in the future."

Woman: "But our current situation is like this. My husband drives for Didi and I work in a factory. We are both struggling on our own and we don't have any help from our parents."

stop stop stop!
Lin Feng waved his hand and interrupted: "Sister-in-law, what is the purpose of your so-called busy work?

If this kid really gets into trouble and is sent to labor reform, what's the point of you two working so hard driving for Didi and working so hard?

This child is ruined.

Let me tell you, in terms of human nature, many people are inferior.

Just as Confucius originally said that human nature is good, Xunzi later said that human nature is evil.

These two theories may seem contradictory, but in essence they both advocate the power of education.

Confucius said that when people are born, their nature is good. Habits make them similar, but their natures become different. If there is no request, their natures will change.

What this means is that if you don't educate him, his originally good character will gradually turn into his evil nature.

For example, I was very cute and kind when I was a child, but because my parents did not educate or guide me, I gradually became lazy and greedy.

Then the child's character becomes inferior.

The same is true of Xunzi's theory of human nature being evil, which is also a force that advocates education.

When we were young, we didn’t know about life and death, good and evil. To me, pinching a bird to death or pinching an ant to death were the same.

Because I have no reverence for life.

Then only parents can tell him what is right and what is wrong.

Only if you tell him and educate him, he will know that birds and ants feel pain, too.
Only then did he know how to respect life and what was right and what was wrong.

Therefore, children are born to be taught, accompanied and guided.”

. . . . .

On the barrage

"Brother is right. No matter whether children are good or evil, they must be educated. This parent has a big problem."

"Is the kid's father like this too (laughing and crying)."

"Every family member needs electric (sunglasses)."

"Leave it to me, 1 sticks per second (dog head)."

Hahahahaha.

Lin Feng: "He has more evil thoughts now. This person has a bad character. If he is left alone, he may do more evil things and make more mistakes.

On the contrary, parents can temporarily suppress his evil thoughts and keep him in a good state by supervising and accompanying him.
Even through long-term teaching by words and deeds, and the influence of what he sees and hears, he may establish certain moral concepts and moral concepts.

After all, many juvenile criminals actually have a notable characteristic, which is that they must have lacked parental companionship in their childhood.

If no one teaches him, then how can he know what is good and evil, what is right and wrong,
He simply thought it was fun.

For example, a few kids are playing on the street and they meet a kid who is weaker than them. They say, "Hey, let's beat him up for fun." Then they really go up and beat the kid.

After the beating, is it evil? Yes, it is evil.

But you said they stood there, as if they didn't know they were doing anything wrong, they just wanted to play.

I was really punished, and I started to cry again.
The bottom line is that no one taught me.

Just like the three demons who buried their classmates in a pit,
In fact, their parents are more hateful than those children.

Now that your child hasn't done anything more serious, I asked you to supervise him more and spend more time with him, but you told me that you were busy at work.

What's going on?

If you continue like this, I will call the police, sister-in-law.

Who did the little girl offend? It will be a shadow on her life."

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On the barrage

"The solution given by my eldest brother is very good. Your child is already very bad, okay?"

"This parent is speechless."

"When parents commit adultery, their children will become like this. The Ksitigarbha Sutra says so."

"The little girl remembers it, it really is a lifelong shadow (tears)."

"Look at the movie 'The Accidental Murder'. If he recruited my daughter, I would really slap him (angry)."

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: "Before he makes a big mistake, there is still a chance to correct him.

Just like many people on the Internet when they were young, even in my live broadcast room, there are those who act like saints online,

But in fact, when they were young, among their generation, he was a scumbag.
He also bullies others and beats them up.
But it does not prevent him from becoming a good person after he grows up and changes.

Therefore, the most important thing for children is education. You have to guide them on how to improve themselves.

The ancients said that a gentleman is like jade and has a reserved temperament.

We need to continue to experience it, so that he can slowly break free from his bad nature, become docile, and have noble character.

This process is like the mountain material. It was originally covered with rocks on the outside and a piece of jade on the inside.
Because it fell into the river, the river water constantly washed and cleaned it, and slowly the rock parts were knocked away, leaving only the jade parts.

