I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Girl: "Then I have one last question, which may be a little dialectical and complicated. What do you think love is?"

Lin Feng quickly wrote a few words on the blackboard: "Love is exclusive, dedicated, and proactive.

What does that mean?

For example, outside, I am a very strong and principled person, but in front of her, I overturn my principles and bottom line.

I'm willing to be a little softer for her.

For example, I may not be a person who is good at sharing. I may not have two words to say outside all day, but because she is the one I love,

I will share my daily life and everything about me with him every day.

I wanted him to understand me.

Or maybe I am a person who values ​​material foundation. Maybe I need to have certain material conditions to treat everyone I meet. But because I met her,
I think it doesn’t matter if we are both poor and we just give it a try.

If it were him, I would be willing to live this hard life, it doesn't matter.

This is initiative.

The second exclusivity is that I will reject her both psychologically and physically.
Even when other people of the opposite sex approach me, I find them disgusting.

I only have this one person in my heart. As long as he is there, no one else can enter my heart. This is called exclusivity.

Dedication means that if I know there is a chance for her to give birth, I will definitely give up my life to help her, and I will definitely give her all my love and care.

So love is not a question of dialectics or not.

But you always put yourself on the high platform of pure love,
After all, your emotions are fragile.”

. . . . .

On the barrage

“Love is exclusive, devoted, and proactive (heart).”

"Wow, it suddenly became clear."

"Very good, I agree with what I said to Big Brother (dog head)."

You fuck,
Hahahaha.

"This time, big brother talked about love thoroughly (thumbs-up)."

"I understand. Love is the person who allows you to break all the limits."

“So the standard is to give it to people who don’t love (sunglasses).”

What the hell!

Heartbroken.

. . . . . .

Girl: "That's because we had a big argument tonight. Otherwise, I wouldn't have contacted you."

Lin Feng: "Look, you are here again. Good and bad are all said by you.

I don't know your boyfriend, I gave the answer based on what you said, and you refuted me after I said it."

Girl: "I don't. I understand what you mean. So based on your judgment, what do you think I should do now?"

Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette and said, "You can do whatever you want. It's your freedom.

If you ask me, from my perspective, I will slowly distance myself from you.

Because I think a lot of things will be confirmed in the process of alienation.

For example, if I distance myself from him and he distances himself from me, and we gradually stop contacting each other, then I would say that this relationship has actually died a long time ago.

Well, if the other party is willing to make an effort and show sincerity, and of course the time has to be long enough, then I think you can try again.

Because I said, I have never doubted your love for him. I think as long as the other party takes the initiative, you can still continue this relationship.

But the prerequisite is whether the other party has this attitude, which is very important. Whether you can persist for a long time is also a key.

I can't just coax you back.

If you don’t even dare to do this, then this relationship is already on the verge of death.”

Girl: "It's like this actually. I've been through a lot of relationships. I'm already 33 years old. Whether I like someone else or someone likes me, there have been many, many relationships, so I still have some judgment on people.

So I was a little hesitant to contact you today.

But I have been following you for a long time, and I think you are the only one who can give me correct guidance.

We have been together for a year and a half, which is the longest relationship I have ever been in.”

Raymond Lam: "Look at you, you've been in so many relationships, and the longest one only lasted a year and a half.
To be honest, a year and a half is far from enough to get to know a person.

Because it was only a year and a half when the enthusiasm just faded away.

Really sister, one and a half years is too short to earn money.
After all, the relationship has just deteriorated.

Anyway, I told you, distance yourself from him a little bit. If you don’t even dare to do this, your feelings would have disappeared long ago.

Just leave it to time.

If he loves you, you can distance yourself from him a little bit, and he will be able to persist in giving back to you for a long time. He will be able to take the initiative to give, and slowly you can bring the relationship back to an equal position.

That's the only way to continue, do you understand?"

Girl: "Because since I started college, I have always been a career-oriented person. I don't date for very long. I will quickly find something I don't like about a person and then end the relationship quickly."

Raymond Lam: "So, you have had many relationships, but you have never had a quality relationship.
You said that when you discover shortcomings in others, you will quickly break up.

But to be honest, if I really love him and I really like him, a lot of things can be worked out.

If you abandon him after discovering his flaws, it actually means you just like him, not love him.

And if you have a lot of low-quality relationships, you will eventually lower your own relationship standards.

Because once the novelty wears off, people will be gone.”

Girl: "Can I ask how you found your true love?"

Raymond Lam: "First of all, I haven't encountered it yet, and secondly, it's the three sexes I mentioned.

Just like my patience with you is definitely insufficient, because I don’t love you.

So after you refute me a few times, I won’t want to explain to you anymore.

But if I love you, I will calm down and talk to you patiently, and I won’t interrupt you so many times.

Say it once isn’t enough, say it twice.

If two times doesn’t work, then three times.

I am afraid that you will misunderstand me, and even my words will become dull. I am afraid that I will say something wrong and you will not understand me, and I am afraid that there will be some misunderstanding between us.
Okay, sister.

That’s all.

There is no need for me to keep going around in circles here."

Girl: "...I understand. I won't waste your time then."

[Military Advisor's Remarks: Those who love you will never despise you. Those who miss you will always be more proactive than you. Those who care about you will tolerate and understand you no matter how much trouble you make.

Don’t ask what love is, willingly doing it is the best answer.

Details are not necessarily all love, but there are definitely details hidden in love.

Some people think you are not good enough, while others think you are good in every way. There is no need to stand on tiptoe, those who love you will naturally bend down.

What does appearance matter? What does age matter?
If it is true love, they will be together no matter what. It is just a matter of weighing the pros and cons. There are no exceptions!
Bros,
Time is limited. If you don't value it, why bother or please others? 】(End of this chapter)