I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

come on,

Next person.

Ding~
"Hey bro."

It's a girl.

Lin Feng; "Hello sister, what's the problem?"

Girl: "I want to talk to you in a private chat, what do you think of my problem from a male perspective?"

Lin Feng nodded: "Tell me about it."

Girl: “My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and we have been getting along very well because we are both very ambitious and on the same wavelength.

But now, he always talks to me in a condescending manner, which makes me feel very uncomfortable.

I have discussed this with him many times, but he is not willing to talk to you properly.

If you tell him, he will get angry.
And I also want to avoid this problem, I don’t want to have a direct conflict with him. "

Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard and said, "Sister, this has nothing to do with boys and girls, it has to do with people.

Stop talking about the male perspective. I just said, if you have something to say, just talk about it and don't create confrontation.

Regarding your question, this is how I see it: no matter whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as he doesn't like you, he will be impatient and unwilling to communicate.

I don't know if you can understand.
For example,

If I love you, then I am willing to listen to you and to be close to you.
Even if I notice that you are in a bad mood, I will immediately shut my stinky mouth.

The same goes for girls.
If she likes you, she will be willing to listen to you and be gentle, and will not criticize you.
In the final analysis, I just don't like you that much.

So he has a feeling in his heart, or even deep down he may look down on you, so he has a condescending attitude.

Are you asking if someone like me can get married?

You can also get married.

But it is you who is suffering.

Because some people stand in a high position all their lives and enjoy the convenience of emotions, but at the same time they despise you and are unwilling to communicate with you.

This kind of person lives a happy life and is very happy in his marriage, but you are in great pain.
And it is difficult to ensure that such a person is loyal to his relationship.

Because deep down I look down on you, I don't even want to communicate with you, so it's impossible for me to be sincere to you."

. . . . . .

On the barrage

"Your boyfriend's personal problem has risen to the level of a man (laughing and crying)."

"This girl has brushed her neck too much (grin)."

“Some people enjoy the convenience of relationships while disliking you (thumbs-up).”

"Brother always hits the nail on the head."

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: "Can you understand, sister? Don't create opposition. This has nothing to do with gender, it has to do with people.

Many girls are the same. If you say I don’t like you, then I won’t bother to answer you. Whether you are angry or not has nothing to do with me.

But if the person you like suddenly has a misunderstanding, and suddenly thinks that there is a misunderstanding between us and I haven't explained it clearly,

I'll call right away, baby, can you please listen to me?

Don't hang up yet, let me finish this sentence.

It’s always like this.”

Girl: "Brother, I didn't want to waste too much of your energy, so I didn't explain it in detail at the beginning.
Actually, he is not like this.

If I really ignore him, he will panic. "

Lin Feng waved his hand: "Don't talk nonsense, he will panic if you break up with him.

To be honest, many of the fish in the pond are about to escape, and the little fairy is also panicking."

Uh. .

Raymond Lam: "Don't look at what he says, just look at what he does when you ignore him.

You are just condescending and unwilling to communicate, which shows that there is inequality between you two in life.

If you insist on saying love, then love, and that’s all.”

. . . . .

On the barrage

"The fish in the pond ran away and the fairy was also panicked (laughing and crying)."

"The fish ran away, hahahaha, brother really understands."

"Who wouldn't be anxious if the spare tire was lost? After all, it's needed when changing tires (covering face)."

"So he's panicking because he hasn't found anyone easier to fool than you yet. Once he finds someone, he won't panic anymore (sunglasses)." "Conclusion: He's afraid of losing you, but he doesn't necessarily love you (dog head)."

What the hell!

The soldering iron pierced my heart.

. . . . . .

Girl: "No, no, I know very well that he can't find anyone better than me. I know that."

Lin Feng grinned: "What do you think?

You have a chicken feather number.

I have said before that people are three-dimensional and contradictory.

It's like you said you wanted to hear my opinion right away.
and then?
I told you but you didn't want to hear it, and you started to make amends frantically.

Not only you, but many people in reality are like this.
We usually stubbornly believe that this person is like this, and that he has this kind of personality.

The results of it?
You will find that even if he doesn't find someone better than you in the end, he may find someone worse than you, and he can still communicate with them patiently.
I still communicate with others in a soft voice.

Because people are three-dimensional and contradictory. It has nothing to do with whether they are excellent or not, but has to do with love.

Look, now many people say that I am not in favor of marriage and I will not get married.
As a result, he turns around and finds someone who is even worse than you and gets married.

He told you that he doesn't want to have children and he will never have children in this life.

Then he had a child with someone else.

So I said don't listen to what he said.

It depends on who you are talking to.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage

“People are three-dimensional and contradictory. It has nothing to do with excellence or not, but everything to do with love. (Thumbs up)”

"Big brother still has to be big brother, really insightful."

"Even if that person is not as good as you, but he just likes you, it is not the same as whether he can meet someone better."

Opponent.

"I know what's going on (laughing and crying)."

"You know how to handle him, why are you asking questions here (grin)?"

"Emotions can be so one-sided and confident."

"People always think they are special (dog head)."

Clicked.

. . . . .

Lin Feng: "You can feel whether it hurts or not. If you think it's okay, I can accept it. You don't have to ask."

Girl: "No, no, I didn't say I was in pain, I just felt confused about some issues. I've watched a lot of your videos, and I agree with many of the opinions you expressed."

Lin Feng waved his hand: "Don't talk about that. You said you recognized me, but I tried my best to explain it to you when you asked, but you still didn't say no.

Sister, aren’t you the one who raised all the questions?

You're the one talking.

I just gave my answer to your question, but you started to refute it.

Then you are never refuting my answer, you are refuting your own question. "

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"Yeah, what's wrong with this woman? She keeps refutating."

"Habitual rebuttal (laughing and crying)."

"I give up. Are you here to connect with the microphone or to participate in a debate (grin)."

"You are never refuting my answer, you are refuting your own question.. My God, who understands the value of this sentence."

"Big brother ended the fight with a KO (dog head)."

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng took a puff of his cigarette and said, “Okay, sister, if you insist on putting yourself on the pedestal of pure love, then that is love, and I won’t deny it.

Anyway, I have told you, everyone has their own opinions, and they still have to live their own lives.
Ask yourself whether you can live happily or not."

The girl suddenly fell silent. (End of this chapter)