The same goes for people, we just need to guide and educate them slowly.

Don’t talk about how hard it is. If you really can’t control it, if the child is really ruined, then all your so-called efforts and hard work are meaningless.”

. . . . .

On the barrage

"The cold light is restrained, and the gentleman is like jade (thumbs-up)."

"I really like your guidance from classics, big brother. It is very helpful."

"Most mothers would want to cry if they heard their children would be sent to labor camps, but she was quite calm (grin)."

"Maybe she still feels like a child and thinks her elder brother is exaggerating."

“It’s really big.”

"Yes, children are now grown up. My son knew at the age of 5 that he should not show his private toilet to others."

. . . . . .

Woman: "Actually, I was thinking about this today. If I want to be with you, one person's salary may not be enough to support it..."

Lin Feng raised his hand to interrupt: "Okay, I'm done."

Woman: "No, no, just listen to me for a moment..."

I don't want to listen.

Go down, you!

Lin Feng kicked the woman off the microphone.

. . . . .

On the barrage

"The child is useless and you're still thinking about money (grin)."

"Brother has explained it so clearly but she still doesn't understand!"

"It doesn't matter how many children such parents have!"

Impressed!

. . . . .

Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette, paused for a while, and then said to the live broadcast room: "You said you are tired and busy at work, and you left your son outside, so what did the girl do wrong?
I just looked at the backstage and someone said that he lives in the same community with you and knows the girl, and said that the girl has autism.

If this is true, then your son is truly horrible.

Because he doesn't dare to harm normal girls. He is a typical selective criminal.

Sister-in-law, I really want to call the police."

. . . . .

On the barrage

"And he knows not to bully normal people (grin)."

"How despicable, picking on an autistic girl (angry)."

"Oh my god, they're targeting people with autism. I'm a special education teacher and I can't listen to it at all (tears)."

"Selective crime, damn, so scary!"

"It's no use cutting it, just peel it."

stand by!

. . . . .

Lin Feng: "Sister-in-law, hard work is not an excuse, who asked you to give birth to me?
Since you are asking questions about education online, don't mention how hard you work.

Because they are two completely unrelated things.

Do you think his criminal behavior has anything to do with the difficulties in your life?
If you don't understand this, it will be useless no matter how much I say to you.

I can even imagine that even when you were beating him with the mobile phone data cable, you must have been saying how difficult it is to be a parent and how much you have contributed to this family.

But does this have anything to do with children committing crimes?

It's irrelevant.

These are two different things.

I just don’t understand why you parents always tell your children that life is not easy.

What normal people should think is, for example, if I can’t afford the cost, then I will wait a while.

In short, the pressure of my debt has nothing to do with my children.

There are rich people and there are rich people’s teaching methods.

There are teaching methods that suit people without money.

If you educate your children under the pretext of doing it for their own good and working hard for them,

So what thoughts will arise in the child’s mind?

He will think that you are venting your anger and letting your emotions out.

You beat him not because he did anything wrong, but because you are taking your anger out on him.

He will fall into a wrong perception.

He even wants to use this kind of thing to confront you!

If a crime is committed, say that crime is wrong; if a lie is told, say that lying is wrong.

Let me just stick to this point.

Children can learn from this.

If you keep complaining to your children about how hard you work, you are actually confusing two things.

Do you think your children will understand you?
Actually not.

So first of all, parents must understand clearly that their child doing something bad today is different from you working hard outside.

These two things are unrelated and must be separated.”

. . . . .

On the barrage

"Brother is right. Beating is just a way to vent your anger."

“I really don’t understand why some parents always tell their children how hard they work. It doesn’t make sense. (grin)”

"That's right, your difficulties are not caused by your children. If you have children, you drive Didi, but if you don't have children, it's as if you can drive a BMW. (Laughing to death)"

"So when educating children, you should deal with the matter at hand, not take your anger out on them!"

"I suddenly thought of a possibility. If the child thinks the same way as his parents, the result is that the child will not think he did anything wrong, but that the girl was wrong to complain. He will resent the girl and do something even more horrible."

Oh my god,

Suddenly I resonated with the perverted logic... (End of this chapter)