I am an emotional anchor, one sentence can break the defense of the whole network

Woman: “So what should I do now?”

Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette and said, “Some people cheated for the first time, but they didn’t pay a big price, they didn’t even feel the pain, and you just rushed to forgive them.

Then the second and third times will be a natural thing.

You ask me what to do?
Why not ask yourself what you want to do? "

The woman was silent.

Lin Feng sighed and said, “If you really want me to say it, it depends on the husband’s conditions.

If you only have some pots and pans in your home, it doesn’t matter if you retreat in time and just live your own life well.

If your husband has mountains of gold and silver, cherish him while you can.

Miss Ma's set is very effective.

So it depends on the specific situation.”

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"Pots and pans (laughing and crying)."

"Gold and silver mountains should be cherished while they are still there, big brother is really sincere (laughing to death)."

"Miss Ma (dog head)."

"It has to be said that these sunglasses are really excellent."

Hahahaha.

. . . . .

Woman: "Actually, our incomes are similar, because we both work in public institutions, about 10 yuan a year.
My family owns a house and has about 60 yuan in savings.
My family conditions are relatively poor.”

Lin Feng: "You have a job, and the conditions are not bad. It would be best to just leave.

But to be honest,

If you really wanted to leave, you wouldn't have come to find me.

Since you can't leave it for the time being, just grind it out.

In the end, he can't stand it anymore and he negotiates with you to divorce him.

I have already taught you how to do it.

Just one word: grind.

If you have children, you should focus on your life and your children.

Treating this person emotionally with rejection and indifference,
After a long time, it is possible that this person has some problems.

For example, when he comes home from get off work, you don't need to care about him anymore. I cook every day, and I only cook for myself and my children.

If he asks you, he asks why you don’t cook for me?
You can ask him back, do you think cooking is something I must do?

Am I the only one who depends on me in this family?

Don’t you have any hands or feet?

Can't you cook for yourself when you are hungry?

He has a fever and is sick, but you don't need to worry about him.

But I'm not a doctor, what can I do?
You have a fever and you took medicine.

If you can't do it, call 120.

That's it, only this kind of indifferent response,

The rest should focus on you and the child, and have no interaction with him.

But I definitely won’t get a divorce.

If you want to go to court and sue me for divorce, I am not afraid. I will say that you cheated on me and I will show you the evidence.
In this way, he cannot judge and cannot divorce.

You just wear him down and wear him down for a few years, and when he really can't stand it anymore, he comes to talk to you.
That's the reason why you should strive for the greatest benefit for yourself at that time."

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"If you are sick, go find the imperial physician. I can't treat illnesses (dog head)."

Hahahaha.

"If you treat me well, I'm your husband. If you treat me badly, I'm your farmhand (haha)."

"The main point is that you want money but not people (laughing and crying)."

"In summary: My husband earns money, and I am a widow (dog head)."

"Brother is giving bad advice again. This is hurting our brothers."

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Raymond Lam: "Someone on the barrage said, isn't this driving your husband towards being a mistress?

You didn't understand the essence.

I was just torturing him, not really trying to drive him out.

For example, if you really run away and don't come back, what if you go find a mistress?

it is good,
You are heartless, don't blame me for being ungrateful.

I'm going to your unit to make trouble.

It's a public institution, if he makes trouble he will die.

Do you think he dares to run outside?
But after I caught you, I didn't say that I really brought you back, that I was good to you, that I cared about you,

No,

I just want you to come back.

I will continue to be indifferent to you and continue to wear you down.

Can you understand?

If you dare to do anything with the mistress, I will bring you back, but even if I do, I will still not answer you.
It means torturing you repeatedly at home.

That's it. He won't be allowed to touch me anyway, so that's all. Just treat it as a game."

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

What the hell!

It's too cruel.

"Just for fun (dog head)."

"What are you playing? The cat is playing with the mouse (grin)."

“It’s pure torture (laughing and crying).”

"I treat you as my big brother, but you actually hurt my brothers (angry)."

"I'm going to unfollow you right now. I don't dare let my wife see it."

Hahahaha.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng: "If he says he can't stand it anymore and wants to fight you, sister-in-law, avoid the fight before we learn the ground lock technique.

I definitely can't beat you, but I can torture you.

I make you mentally tense.

Just put something in his ears every day.

For example, after he falls asleep in the middle of the night, you take a pair of scissors and sharpen them at his bedside.
Anyway, don't do anything illegal, just sharpen the scissors.

Oppress him mentally.

Then, next to the bed, there was a video of a husband beating his wife, who was killed by her in the end.
You can turn on the loudspeaker and listen to it at night.

What about those suspense cases and broken cases? How did the murderer deal with them?
You put these things.
He was constantly tortured mentally.

Or when you go to bed at night, you might just lie next to him and stare at him.

Don't say anything, don't bother him, just stare at him.

Your husband can't stand it anymore and asks you what you are doing. You say it's nothing and he's just looking at you.

Seeing him makes me feel scared and wants to have a conflict with you.

We just turned around and continued to sleep without saying a word.

If he asks you excitedly what you want to do, just go to sleep and ignore him.

After he fell asleep, we got up early in the morning and squatted beside his bed to sharpen the scissors again.

