I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Raymond Lam: "Old fans all know that I was once a class monitor when I was in school.

Why can I be the class monitor?

Because I study well?
That's not the case.

You see, some people in the barrage said that it was because the eldest brother was the class teacher’s lackey, hahaha.

Just laugh it off.

Nothing.

I tell you, it is true that I am the class teacher's lackey.

But there are too many lackeys in school.

Why am I the only one who can be the class monitor?

That's because I'm confident.

I actively fought for the position of squad leader.

At that time, the head teacher asked in class if anyone wanted to be a class leader, and asked them to recommend themselves. Responsible students could come up on their own.

No student dared to go up at that time.
I was different. I just stood up and went up.

Why am I so confident?

Because in my mother's eyes I am very good, she always says I am born to be a leader,
So I didn't hesitate at this time.

I stood on the podium.

The teacher asked several times, and I was still the only one who answered.

There was no one competing with me, so I was the first class monitor.
So I came here on my own.

It's not a side effect of being a lackey.

This is the effect of confidence.

Do you understand?
If you keep suppressing your child and asking him to be honest and obedient, then the child will not rush to the podium at this time.
He would not fight for his own interests, and will be a coward for the rest of his life."

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

“I really like the big brother’s mentality (pen refill).”

"I was brought up with a repressive education since I was young. I have low self-esteem, I am timid and introverted. When I was looking for a job for a while, my boss always told me that I was too introverted and not suitable (crying to death)."

"But my mom beat me every day when I was a kid, but after junior high school, my mom praised me every day. Now I am withdrawn (crying)."

“Why does being praised make me withdrawn? (Confused)”

“Because the external feedback does not match my self-perception (dog head).”

Clicked.

. . . . . . .

Lin Feng: "Some people may say that I am just a monitor, collecting homework for everyone, what is there to show off.

Then I can only say that you are naive and do not understand the importance of this right.
A guy just gave a good summary in a barrage post.

I am not a monitor to serve you. I am only responsible for the source of power.

What does it mean? Let me give you an example.

First of all, after I became the class monitor, my relationship with the head teacher became closer and I could enter the teacher's office.

I usually take the initiative to help the teacher clean and wipe the table.

I helped the teacher collect the cookies and other things on her desk.

I ate the leftovers myself.

This saves pocket money for buying snacks.

Even when it was my turn to be on duty, I would first take a broom to the teacher's office, help her sweep and mop the floor, and then go back to the classroom to clean.

Because I am good at dealing with things, my head teacher will definitely take better care of me.

If you are not the class monitor, can you enter the teacher's office at will?

Even if you want to clean, it's not your turn.

You said I licked.

I laugh at your ignorance.

This is called being responsible only for the source of rights.

When I get the power in my hands, I will remember whoever's name I want.

Are there any classmates who object?
Is there anyone who hates me?
there must be.

This is the negative impact of power, but I don't care.

So what.

They still can't unite, and there are still people playing with me.

Although I bully others by taking advantage of my power, I am just a bully.

But there will still be classmates who play with me.

Because I can let you copy my homework.

If you come in the morning and you haven't done your homework,
be honest,

I have a bad relationship with you, so I will collect the homework now and take it all to the office.

I also need to remember your name and type your report.

But if you have a good relationship with me, I will pick a book for you to copy, and you can copy any of my homework.

So what if you hate me? What if you oppose me? You can't overthrow me.

I am only responsible to the source of power.

The class teacher gave the rights, not you.

Hate what's wrong with me.

Do you think I like you very much?

I remember that the physical education teacher at that time pursued our class teacher and asked a friend to buy lychees for my class teacher. At that time, it was not like now, you could eat lychees and longans as you wanted.

At that time, it was a luxury for us and we had to keep it cold.

The head teacher ate a little and said that he felt a little irritated, so he stopped eating.

I carried the lychees out, took them to the classroom, and gave them to my classmates.

It looked like the lychees were from the head teacher, but they were actually a favor from me.

Originally, the head teacher asked me to throw it away because the lychees might have gone bad after being stored for a long time.
I don't throw it.
I took it to the classroom and gave it to my classmates who hated me.

What can you do?
You have to say thank you after you eat it."

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"It sounded really useful at first, but you gave me this at the end (covering my face and laughing)."

“Me: Fortunately, I wasn’t in the same class with my elder brother when I was a kid (wipes sweat).”

"The teacher told him to throw it away, but he gave it to his classmates to eat (grin)."

This guy is so cruel.

Hahahaha.

"I used to say he had a distorted outlook on life, but now I envy his mental state."

"I also want to praise my daughter, but I'm afraid she will get cocky, so I don't dare to praise her."

“It is better to be arrogant than to be inferior (dog head).”

"Just like the military advisor said, if you have low self-esteem, you will lose many opportunities to gain benefits."

Been taught a lesson.

. . . . . . .

Lin Feng: "You just said too much, let's analyze the specific issues specifically, sister, please continue."

Girl: "I became depressed when I was 18, and I also had a split. It's not because of my family background, it's probably something I was born with.

Then I stayed in the white coat department for a few months, and then went to a junior college.

After graduation, I looked for many jobs, but during all these years, I was always in a state of cognitive confusion.
So I didn’t learn anything, and I didn’t grow at all.

But it wasn't until last year that my mother decided to give it another try for me. After she took me to live in another city, things seemed to get better.

I don't know what happened, but suddenly I started to realize it slowly, and the intersection of all aspects of society seemed to become normal.
I don’t remember this process very clearly.
I have found a job now, and my working conditions are much better than before. It is completely different from before.

But now, when I interact with my colleagues at work, I am still very timid and dare not speak out.

It’s only after working for about half a year and becoming familiar with them that I feel more comfortable with them.”

Lin Feng knocked on the blackboard and said, "Listen to me, sister, don't mention depression or schizophrenia anymore.

Don't keep talking about it and tell it to everyone you meet.

Let me tell you,

For your disease, if the doctor says that he has finished the relevant treatment,

Then the disease is cured and no longer exists.

If you still don't have enough energy or a strong sense of strength,
That's not a disease.

You're exaggerating your emotions too much.

In fact, there is nothing wrong, they are all very normal things.

Don't always think that there is something wrong with you.

I'm not trying to comfort you.
Think about it yourself.

As a normal person, he just started working.
Before he was familiar with his work,

He must be very timid in front of those old employees.

He always asks others for advice very carefully.

Sometimes you may worry that if you ask the same question again, people will get impatient.

But as I got familiar with the work,
Just like you said, since we have been doing this for half a year, our professionalism has improved and we feel like we have adapted to this job.

In fact, this is a process.

Everyone who just joined the company will go through this process.
This is normal and not your problem.

Because self-confidence does not come out of thin air.

There must be a fulcrum that can support you.

Your fulcrum is mastering your job skills.

Even if I didn’t have high aspirations or a strong sense of power before, so what?
Life is a process of constant breaking and reshaping.

Can you understand?

People can constantly reshape themselves, constantly overthrow their past selves, and say goodbye to their past selves.

younger sister,

You are now cured and can move forward. "

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"Confidence is not something that comes out of thin air. You must find a fulcrum. Oh my god, that's a great point."

“Life is a process of constant breaking and reshaping (thumbs-up).”

"The last sentence made me cry. Big brother really is healing girls (so touching)."

“No matter how long it takes to reinvent myself, I will also reinvent myself (crying).”

"It's just a thought (dog head)."

I understand. (End of this chapter)