Just like this, step by step, he was kept in a state of mental tension for a long time.

As time goes by, the dominant position of this emotion will actually be reversed.”

. . . . . .

In the comments. "Sharpening a pair of scissors on the bedside in the middle of the night... No, brother, you can teach me everything (covering my face)."

"Sharpening the knife is like a pig's head."

"Who the hell can sleep like this (laughing and crying)."

"Scare him to death, hahahaha."

"Don't dare to offend the big brother, he has all kinds of tricks, it's too scary (frightening)."

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . . .

Woman: "But I feel like he wouldn't be tortured like me."

Lin Feng waved his hand and said, “It’s not about whether he can bear it or not, it’s just that I treat you this way.

Just like when I taught you the ground lock technique,
Everyone watched it for fun.
Do you think I'm kidding you? How about you in yin and yang?

That's not the case.

It’s the same principle as what I just said.

Since you can't leave, you're still torturing yourself.

I'd rather torture you.
I use the cross armbar and I use the rear-naked choke.

You can't run away, and you can't move.

He feels uncomfortable.

Although I may not be that happy.

it's fine.

You are also tortured.

After a while, your husband will finally be unable to bear it and break up with you. You can also take the opportunity to ask for more compensation.

of course,

It is also possible that you felt it was boring first, then you felt relieved and left.

Do you understand?

Even if I ask you to persuade you now, I can't, and you won't listen.

You are already grinding now.

It is better to grind him than to grind yourself.

The answer will come after some time of grinding. "

Woman: “But I think…”

Lin Feng raised his hand to interrupt: "Don't think that I have said everything I need to say. If you really don't understand, forget it. There is no solution."

"But..."

"Alright, alright, I don't want to hear it anymore, just forget it if you can't do it yourself.

You don't need to feed the child anymore, just live your life like a normal person first, otherwise your breast milk will be gone.

I'm serious.

If children drink too much, it may affect their IQ.
okay,

So be it. "

finished,

Lin Feng kicked the woman off the microphone.

. . . . . .

On the barrage.

"Big brother has explained it very clearly, but you still don't understand (grin)."

"It's such a good method, just use it directly, just follow it, no need to ask."

"I understand everything. I'll let you take the initiative, stupid!!"

"Big Brother: If you say that again, I will diss you (angry)."

Hahahahaha.

. . . . . .

Lin Feng took a puff of cigarette and said to the live studio: "If I really can't do it, it will be like that kind of disappointment, that dead ghost husband, I can't bear to grind at all,

Then you don't have to think about it, you deserve it.

My husband doesn't accept this.

I was convinced too.

In fact, I told you a long time ago.

Boys and girls are the same,
When you get your heart away from him and you are no longer so obsessed with him, you will find that some of his tricks are actually very crude.

Including when he is angry with you, when he uses PUA on you,
When you really don't care about him,

You will find that there is something wrong with this person.

of course,

When I care about you, if you get angry, I will comfort you, reflect on you, and follow your emotions.
But after I stopped caring about you, I found that you cheated on me repeatedly and you were not really sincere to me.

All of a sudden I can see through a lot of things.

I know how pretentious you are.

How stupid you seem to me.

This is what is gradually becoming clear.

Now you say you can't do it, or that your husband doesn't buy it.

Speaking of you, you're still very much into him.

I have a very high filter for him.

to be frank.

You only take your dead husband very seriously.
It will only let others bully you.

When you really get out there, your damn husband isn't actually that welcome.

There isn't a lot of stuff.

It's not inlaid with gold either.

So don't try to persuade such people, it's useless.

Not everyone can be like Miss Ma.

right.

Look how smart Miss Centaur is.

When you are facing the greatest public opinion, I will tolerate you with love.
Cherish every moment you have, once it is released, all public opinion will die down.

Everyone also praised her for her generosity and vision.

You feel like she is embracing you.

As a result, the mistress broke up with him as soon as she got married.

He couldn't get anything from the mistress, and he couldn't get anything from himself either.

Just ask you if you are awesome?
Of course, there are many people who are not as smart as Miss Ma.

The whole thing broke down, and he ended up marrying the mistress and clearing himself of all charges.

He married his mistress directly, and they broke up. You seemed to have become that shrew, and you became passive.

Miss Ma blocked the man's retreat in one breath, and kept nagging the mistress until she got married, and then immediately kicked her husband out.

On the contrary, by cherishing this period of time, Ms. Ma has planned her finances and various things, adjusted her mindset, and slowly experienced the withdrawal reaction.

See, this is the gap between individuals.

Don’t complain about your miserable life. The method has been given to you, but you just say you can’t do it.

Since you don't have that kind of thinking and brains, you deserve it."

. . . . .

On the barrage.

"Ms. Ma (dog head), a high-end player."

"The mistress got married and divorced immediately, leaving Xiaowen with nothing to gain (covering her face)."

"I would call this a textbook example of the original wife beating the mistress (thumbs-up)."

"Let's say, what would have happened if Mr. Wen had chosen to marry his mistress directly (sunglasses)."

"Reference to Mo Hyuk (raised eyebrows)."

"We both thought the same thing (laughing and crying)."

Hahahaha. (End of this chapter)